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A girl in my group of friends who i HATE is moving ..all my friends are like crying but i cant wait till she moves -is this wrong of me? Im kind of confused and its hard to keep it from my friend but i know if i told them i was happy theyd think i was a bitch ..what do i do??

Dont tell them just act sad untill she goes then you can be all happy then

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i need some help on what eye shadows and liners to wear. i have brown eyes and i want to be able to bring them out. any suggestions? thanx 4 ne help in advance.

use cream and brown colours dont wear blues or greens it will just make you look awful

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Ok my neighbor is bi and she invited me over one time with her and another bi girl who i didnt kno was bi but then we got really really drunk and i made out with both of them and i woke up and i thought it was REALLY gross i mean ok and then i found out they werent drunk but i was and so they kept telling me i was bi and im like NO IM NOT and they keep telling me i am soo i dont believe them but am i?

no your not a bi they just set you up you didnt no what you was doing because you was drunk and thats there fault not yours keep away from them and just ignore them

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so a few weeks ago i started a new diet. i'm just eating healthier; more fruit, vegetables and healthier alternatives to food i used to eat. but ever since i started i've been having to go to the bathroom alot more. is this normal? will my body eventually get used to this new food?

If you drink alot of water that can make you need the loo but sometimes starting a new diet can make your body need to go to the toilet alot more because its a new thing for you and your body

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ok heres how it goes this girl that hates me because someone else hates me has come back from the roc a place for trouble makers and one of my friends is her friend well anyway she came back and my other friend hangs out with her nonstop and i dont wanna talk to her while that one girl is around cuz she hates me. so ii call my friend up and tell her how i feel but she doesnt even really seem to notice shes just happy that shes back and im happy for her but like now i have no one really to hang out with cuz they all hang out with that one girl you get what im saying?

I think you should find a new bunch of friends your friend should understand that the other girl isnt very nice to you so think you should leave her to it because you deserve better

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hi ive got this friend and shes usin our group of friends. like one minute she would be with us, the next she would be with these other people and then she would go onto another set of people. we've all told her but she wont listen!
wat should our group of friends do?

Talk to her about if that doesnt work leave her and let her go her own way thats her fault not yours
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Help! I have a friend who thinks i like another friend better when i dont! I like them both the same, they're my bestest friends! She doesnt believe when i say i like them the same.
What can i do to make her believe?
signed-Frustrated Friend

Just take her out or let her sleepover at your house and let her see thats shes just as important as your other friend and you like them the same

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ok I finally met this kid who ive been talking to on the internet.. and im so confused with the way I feel about him. Its like I couldnt decide whether I liked him or not. Im basically preppy girl, and hes a punk rock (dude) kind of guy. Hes so different than the guys I hang around, and I cant decide if its good or bad. I know him and my guy friends wouldnt get along, and I dont know what to do or how to feel. I'm so confused. Any help?.. I rate :-)

I think you like him its alright do be different you no you just need to see him for who he is and not what sort of styles hes into

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Pfff.. I just realised how BORING my life is!!! I wake up at six, go to school, come back at 4, do homework, go on the computer, sleep. What a nice life eh??? NOT!! its just soooo boring! i have nothing better to do. Any ideas?

You could go to the cinema or go bowling
get a job in a hairdressers or doing something you enjoy go out clubbing or join a dance class or acting class its a great way to make friends

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i really really hate my appreance..ne suggestions on how to make myself more comfortable wit the person i see when i look in the mirror?

Just look at other people around you there all different shapes and sizes some are small and thin some are tall and over weight but all i can say is be happy with your self i bet your a beautiful girl
and just be happy

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Is there a nice way to say "you're clingy and I need space." I really like this person, but I would like a little breathing room. Is there anyway to say without making them all defensive and stuff.

Just tell them that you need some space and want to spend time with other friend at the same time

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i think my best friend is either bulemic or anorexic. she weighs about 119 pounds, wears a size 0 jeans and she constantly goes on about how shes fat. SHE IS NOT AT ALL. she graphs her weight on a chart (i saw it) and it's REALLY starting to scare me. what should i do? talk to somebody about it, talk to her...? please help!!

Talk to her about it tell her that shes not fat and doesnt need to be throwing up
go see a counsiller at school
about her problems mabe you could go together
roxie
hope ive helped
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Hey , I have a question. I have this like lump sort of thing inside of my breast. I'm not sure what it is. I don't think that it is breast cancer.. but I really don't know what else it could be. Help please! I'm freaked out.

P.S. I'm 13.

Around your period your breasts tend to get a bit sore and are all lumpy but some peoples arnt just to be on the safe side go see a women doctor
roxie
hope it all goes well
xxxx

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ok i've had sex numerous times (with the same person who ive been datin for a mad long time) but the problem is i have gotten my period this month and ive taken several pregnancy tests and they all came back neg. why havent i gotten it yet? i would talk someone but my mom would be so dissapointed because my sister had kids at an early age and i'm her "last hope" please tell me wats wrong

You could just be late lots of girls are irregular if your worried go see your doctor about it with a friend or parents it depends who you wanna go with
and just hope for the best
roxie
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My friend, we are really good friends, he told me that he likes me, more than a friend. I told 4 of my friends, when I wasnt supposed to tell anyone, but people have to find out someday. He got upset, so to make him feel better, i said i like him more than a friend too. But really, im not sure how I feel. Im really frustrated. I don't want to hurt his feelings...Please Help!!!
Ana

Well just tell him that you need some times to think about your friendship and if you become a couple will it spoil your friendship tell him that you like him to but need some time to think
do whats best for you
go for it
roxie
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my parents are divorced and it seems that all my friends have a very happy family. i cant help but feel theres something wrong with me...why cant i have a perfect family and perfect life like everyone else? what have i done wrong!??!

You havent done anything wrong and your life isnt perfect everyones lifes arnt perfect even if they say they are lots of couples i no have split up it doesnt mean they have stop carring for you its just that there not in love anymore.
I tell you that everyone life isnt perfect no one in the world there is always some faults
roxie
hope all goes well
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ok, so i broke up with my boyfriend last year, but i think i still like him. the only thing is he likes my best friend, should i get him back, and how, or let go? my best friend doesn't like him.

Why dont you ask him how he feels if he likes you ask him out if he just sees you as a mate stay his mate
roxie
all the best
xxx

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Ok so I'm 15/m, and I was at a school function, and some girl that I didn't know danced with me. So after I left she got my AIM screen name from one of my friends and went home and asked me to the prom and and asked if I would go over to her house Friday to have dinner and a movie and all that stuff. Problem is, I really don't like her, and I don't really know her at all either. What should I say?

Let her down gentally tell her that your just not interested in a relationship at the moment and that you want to be a single lad for a bit
luv roxie
xxx all the best

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I'm 26 and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years next month. We've talked about marriage on and off and it's always been a positive conversation from his point of view, I've always been more hesitant but have realised I really do want to marry him. So! I am thinking of surprising him and popping the question!

Even though it isn't leap year is it ok for girls to propose to boys and if so what do you get them!?

Guys and gals I need your help!

Yes its fine go for it and i wish you good luck and he probley will say yes
all the best
roxie
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ok look i kno this chick and we've been goin out for about 9 months and she wants to do stuff really bad and dont get me wrong i do too but i am not done with puberity and i am shy about it i dont kno what to do what do i do? what do i say? should i just go for it and see what happens or should i just wait?

P.S. we love each other VERY much!! :)

Its your choice really depends how you feel
about her and your self if your not ready
your not ready just tell her that

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