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she's annoying!
ok...my best friend Bethany gets really annoying sometimes and she always makes up lies to make her life sound cool and exciting. She told everyone that shes smoked weed...and she hasnt. and she told everyone that she's not a virgin, and she is. and she just get's really annoying and i get mad at her easily cuz it bothers me and i jus say whatever comes to my mind and most of the time, its not very nice. and i wanna be friendz cuz shez awesum and i love her, shes muh bestest friend ever, but if i keep sayin wut comes to mind, i*ll lose her. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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just tell her that she needs to stop lying to people about her life. tell her you love her forever and ever but shes pissin u off. if she refuses to stop, just tell her to stop lying while your around.
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Well maybe she's jealous..? Maybe she wants to make her life sound more exciting so people will like her..? Who knows? You won't until you talk to her. You should talk to her and ask her if what she's saying is true. If she says 'no', then ask her why she said those things. You could help her with anything. If she's your best friend, she SHOULD be able to talk to you about it. AND keep your thoughts to yourself! It's tough, but keep trying. It will make things more peaceful. OR if you have to say something, change it to something nicer..THEN say it. GOOD LUCK! I hope I helped some :)
-casey <33
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You need to sit down, and talk to her about it. Apologize for the things you said. Think bfore u speak thats about all i can say.
beSt luck
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--Cady--
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Just keep your comments to yourself. yeahs its hard but just do it. Your friend is probbaly going through this immature stage where she thinks she needs to impress people and stuff. Just let her be, she will grow out of it and realize how stupid she sounds on her own.
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wow...you are like living my life! I had the same exact problem with a girl named Kara. She tried to tell everyone that she surfed and went to Hawaii and Cancun but she didn't. I talked to her about it and told her that she needed to stop telling people the she did these things! If she starts to get mad or upset then just tell her that you love her and you want to be best friends its just that you don't like her lying!
-!-Hope I Helped-!- ~*Britt*~
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that sounds exactly like one of my frends!!! omg its like scarey!! lol yeah i just ignore her lies nd try really really hard to keep my mean comments to my self nd if they slip out i say like madd sarcastically so they dont htink im serious wen i am its not really the nicest thing but i get away wit it lol hope that helps
.:Keryn:.
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omg! that so sounds like me n my good friends..i'm always getting mad at my friend Kelleye and Hannah...but the thing is Kelleye understands y i get mad at her n i always tell her i'm srry for getting mad at her she jst pisses me off n i jst go off on her...n Hannah...shes a slut so i yell at her about that...but i mean i try hard not to yell at them n stuff...jst after u cool down go back to her n tell her ur srry n u didn't mean to bit her head off but she jst gets on ur nervous sometimes..n u can't help it...n most likely shell understand...cuz Hannah n Kelleye do...plus i'm also the type of person that has a really BAD attutide problem...but ne'ways i hope i helped let me know...
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You should talk to her and say that lying about stuff she does, doesnt make her popular. people might think she's a slut or something. yea you get attention if people think your not a virgin, but not the attention you want.
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hey hun! that realli sucks but the best advice i have is just to sit down with her and tell her that you are getting annoyed by her! and that you don't want people thinking of her as a slut or a trouble maker cause that is a bad image and tell her that if she wants to continue on being your best friend she has to stop what shes doing! i know it may seem hard but i might work! well rate me please! thanks!
<3*Chelsea xoxo
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Tell her something such as "I really don't want to hurt your feelings or break our friendship, but I just want you to stop lying about everything. You don't have to lie to make yourself cool, I think you're cool just the way you are. And I really don't want to see you get hurt if someone were to find out you were lieing." Yeah, it sounds like I've been through this before or something, but I really haven't. I hope you and her work this out! =)
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