Q: 14/m
ok so i was talking to the girl that i used to like and still kindof do, we havent seen each other in a while cuz we go to dif schools but weve stayed familiar over the internet. i asked her yesterday if she wanted to make out or sumthing next weekend when we are gonna be at a bonfire at my house and she said YEAH! and talked about how she liked me and stuff.. so heres my question.. - how far do u think i can get with this girl?

Q: heyy ok.. umm this has been going on for about a month now and i really cant take it anymore! my friends think ive changed, they think im dramatic, and they think im obbsessed with gossip.. me nd my 3 best friends have been best friends for 2 years now and everything was perfect then.. we never faught.. we never talked about eachother.. nd we were always there for eachother.. this year is different nd were all starting to fight.. nd my 1 friend always takes other peoples sides wen i fite with them.. its like she hates me.. nd i dont think any of them trust me.. nd oh yea my really good friend and i have been hanging out more nd they think i like her better then them and i dont! and they dont believe me wen i say i dont! i said i wanted to kill myself nd some1 told the guidance office nd now i have a therapist! ughh.. my parents now kno about it nd no1 leaves me alone at all anymore! nd another reason why they think ive changed is becuz i smoke nd im 13.. i kno its not smart but ive only done it a couple of times cuz people say it relieves stress nd as u can see theres been alot of that going on in my life! well thanx sooooo much for reading this and please give me adivice.. it would mean alot to me!

Q: Okay so I went to this party last night and this guy that was there was like "why the hell are YOU here?" because I'm straight edge and I don't do drugs and stuff.. And he kept insulting me and saying crap and it really pissed me off because we have mutual friends and he thinks I'm a "loser" because I don't do drugs and drink and have sex and stuff.. So what should I do to keep myself from kicking his ass? because he's really really starting to piss me off.. And I'm going to have to deal with him for a really long time.. So yeah.. Sorry if this is long.

Q: well lately my friend has totally been flirting with my boyfriend.She knows she does it but she just shrugs it off.I hate it!!like we will be walking in the halls together and she will come right between us and rather close to him i might add.i dont wanna ruin our friendship, but me and this guy really love each other.we've been together through thick and thin.Please help me and i hope this wasn't to long.

Q: couple of nights ago i had sex with one of my best friends we were really into the moment and we did it without a condom i pulled out way before i came and she orgasmed and the next mornin she started her period. i know im prolly being paranoid but i always hear theres a chance of a girl being pregnant even if the guy didnt cum so if anyone knows how high the chance of her being pregnant is please tell me thank you.

Q: I am 17 and i am kinda seeing a 18 year old, she has a boyfriend but they havent got along or had sex or anything for a couple of months. we started talkin and started going out on dates and seeing each other. We had sex after like 2 months of talkin and now we have done it about 15-16 times, and she broke up with her boyfriend, how long should i wait to ask her out

Q: Ok this is a stupid question but i'll ask it anyway. What should you tell a guy if he ask you if you're a virgin? Evereyone is telling me different. some of my male friends tell me that you should defenetly tell them that your a virgin because all guys like the girls to be like pure and clean and stuff (i dont know, thats what they tell me) and that if your a virgin they will like you more because it will be like a big deal for them..you know, to get a virgin to lose her virginity is big, it will make them proud of them selves or something. And some of my friends tell me that they always go for girls that lost their virginity already because that would make them more experienced and stuff.And it will make the sex better.. And that it wont be as gross as having sex with a virgin..I dont know im soo confused! I dont want the guy to think that im a slut! but should i tell him that ive already done it so he likes me more? please don tell me to tell him the truth! tell me the truth, what do most guys like?

Q: hi, i am 13 years old and i no a friend and i think she has an eating disorder. She always watches her weight and what she eats. She looks at herself everynight and sees if she gained any weight. But everytime I ask her if she is, she says no. Do you think she has an eating disorder and if so how can i help? please help me asap...i rate high.
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Q: I know this is wrong but i got myself into some serious mess.My bestfriend has a bf and they been together for 9 months and the other day me and him saw each other at this one place and we ended up in his car doing things.I feel really bad i don't know if i should tell her or not.I dont want to but i dont want her finding out from anybody else because i love her so much she is like my sister.IM confused plz help!

Q: Okay so me and this kid have been going on again off again. We always end up breaking up beacause he obviously cant control his hormones,and i always end up taking him back. Well weve been split up for a while now and he wants to start dateing again. I know what could happen but i still like him. what should i do?

Q: lately i feel really distant from my friends ..like they dont care about me or want to sit with me at lunch and stuff. I dont know how to talk to them about this, because when i do they roll their eyes and call me sensitive. I could never tell them that i cry alot becasuse of this ..please help

Q: Hmm... Where to start. Ok, so I've been going out with this girl for a couple of months and it's been amazing. Some of the best months of my life. And I have this friend that I think has a crush on her. He will always play with her hair and like give her little nicknames, and that stuff of the sort. Also, her one friend keeps asking me how much I like her and stuff like that. It is just kinda suspicious. What do you think, should I worry or what?

Q: HELP!im 14/f..here it goes..in like october i started kinda fooling around with an eating disorder but didnt really realize i was. since then ive collapsed twice..im really getting scard somethings really wrong with me bc of this! my sister knows & she thinks i told my mom and that im all good now. i feel guilty that im basicly lying to my sister when she asks me how its going and im scard ive done some kinda permanent damage to my body! i really dont want to be known as that girl with an eating disorder but its hard not to be!

Q: well, theres this thing at school that i was really looking forward to and my clingy little sister wouldn't let me go, and i'm also part of the school thing.. so now i'm late and i'm all pissed off and i dunwanna walk in when i'm late and i'm really really mad rite now and i wanna start beating ppl up like literally breaking things and crap and i hafta blow off sum steam so how can i do that without like. hurting nebody?

Q: Here's the deal. I am 21/f. My mother and father are divorced. My father has a son (with another woman) and he has my little brother(with my mom) my whole brother stays with my mom. Every since they split 10 years ago my father has not been doing much of anything for my brother. He only gives him something on christmas and his birthday. He hardly ever sees him and I am furious. I feel he should pay child support to my mother for my whole brother. My momma is having to carry all the weight that he should be sharing. My half brother gets to see daddy all the time. Why should my half brother get all and my whole brother gets next to nothing. If it matters My half brother is 13 (born out of wedlock) and my whole brother is 12) Should I push her to stick him for child support. She feels that since my dad and my step mom raised me she has no right because he didn't stick her for child support. My mom did things for me though. Should I push her or just back off.
The lack of money is keeping my brother from things he would rather do like piano lessons, boy scouts and movie going. I don't think its fair. Help me decide!

Q: Sorry this is long.
My stepmother is really scaring me. She really has psychological problems. It started with little things like her moving my stuff, or ripping it up, or being jealous over my mother and father who were still friends at the time. She started coming with my father in the car every time he picked me up because she was so untrusting and thought he'd go off with my mother in that 20 minute time. I don't see them any more because of completely unrelated issues, but we started getting odd stuff through the post about a year or two ago (around when all this odd stuff started happening). Stuff like magazines writing to us saying a friend had referred us and stuff. It got worse; with items actually being ordered and sent to us - pornographic books, clothes catalogues for women over 50 or size 16+, that kind of thing. Around six months ago we recieved a parcel that said 'From Connor' on the back. Connor is my seven year old cousin. The parcel had an 18 rated horror movie in it that had obviously been watched before. We checked with Connor and his mum and they definately did not send this.
Then two nights ago, we got an envelope with 'from Ryan' (my other younger cousin) on the back and a picture of me in a swimming pool inside. We couldn't figure out why Ryan would send me a picture of myself so rang him up but his mother and him both confirmed none of them sent this envelope. The next day (yesterday) we got another one, still saying from Ryan, this time with several parts of pictures - cut out so I was the only one in the picture - of me in the same swimming pool, this time with the fragments of pictures stuck on a piece of purple card. I recognised the pool this time, it's a place I went on holiday with my stepmother and father a couple of years ago.
So, it's obvious it's from my stepmother (who really hates me and my mother, I should add). But I don't know what to do about it. Me and my mother are considering the police, but I;m not sure. I don't want her to be charged or whatever and then get all mad and come after us - because she is psychotic like that. I don't want to have to be part of witness protection or something, and there is a huge possibility that she would keep doing this or doing worse if we accused her of anything. What the hell do we do?
Thanks, and sorry it was so long.
xxx

Q: My parents are making me go back to counciling again! UGH! NO. I went before and the counciler was USELESS and i'm going back to the same one. I hate going, councilers are POINTLESS especially when you don't want help and I honestly think there is nothing she can do. My parents are making me go because I fight with them too much and I'm not as perfect as my brother and they hate that and me. Yeah, well, now i have to go back and I have to miss social studies every Thursday. People WILL catch on. Theyll ask me where ive been, like before when i used to go, and I don't kno what to tell them! i cant say i had a dr's appintmet, EVERY THURSDAY. Plus, i'm going to end up failing that class! i havea C already, so if i miss class it'll just get worse. MY MOM TOLD ME THAT IM GOING BACK IN FRONT OF KIDS AT MY SCHOOL AND MY TEACHER. WHat a bitch.
how can I prove to my parents that she doesn't do jackshit and its a waste of money?

Q: hey im 13/f and i have been shaving since i was 11 but my mom doesnt know cuz i never asked her im way to scared to talk to her about anything
what do i do?
real question:how do i ask my mom that i want to shave?
boy im inbaressed

Q: I've been really close with my friend Ron for a little while now. We are both 15 and we tell each toher almost everything. Recently I ahve been feeling something more for him. We joke around though like I always give him nuggies and in return he puts me in a head lock or something. Yesterday he was towering over me just to see how much taller he is then me and I jsut wanted to lean up and kiss him. Which I might have done if my other friends were not around. I just don't know how he feels about me though. He read a poem that I wrote about him and he really liked it. So today he shows me a song he wrote and it was about his life but then in one part it said

"When times get rough his thoughts to to her, she has helped me through so much.
I will always be there
Don't let me dissapear"

I know it was about me but the second part I can't tell if the second part is saying that he'll always be there for me or that Hes always going to be there and he doesn't want to be forgotten, as if he's afraid to be forgotten. Which he knows I would never forgett him. So today I gave him another poem I ahd written about him and it had said that I never wanted him to leave and that when I move I need him to call me jsut to say hi so i know he still cares. Well he saw it and hes like "Whats this?" And I told him and his eyes sort of lit up in a good happy way. I have such confused emotions about him. I like him so much its scary I know its not love but I scare myself at how much I like him. What should I do? And do you think he might like me as a girlfriend or jsut as a friend?

Q: I’m 14/f and no one have ever asked me out on a date. I am not ugly in fact I recently learned that the boys from my old school which I left 1 ½ years ago thought I was the prettiest girl in the class. I am extremely shy and I really can’t flirt. Also usually even if I like someone I am very cold to them for a long time, it’s like a protective action. But now I just feel so lonely!

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