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anybody know of any good drinking games other then quarters? something easy to play without alot of stuff. for liek 2 to like 5 players

i saw one online where you watch a movie (this one was for dazed and confused) and everytime a character does something, you take a drink. like in mean girls... everytime someone flips their hair, take a drink... you'll get pretty drunk.

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is there anyway u can increase your cup size?
thanx

if you gain weight, they'll grow. just wait tho, they will grow.

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I just got a brand new 2007 Honda Civic for my 16th birthday. My friends and I all name our cars. I know it's strange but that's what we do haha. Well, I can't think of a name. My car is a deep blue//royal purple in the sun and it's a "male" car. A list of guy names that would fit my model//color car would be great! Thanks y'all!

Rick, purple haze pat, fredrick, sebastian. that's all i can think of haha!

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15/Female

Are there guys, around the age of 15 or 16, who just want a relationship of holding hands, kissing and making out (but not sex) anymore? I don't think I even know any guys who want relationships like that. Do I just know the wrong guys or is the majority wanting more?

Thanks! :)

i know it seems like there aren't any like that any more, but there are. you just have to wait and find them. I know a few like that but sometimes the girls are the ones that want more than that! so yes, the majority wants more but later you will meet different guys that aren't just about sex so don't give in thinking it's the norm.

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I know this is a shallow question, but I'm just curious. Honestly, can a person be considered "sexy" if she has really small breasts and a tiny butt, but the rest of the body is really great looking to make up for it? I know it's not a good question. But I don't dare ask anyone in person. And where else am I supposed to learn such things?

yes! sexy is an attitude... like confidence and how the person carries themselves. different people have different tastes... some people want big, curvacious women and some like really thin, know what i mean? so yes i honestly think that can be considered sexy, especially if there is a lot of confidence and stuff.

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how to make friends in highschool?
cause im very very nervous

don't be nervous... everyone else is too. be yourself, laugh a lot, be friendly, meet all the people you can, talk to people around you and stuff. don't be shy!

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I cuss a lot, and I want to stop. How can I stop cussing so much?

i just wanna say that you shouldn't try to put in "fudge" instead of fuck. that's just as bad. anyway, think of better words to use... maybe more/better descriptive. i too have a potty mouth and i had to clean it up for some people so i know what it's like. just tell yourself that you look stupid and you won't do it as much. the putting money in a jar thing is good... just dont let it get outta hand.

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I shave my bikini line and I always get really irritating and unsightly razor burn...any suggestions for home remedies/products that cure razor burn or a new hair removal technique that will prevent razor burn?

shave downwards and put on lotion, anti-itch cream and roll on/gel deoderant. it works for me!

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I'm fifteen years old and I seriously need some money. I have to pay my parents back for buying a chihuahua for me. I don't want to work in fast food like my parents want me to, so my question is if anyone knows of some good places that will hire me. I was considering working at a tanning salon called "Tanland" but I heard you have to be at least sixteen to work in a tanning salon. Is this true?

Thanks.

you could probably get a job at a salon like cleaning up/dusting, etc but not at a tan place or doing any services. grocery stores do but they're awful places to work (all my friends complain.) maybe you can wait till you are 16 and can get a decent job.

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My mom never lets me leave the house. I can't convince her to, and since I have to stay around the house all day, what can I do besides watch TV and movies all day?

P.S.-I'm only allowed on the phone and computer for 30 minutes a day, and if I do one, I can't do the other.

aww i'm sorry! are you grounded? sheesh! even then that's a bit harsh! get some magazines and make some cool collages, draw pictures, listen to music, dance around, watch a music video and learn the whole dance, write in a diary, paint your nails everyday/all different colors/ make bracelets/hemp necklaces, organize beads by color or shape, clean your room or rearrange it, put your closet in color order, read, make a craft, bake, put on some really cool clothes and make up and take pics, wear things you'd never actually wear out and take pic like in magazines, get a babysitting job. if you can go outside: run, ride your bike, plant flowers, water them, meet your friends somewhere, go for a walk..
i hope this keeps you busy for a while!!

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14 yrs.
my boyfriend and i are planning on going to second base. and i wanna shave "down there" and idk if using a razor is the right thing, is there any kit thing i could use to wax it or is there any type shaving thing then just a normal razor and shaving cream. whats the best thing to do to not get red bumps or a rash or anything.
thanks, ex oh.

actually razor works fine. you have to do it the right way tho... and not shave ALL of it because that isn't healthy. (he shouldn't mind). i know people with BAD waxing experiences so i don't think i recommend it. to shave, do this to avoid redness/bumps/itching:
1. trim the area down as short as you can (this is good for the parts you won't be shaving, know what i mean?)
2. get in the shower and after washing your hair, shaving your legs, etc (basically like 15-20 in there)..
3. lather up with soap and shave downwards. and some sideways cuz that's how some hair grows.
4. pat dry... put on moisturizer then hydrocortisone cream (anti-itch stuff) then on the bikini area, use a gel or roll on deoderant to keep the bumps away.
you should be good to go!

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I really need to lose weight before volleyball... i'm 5'8 and 125 and i wanna be around 115 or 110 so like how can i lose weight fast????

instead of losing weight (which you don't need to since you are tall), work out to get stronger. you might gain weight because muscle is heavier but it's worth it come vball season! do lunges with hand weights, push ups, sit ups, stuff you would normally do at conditioning and have a great season. if you try to lose all the weight fast, you won't be healthy and you won't play as well.

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I'm 13/f.My friend is 13/f too.Here's what happened:
I bought some new clothes for school.I showed my friend while she was at my house.She said my clothes were ugly.She then proceeded to go to my closet.Needless to say,she got my into giving her some pants,a nice leather jacket,a hat,and some make-up.I don't know how she does it!She just begs me for it.So,when I ask to borrow her lipgloss,she says no.I give her all this stuff(unwillingly),and she won't even let me borrow her lipgloss.and,she insults me too.She says I have no style.I want to start out fresh next year.So:Should I dump her because of this,or still be her friend?

eww that is absolutely RUDE of her! i would ask for everything back and not talk to her again b/c that is so dumb! if you have "no style" she can go buy her own damn things! dang i want to slap her... and i don't even know her. she's not your friend... start out fresh and make some good friends.

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My friend is doing drugs a lot. She smokes weed every day and does ecstacy a few times a week. I have talked to her about it a lot, and she's not going to change. I don't know if I should tell her mom or do something else. So what should I do?

oh dang... if it was just weed then there wouldn't be a huge problem but ecstacy... you should probably tell her parents. she might hate you forever but that stuff will do things to her. theres nothing else you can do really.

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If one was really thin and then put on weight, could she increase her cup size?

yep! i recently put on some weight and all sorts of things got bigger *wink.

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whats the disney movie with donald duck and they are like in mexico and stuff

the three caballeros!

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I've been looking for a chihuahua for about a month now. I've finally found a breeder and picked out my puppy. I picked out a girl and she's white with light brown specks here and there. She's so beautiful but I cannot pick out a name. I'm picking her up in about a week and I need a name for her. I just can't pick one out. Any ideas?

Thanks in advance.

hmm bella, princess, precious, baby (haha original, i know!), gorgeous, miss new booty, miss pimp, pretty baby... something cute i suppose.

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Alright, before I ask my question I want you guys to know that even though it's kind of funny, I'm being completely 100% serious.


Last night I was over at a friends house and we found his step mom's...dildo. Well someone thought it'd be funny if we put Icy Hot on it so that whenever she uses it...well you know. I thought it'd be funny as well so I went with it. When I got home I realized that it was a pretty immature thing to do and I was questioning whether or not I should call her and tell her about it or to tell my friend to wash it off or something before she gets to it. What do y'all think I should do? Or should I just not say anything?

wow that's hilarious! i probably would have done the same thing, actually! well you could either leave it there and see what happens... or you should tell your friend to wash it off but it might be obvious? i'm not really sure. it depends on how guilty you would feel, know what i mean? i think you should call your friend and have it wash it off... i think it was a big enough thrill to find one and laugh at her stepmom haha.

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any good books you would like to suggest on about dealing with drugs and like teenage life and what a teenager goes through? like go ask alice, a million little pieces and stuff like that

well a teenage book not dealing with drugs (but mostly violence, sex, relationships) is shattering glass. it's pretty good.

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Where can i buy iron on clothing labels? (So my child does not loose any clothes while she is at summer camp.) thank you

I think craft stores have them. My mom got some at a uniform sale at school so you could try a uniform store.

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