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My friend, we are really good friends, he told me that he likes me, more than a friend. I told 4 of my friends, when I wasnt supposed to tell anyone, but people have to find out someday. He got upset, so to make him feel better, i said i like him more than a friend too. But really, im not sure how I feel. Im really frustrated. I don't want to hurt his feelings...Please Help!!!
Ana
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You need to def. tell him the trust as soon as possible. the longer you lie to him the more hurt he'll be. Justt tell him that you don't want things to get complicated between you guys and you'd rather have him as a friend.
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before you say something like that you have to be really sure.think about if he treats you more than friend and you should think about is he good 4 u like does he do things that really happy or does he seem kind enough to be your boyfriend.
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Well just tell him that you need some times to think about your friendship and if you become a couple will it spoil your friendship tell him that you like him to but need some time to think
do whats best for you
go for it
roxie
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If you dont see him as more than a friend just tell him you've put some deep thought into and you dont want to be more than friends, and that just because you dont like him that way now doesnt mean you wont ever like him that way. Just keep it as friends, and go on with your life.
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help what? help you decide what to do about your friends? help you decide how to make him feel better? help you decide how you really feel about him? help you decide what to do about the situation? help figure out why he was upset? help figure out why you lied to him? i should have guessed who this was from the start. should i go on with all the possible questions you could have had?
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Well, think of it this way.. if you lie you are hurting him more than if you say the truth. So really you can just tell him, i rather be friends now.
♥ Michelle
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It's awful to say you like someone just because they like you....I know your just trying to keep him from being hurt, but eventually he will figure out that you don't feel the same way right? So just let him know that you see him as a friend...before it gets too out of hand.
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