how pathetic is it to be 17 and never been kissed?? the problem is, i'm just waiting for the right person and i don't know any guys who fit that...i know for a fact that i'm not ugly or disgusting bcuz i've known plenty of people who have liked me or would've gladly kissed me, it's just that i wouldn't want to make my friendships with my guy friends weird and other guys who liked me just were definitely not options...so now it's kind of like i'm waiting but it's embarassing and i feel so stupid......
Additional info, added Friday July 23 2004, 1:09 am: this might sound stupid, but i also wanted to add that i think that i'd be embarassed if people found out who i've kissed (especially my parents) and i worry about that cuz i feel like people would never let it go. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DorkyJay27 answered Friday July 23 2004, 8:02 am: nah, it's kool not to be kissed at 17, so you're picky...what's wrong with that? nothin. lol it's completely understandable that you're waitin on the guy that you want to kiss, and not just b/c you had the oppurtunity.personally i think it's awsome that you havent yet, b/c idk there's like a pride in that,lol even if it's embarrasing for you. but at least you know what you want and your not willin to settle for anything less, so take some pride in that. :) [ DorkyJay27's advice column | Ask DorkyJay27 A Question ]
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Friday July 23 2004, 7:35 am: There's absolutely nothing to be ashamed of! I was 16 when I had my first kiss!!I was doing the same thing,just waiting for the right guy,the right moment.And trust me,that's the way to go!You only get one first kiss,so you want it to be special,right?And who cares what people think,it's not their kiss now is it?!Hehe!So keep on doin what you're doin!!You sound like a very smart girl who's making wise decisions!I'm sure you'll be fine!!! :) [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
andrizzle21 answered Friday July 23 2004, 6:18 am: well...kissing in my opinion isnt a big deal!! its a fun thing, but its not like your gunna be known as a slut for kissing someone. but dont feel stupid, if ur waiting 4 ur special kiss, it'll come! i promise!:) just be paitent and ull get ur wish..and most likely ur parents never find out what u do and they shouldnt be upset if u kissed a guy @ 17 its expected! i hope i helped u!!! [ andrizzle21's advice column | Ask andrizzle21 A Question ]
SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Friday July 23 2004, 4:46 am: Dont feel stupid... there are plenty of people out there that dont get their first kisses untill they go to college... its nice to hear that u are waiting for the rite guy... that way it'll be really special when u get that first :) [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Friday July 23 2004, 4:15 am: First of all, you shouldn't care what ANYONE will think or say! Screw them! And NOO it is definitely not "pathetic" to be 17 and never kissed. It's fine if you are waiting for the right guy, in fact, it's somewhat commendable. Kissing is just a personal preference... when YOU feel YOU'RE ready and have got the right guy by your side, go for it and make it memorable!! Take care and goodluck! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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