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Ok see im 13 and im normal weight for a 13 yr old girl, but it seems like all the boys in my grade are smaller.. i mean literly smaller than me- shorter and less weight. i don't no what the " deal " .

Help so i can undersatnd (link)
they will catch up once they get to around 15 or 16 years old, they mature later than girls, but im sure you probably know that anyways lol ~*~lucee~*~


ok this is really odd but here it goes... im 14/f and eversince i can remeber ive been having these moments, when i feel like haveing sex but at one piont i didnt even know what i was thinking was sex and now its been a habit, and during these moments i rub myself down there and it feels good but then when the moments over ive got these gut feelings that its bad and it makes me sick, like it makes me wanna puk ive tried to stop but i just cant! plz someone HELP ME! im so scared! (link)
You shouldn't feel scared at all I went through this patch at around the same time as you and well? It's nature It's all part of puberty and growing up. exploring your body is a natural thing and so of course is sex.
So really don't be worried what your doing isn't wrong it's natural okay?
Krissy xxx


OK I've tried everything I possibly could to fix this friendship but I can't. She's impossible!! She even signed on to my crush's xanga and left me a note telling me he liked me when it was really her. How do I rekindle this friendship? No smartass answers. I rate 5's! (link)
Honestly? I think you'd be better off without her, but then again it might just be a little patch of jealously she is going through. So I would say phone her and ask her around to talk then tell her how you are feeling and ASK her how she is feeling you will feel better for opening up and well if she doesn't feel sorry after that she really is not worth the hassle. Something to remember: YOU are the one that wants to fix things if SHE doesn't it's HER loss I'd love to have you as a friend any day cause you just don't give up on a friendship I value that in any friend
Krissy xxx


OK I've tried everything I possibly could to fix this friendship but I can't. She's impossible!! She even signed on to my crush's xanga and left me a note telling me he liked me when it was really her. How do I rekindle this friendship? No smartass answers. I rate 5's! (link)
i think you should just forget about her, she isnt worth your time, i think she is actually a bully and im sure you be better off without her. what she did on your xanga was really nasty and i dont think haveing a friendship with this girl is worth it. hope i helped
~*~Lucee~*~


my mom found a open condom raper in my perse..and it isn't mine. but she thinks it is. i swear to her it isnt mine. and i think 1 of my friends is playin a freshman trick on me by doin it. and i got yelled at. i called my dad (parents are split up i live wit my dad my mom called and cussed me). i told my dad i didnt do anything that i think it was my friend tiara (that isnt her real name) and hes like ok. i said im goin to delete her off of my list and ignore her and not talk to her. cause i asked her about it and she never msged me back...my dad said if i did wanna start doin nething that my mom needs to take me to the court house. well i dont want to cause i aint ready just yet. what do i need to do. cause my mom thinks im a whore. and i didnt do anything (link)
stop talking to her and let her know why first say "there is no point of talking to you because you obviously dont believe any word coming out of my mouth and if you cant trust me i can no longer trust you!" give her the silent treatment she will crack andfeel bad for accusing you


how is someone sexually abused? i mean i dont understand.how do people abuse someone sexually? what do they do? my friend told me about someone that was and i was just wondering!
* I RATE * (link)
it is when somone rapes you mollests you or even touches you in a way you odnt wanna be touched you officially can sue somone if they feel you up or somthing and it made you uncomfortable or if they grab your butt and it made you mad that is sexual abuse or harrassment the smaller htings are more like harrassment but rape and mollest is deffinantly sexual abuse


ok..i have this guy friend and he is really flirty towards me but i cant tell if he likes me or not..should i ask him if he likes me or should i get someone else to find out?((i like him))
thanks
i rate (link)
deffinantly ask to his face that is the best way because it impresses them and you never can get somone else to say exactly what you want them to say so try it yourself once you do it it isnt as hard as it seems


Okay, what are some turn ons for girls?
WHat does a girl look for in a guy?
what do they like in a conversation??

thanks lots!
I rate high! (link)
turn ons...

hug her from the back
hold her hand
kiss her neck
tell her she is beautiful do not say hott

different girls look for different guys....i like funny creative and athletic guys...i like them to be able to defend me....some girls like sensative guys who are in touch with the feminine side....most girls deffinantly dont want a jerk like i said say she is beautiful dont say hey homie id like to grab dat ass so hard...etc. none of that gangsta shit it makes them mad and feeling like they are treated like crap

in a conversation ask them how they are what is oging on in their life and what they would like to do if they feel uncomfortable with making decisions they will say i dotn know and that is when your opinion comes in....but likei said not all girls are alike...and do give your opinion somtimes and if you want more go to this website its all true http://www.angelfire.com/wrestling2/mackandedge/31things




ok this is werid ... i was watching meet the fockers ... an like gregs mom sayed to his sooned to be wife that her boobs our bigger an she can smell that shes pregnet?? can you really smell somthing if your pregnet.. (link)
lol no that is just a figure of speech like i can smell your fear...


If you're super skinny but A sized bra... would guys still go for that? I know it's personality that counts...but do they like it (you can't always have both, be skinny and have a huge ass/boobs) (link)
yea any guy who is worth going out with will go for it trust me....if they wont go out with you cause you are skinny and have no boobs or small boobs then they are self centered and aren't worth it at all


im either really really really really happy or extremely pissed off or depressingly sad. i think i could be bipolar. what does that consist of? what do i do? anything.... (link)
bi polar is like....you just had your first kiss with the greatest guy in the world your skipping along the road and your friend accidently knocks your hat off your head into the mudd...you are so pist! it is when your mood changes like that *snap*...good luck


ok.. here we go.. I am totally in LOVE with my ex boyfriend.. the only reason we broke up is because he went back home (to minnasota from newjersey) he's comming back durring the winter varation. I miss him so much! but i like this other guy who's about to ask me out.. but the thing is idk if i'm ready to stop thinking about my ex right now. but i don't wanna ruin my chances with this new guys.. wat do i do? PLEASE help! (link)
well if your ex is jsut coming back for the winter varation then go with the other guy who likes you he deserves a chance and if your ex still likes you back then he will wait for his turn i promise...:)


I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 15 months and we are completely in love. We still act like we did the first month we started dating, we're inseperable. His dog has grown very ill, diabetic, blind in one eye and going blind in the other.. He is the one that has to give his dog his shots twice a day and his dog will refuse to take the shot. Whenever he tries to give him the shot and he starts growling at him he keeps being reminded of when his dog was a little puppy, in a little cardboard box that would cry everytime he'd turn the lights out and start wagging his tail and barking when he'd turn them back on and pick him up. If his dog won't let him get the shots, he could die. He's been so stressed out about his dog, he's taking out on me. His attitude has changed around me... He seems so distant. He gets mad about every little thing. I've talked to him about it that it's really upsetting me that he's acting that way. I tell him that I'll be there for him no matter what, but the way he's treating me is becoming unbearable. I really want to help him... but I feel like I'm losing him. I've gotten to the point where I wanted to break up with him because of all this. I can't think of anything to do for him... he's just so depressed. I need help. How do I get him to feel better? I don't want him to be so depresed anymore... and I don't want him to be treating me like he's been. (link)
well you should tell him that people and animals die and the best thing he can do is just give the dog its shot everyday and wish for the best and that if the dog dies it will be in a better place...it is miserable and probably wants out of it...maybe try to get him to put the poor dog to sleep...if not just keep hanging on wiht him his dog will probably die soon and then he will be better after an average of 3 days...good luck


Well, things at home are not good for me. They haven't been for years, no I don't get abused or anything but I'm just not happy living here. I hate my living enviroment, and I really want to move out. I talked to my two best friends about it and they're really not happy with their familes either so we want to work as much as we can all of this school year and then next summer move in together (we have all of money problems figured out). Two of us would be 16 and one 17. My question is, what is the law for teenagers living together by themselves? We live in NJ and someone told me that you just need an adult to sign for you. Is that true? Anything is appreacited! Thanks. (link)
you have to be emancipated before you can sign for everything, and until you are 18 your guardian has to sign for you unless you are emancipated...to get emancipated go to a juvenile detention center and ask an officer if you can get a lawyer and a court date set up for yourself, so you can be emancipated...but you have to have good reason as to why you are moving out and you have to prove that you can support yourself


okay so my aunt just gave my mom and i a waxing thing .. like that real stuff.. that the pro's use at the hair salon and stuff.. well my question is how do you use it? it doesnt have directions and i am thinking .. wanting.. to do my leggs. how do i do it? should i put lotion on before.. or take a shower or what? please help me ... and a.s.a.p i will rate you a 5 for any good answer! (link)
dont put lotion on before ...and make sure your legs are clean before you wax or else the wax wont stick to the legs and hair


what are the chances of getting pregnant from pre-cum?
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the chances are just as high as if he was to cum inside of you...be smart use a condom ((latex))prefferably durex, lifestyle, or trojan man


i at times have sores on my virgina ,most of the times its a couple days before my period and they disappear after that.they dont itch or burn.is it just a sign to show that am about to have my period. (link)
if you are sexually active this could be herpes if not then you should go to the doctor because this is abnormal...good luck


im going out to a party tonight. i have hair down to my shoulders and side bangs. im need a cute hairstyle. i usually just straighten it but im getting bored of it. any tips or ideas? or websites with details would help. thanks! (link)
if u can udnerstand me try curling the bangs to the side and then curling the ends of your hair outword it is really cute...hope i help...hav fun


this isnt really sex but i didnt know what to put it under. anyways i trimed down there and shaved near where the blood comes out (i forget what its called) and now where i shaved has little red bumps. is this bad and how do i get rid of them? (link)
its just razor burn no way to get rid of it it will do it itself


my hair is kinda frizzy. I dont usually blow dry my hair and i use herbal esscenses (sp?) shampoo and conditioner. What are some ways to make my hair less frizzy without getting that frizz ease stuff or blow drying (that takes a long time. i have a lot of hair)?????
i'll rate 5's for good answers! (link)
use infusium 23 frizz control conditioner with infusium 23 shampoo i had that prob once too but i fixed it!!!...hope i helped




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