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ok my friend is trieng to break me and my other friedn up she like tells one of us something the other person sopposidly said about us but sh tells us the same exact thing and she calls us mean names then expects us to b her friend like she says stufflike lets team up andake her life a living hell like shes made ours so should i like take her back or should i just give up on her?

You should always forgive people and not hold grudges... but you gotta remember she isnt the the type of person you could trust

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whats the best way to start a conversation with a friend that is a guy or a boyfreind...if they dont talk much at all?

Talk about sumthing you know hes interested in... that way he'll wanna continue the conversation...

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there is this guy who i really like but he doesnt even know i exsist what should i do to have him notice me

Go up to him and introduce yourself...

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I'm having some troubles getting guys to come up to me and start a conversation. How do I get them to start talking to me more?

Signed,
Guy Troubles

Be confident in yourself... make eye contact and smile :)

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k me and my boyfriend had sex lat night...and we didnt use a condom but he pulled out right bofore he came. but i was kind of worried because he got a little "stuff" right below where he puts his....well you know...is it possible for something to happen? or does it actually have to be inside the girl?? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

Yep, i read it in Seveenteen Magazine it is possible to get pregnant... even if a guy pullz out and u get his stuff on ur inner thigh... i sugest u get a pregnancy test ASAP!!!

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my parents always yell, at the oldest and of course i asm the oldest i hate it and they just yeall and yell at me and its always my fualt plz help me

LOL my parents do the same thing... except the always yell at the youngest... and guess who happens to be the youngest me lol... you just gotta learn to deal with it and try not to let it get to you

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how can i confront my like best friend that i hate it when me and her r goin out sumwhere lyke the movies or what ever that she has to bring a friend?? plesse help

Just be like " why dont me and u go to the movies... just the 2 of us "

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is it ok that i like older guys?? they are more mature and cuter in my opinion. i was wondering is this ok??

Yeah its ok... its tru girls mature faster than boiZ

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What's YOUR definition of love? I'm not sure if I'm in it...

If your not sure... than ur not in love... When u fall in love you'll KNOW it!!!

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when you call a guy that you met through someone else, what do you say to them?? answer asap!!! i rate!

Just be like hey... i hope u dont mind but i got ur number through so and so... ask him about his interests and tell him yours...

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how pathetic is it to be 17 and never been kissed?? the problem is, i'm just waiting for the right person and i don't know any guys who fit that...i know for a fact that i'm not ugly or disgusting bcuz i've known plenty of people who have liked me or would've gladly kissed me, it's just that i wouldn't want to make my friendships with my guy friends weird and other guys who liked me just were definitely not options...so now it's kind of like i'm waiting but it's embarassing and i feel so stupid......

Dont feel stupid... there are plenty of people out there that dont get their first kisses untill they go to college... its nice to hear that u are waiting for the rite guy... that way it'll be really special when u get that first :)

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i met this guy at adventureland (he was REALLY hott!!) in des moines and i got his # but i dont want to call it cuz im afraid that its the wrong number! but then again the area code and the first 3 numbers were from the area that we were located in...what should i do? call him or not?
-confuzzled!

When you call just be like Hey my you gave me ur number ... do u wanna chill sumtime

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I really wana loose a quick 10-15 pounds really fast in 4 weeks.. but the bad part is im really picky with foods.. So i dont know what to do or eat.. does ne one have ne advice?! i'd apreciate it soo much!

I heard drinkinG green tea helps... try danCing Or ridinG yOur biKe... cOnsTatnlY do sOmeThinG wiT ur hAndS liKe plAy viDeO gaMes... Or sUrf The nEt

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hey,
i love this 1 girl i mean i cant get my mind offa her ive been tryin 2 forget about her for 6 months because all signs say she doesnt like me any more but im hopin she still does ya know???? i mean you got any ideas on how i could try and get her back or possibly forget about her ill try anything SOME! HELP!!!

Signed,
Crushed Heart (aka Jax)

It's not good to crush over sum1 that doesnt feel the same about u ... try to go out wit the guys and hollah at other girls ...

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my friends sis is 11 and she weighs 102lbs she want to know if she should loose weight or if she is good for her age.

Depends on how tall she is

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ok first off, im kind of pale and white and i have ALOT of freckles....is their anyway to like make them go away? or tan fast? bc when i tan i dont really tan i burn n peal and its nasty and all my friends are like wow you need to get a tan..or dang you are so white!! what do i say when they say this and how can i tan to make my freckles like blend in??

I am naturally dark... i dont burn i tan in the
sun so honestly im sorry to say but i wouldnt really know ... but theres nothing wrong with being really pale ... thats the way God made you ... i would say instead of tryin to get a tan bring out ur pale color... like tryin coloring your hair ... or where black masacare to make ur eyes stand out that way you'll look exotic ...

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hey gurl!!!well heres ma problem...when i first started high school, u know how u always look for boys and everything soo i started seein dis boy everyday i thought he was soooo cute and nice (i didnt know him or had any class wit him) but i noticed that he was always looking at me and so was i..One day our school was testing and i was in the same room as him and my friend was talking to him and he told me that that boy liked me and i felt so happy cause i liked him so much and he also asked for my phone number and i gave it to him........but he never called me:( anyways after some days he find out that i use to date his x-friend...they had a fight in middle school and wuteva...sooo then everything changed:( he never looked at me and even if he did it wasnt the same and one day he came up to me and said "y u always looking at me and i didnt say anythin and he asked me do u like me and i said yea (yea i know pretty stupid but i couldnt help it) and he said well i dont like u so stop looking at me and i was like okay den.....omg gurl dat hurt sooooooo much it was really messed up but he would always look at me and say something to his friends and laugh or wuteva and it hurted so bad...he also talked to my friend and tellin her that i'm not pretty and everythin but anyways now its been a year and im over him but everytime i think about it, it hurts and i always see him looking and me and everything...and its not that i care but i just would like to kno wut u think...y is he doing this or if he doesnt like me, why does he keep looking at me or wutever...u dont have to answer if u dont want i just needed to tell someone b/c even that im over him it still hurts......THANK U SO MUCH

Boys can be really confusing when it comes to how the feel about girls ... u can never tell what they really want ... i dont think
they know themselves lol... i think he's just playing hard-to-get and trying to be all tight infronta his friends... if he tries to say sumthing to u again try sayin sumthing like ... well u kinda asked me for my number so u must be interested in me too ... and if he starts to piss u off and ask u why you've been lookin at him than just say ... " well you had to be lookin at me to know i was lookin at you ... therefore u need to stop lookin at me " and walk away...

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I liked this one guy for a little over a year. I was at a dance on Friday & was having fun, but then a slow song came on & he went & danced with this girl that I really dislike. As he was dancing w/ her, he kept smiling at me and staring at me. After that, I was dancing w/ a few of my friends, and he kept moving around so that he could see me. Then he went off during another slow song and danced with a total slut. He stared at me during that one, too. I'm really confused. What does it all mean?

Hey i think that it means that he likes you ... and hes playing hard-to-get ... or hes just tryin to be a playa ... if u really like him that much let him know how u feel about him ... and how u felt when he danced wit all those other girls ...

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how can u get a guy to notice you????

Talk to him... smile a lot, be friendly, and confident ...

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I have a boyfriend we have been going out for 2 months here shortly and im also going to a new school (he doesnt go to my new school now) i dont know if i want to go to that school.. as.. taken.. might sound messed up i love my bf i honestly do.. but its a whole new trust level to. plus my bf is about a yr younger then me and a grade below me.. if that makes any difference in the world at all. please anybody help me out.. that would be great. and im also moving to another town which is 10 min. out of where we live.. but that doesnt make a whole lot of difference i suppose so.

Whatever you decide ... whether u wanna be known as taken or not just let him know ... i dont know whether ur relationship is gonna work out wit him ... since yall are gonna go to different schools ... dat depends on how yall feel about eachother ... him being a year younger doesnt make a big difference ... do what you think is rite for you and let him know

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