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just fantasies?
First off, I'm not sexually active and am pretty much a 'good girl' when it comes down to getting serious and sexual with any guy. The problem is, I have these very sexual, heated fantasies. When I meet a hot guy, and we start talking, I start to daydream about us having sex. I don't mean normal sex either - like rough, hard and in odd places. Is there something wrong with me? These fantasies are taking over my life and mind.
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haha your just normal girl.. happens to me alllll the time..
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The reason your most likely having these sexual fantasies is because your such a "good girl." Your curious about sex because you've never experienced it for yourself. Everyone has them at one point in time and personally, I think it's completely normal and actually healthy. I wouldn't fret much about it if I were you. Good Luck.
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//hannah
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i think that this is perfectly normal. it can be that u 15 and your hormones are all over it happened. at least i think.
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no theres nothing wrong with you its perfectly normal but damn tone it down a notch ;]
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no your a sex adict
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Haha we allhave those lol ill admit i have them they are just your hormones reacting! Its normal every person has them soo dont worry there is not a bit wrong with ya in tht catagory lol! hope i helped!
*MizZ TeE*
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no therfe is nothing wrong with youj maybe that is your own way of expressing your way about how you feel....maybe is you have sex with someone you will stop having these strange fantasies....maybe these fantasies are your bodys wayh of telling you IM READY TO HAVE SEX!!!!!.....hope i could help
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yea there is something wrong with you nedd to have sex with some one because if you don't then you well just have it hasppen to you over and over and over and over again so after you read this and you find someone that you really want to have sex with then do it and don't SCARED!!!
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I know the "good girl" title, all to well. I still am a good girl, but I'm a little more adventurous now. teehee.
I don't think the fantasies are anything to be worried about, it's totally normal. It means that you are excited about this new guy and you are hoping for something possiably down the road.
Good luck, have fun & play it safe if you decided to act out your fantasy ;)
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No theres nothing wrong with you,I mean i have sexual fantasies too every one does. thats just puberty for ya.
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If you haven't been active, your hormones are kicking in. It's human nature to desire sex. Howeer, these fantasies may be hard to achieve. You can't take a hot guy and immediatly start getting laid roughly. You have to go slowly...but I think you'll find gentler sex is much easier. Rough sex will come in several months, my boyfriend and I haven't achieved it yet and have been going out for over a year, but we are getting close. So it's perfectly okay to have sexual visions, but if you don't like it, it's even more okay to get rid of them by having sex! Just remember you can't demand rough, odd sex immediatly. Sex is an art that takes time to practice and learn.
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No, it's completely normal to have sexual fantasies like that. My guess is maybe you are tired of being seen as such a good girl and everyone expecting you to be perfect. In your head, you know what's right, but you can't help but want to do something "wrong" every once in awhile. When people think of us as being a "goody-two shoes" it can make us want to prove them wrong. I have been kind of going through the same thing. Everyone always thinks that I am a good girl and I'll never do anything bad, but I think about sex it seems like 10x more than anyone else. The only way I could get out my frustration was to talk to my friends about it in private. It helps to get it out rather than to hide it. As long as you aren't acting on your fantasies, I wouldn't worry about it.
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Thats perfectly natural! You're probably just ready to have sex with that special person. Don't worry about it...it'll pass sooner or later.
*Randy*
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As was said by others I believe its just part of the bad girl starting to overcome the good girl so to speak. Especially still having your virginity, I think we all have had fantasies about having sex and doing wild things. I dont think you have anything to worry about. Nothing is wrong with you, it's just part of how we grow and develop, and of course never expiriencing it.. your going to think about it, and more than usual. Believe meh, once you lose your virginity, you will no longer have such fantasies or not as strong. Dont get meh wrong, dont go out there tomorrow and just have sex with some random guy...but its ok to think and daydream. Its not taking over your life or mind, your just curious and hormones and everything else are going. It's puberty. You will be fine and as suggested, if your really getting uncomfortable with these fantasies... talk to someone you trust and get the help you need.
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It probably just means, your ready to break free from the :good girl: thing u wanna be wild and dont know how so ur sources are fantasies!
Hope this helps!
--xO-xO--
Cady
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Don't worry, it's just like, HELLO hormones. There's nuthin wrong. But if this continues, talk to someone you know and trust.
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Those are just raging hormones. its natural..hope I helped
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