ok.. here we go.. I am totally in LOVE with my ex boyfriend.. the only reason we broke up is because he went back home (to minnasota from newjersey) he's comming back durring the winter varation. I miss him so much! but i like this other guy who's about to ask me out.. but the thing is idk if i'm ready to stop thinking about my ex right now. but i don't wanna ruin my chances with this new guys.. wat do i do? PLEASE help!
Mercy_x_Me answered Thursday August 18 2005, 9:18 pm: If your not looking to be too too serious in life and all committed, go out with the guy who is about to ask you out. If it's just going to be some fling, it'll be a fling and you'll be all ready for your ex from Minnesota when he's back on Winter break. If it's going to be serious, you'll grow to really like eachother and you'll start to drift from your ex, and maybe just be friends. Either way I'd go and try it, because at this point I think it might just be of no use waiting around for your ex. [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
x_pink_x109 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 8:28 pm: Hey!
Your ex always means a lot to you, even after you break up with him. You should see how things go with your ex and if he doesn't want you back or if he is already hooked up with some other girl, go for the other guy. It's always good to have a back-up choice. I DEFINITLY want to know how this goes so email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com and you will definitly get a reply!
Go with your heart on your problems. Only YOU know what guy you like better and only YOU know what guy you think would be better to you. Go with your instincts. Whatever your heart tells you, do it because your heart leads you most of the time through life.
Don't worry!
I really hope I helped!
I had to think on this question about what I would do in your situation and that's mainly what helps me every day when I get on Advicenators to answer some questions.
Just relax and let your heart take you wherever you're supposed to be! :-)
o0xQTpiex0o answered Thursday August 18 2005, 8:14 pm: ok well i think you should give this new a guy a chance because your ex is only coming down in winter and you will hardly ever get to see him so give the new guy a chance because he could be just as good as your ex or better! [ o0xQTpiex0o's advice column | Ask o0xQTpiex0o A Question ]
mystical_breeze answered Thursday August 18 2005, 7:04 pm: I suggest really think about this. Decide if you want to stay with your boyfriend, and if you really love him, you'll wait for him (even though you're both in a long-distance relationship). I suggest not going out with a ton of different guys, because that can just make things worse. You have to decide by yourself if staying with your boyfriend is the best thing for you and him, and if you decide not to, you can't keep going back. [ mystical_breeze's advice column | Ask mystical_breeze A Question ]
orphans answered Thursday August 18 2005, 5:58 pm: well if your ex is jsut coming back for the winter varation then go with the other guy who likes you he deserves a chance and if your ex still likes you back then he will wait for his turn i promise...:) [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
SoInToYoUx0x answered Thursday August 18 2005, 4:52 pm: this is ghoing to be hard for you but you need to let go of your ex. if you want to stay friends that is ok but if you dont let go every time you see him and be with him you will just get hurt again and sometimes worse then the first time. you need to give this new guy a chance. this new guy might be better to you and at least you wont get as hurt as you are right now over your boyfriend. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
Dakmor answered Thursday August 18 2005, 3:37 pm: I'm in the same situation right now. Except for in the place of one of the boys. I think. She said her current relationship is almost over, so I think that may be what she meant. Anyway, try going out with both guys, and choose which one you prefer. Hope I helped! [ Dakmor's advice column | Ask Dakmor A Question ]
emmii answered Thursday August 18 2005, 3:22 pm: you should hang out with both guys just as friends first, see which one you are more comfortable with and like more! tell both of the guys the what you are trying to do and trying to figure out and they should understand!
hockeybob3166 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 3:21 pm: ok i think that you should just like if you really like the boy who likes you now you should go out with him because the kid who moved you prob wont have another chance with him because he moves alot so i think you should just go out with that boy [ hockeybob3166's advice column | Ask hockeybob3166 A Question ]
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