Help! I have a friend who thinks i like another friend better when i dont! I like them both the same, they're my bestest friends! She doesnt believe when i say i like them the same.
What can i do to make her believe?
signed-Frustrated Friend
TaylorLuvsYou010 answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 3:55 pm: well, take them some where where you 3 can just talk..just the 3 of you..and ask her why do you think that you like the other person more! and dont just tell her that you like her the same...show her that you mean it! [ TaylorLuvsYou010's advice column | Ask TaylorLuvsYou010 A Question ]
CraziForRey619 answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 2:50 pm: I think you should sit her down and tell her that you DON'T like the other person more than her. Make sure you spend your time with both people evenly. She is probably just jealous that you have other people of importance. Besta Luck [ CraziForRey619's advice column | Ask CraziForRey619 A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 1:52 pm: Just take her out or let her sleepover at your house and let her see thats shes just as important as your other friend and you like them the same
karenR answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 12:38 am: some people are just insecure.Are you ignoring her when the other friend is around? or does the other friend try to dominate conversations when she is around? Just try to make sure she is included.Your two friends may not like EACH OTHER.If that is the case then be sure you hang out with both.She needs to realize that people can have more than one friend at a time and they don't all have to be people that she likes.Talk. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 12:34 am: Think about who you've spend most of your time with, and be honest to yourself, and if it turns out its your other friend, then you guys should start all hanging out and having fun all together, and tell her you admit that theres been more time spending but it doesn't mean you're lying when you say you like them both equally.
AskHalie answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 12:14 am: Try to hang out with her a little bit more. Make her think that she's getting a little more attention(even if your not). Hope that helps. [ AskHalie's advice column | Ask AskHalie A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.