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How do i know what type of guy is right for me i havent found mr right and im halfway through high school and had 1 true boyfriend the other 2 were not real just a scam to make people think that i had a boyfriend (link)
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You probably won't find Mr. Right in high school. Most high school relationships don't last. There is that rare occasion that they do, but the majority don't.
High school isn't for looking for the right guy. Mostly because by the time you get out of high school, you and the guys will change. You'll date a guy who you think it great but he's probably going to be different by the time you graduate or a couple years after. Same with you.
So you should just be looking for what you like in a guy. It doesn't matter how many boyfriends you had. You just need to enjoy your high school experience and date guys who you might actually be interested in and notice what you like and don't like in them.
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I Recently Started Dating My First Boyfriend, And I'm Sure Eventually We'll Kiss... Anyways, I Haven't Kissed A Boy - Ever - And I Don't Want To Do It "Wrong"...
He's Already Had His First Kiss And I Don't Want To Tell Him I Never Kissed Anyone Just Because It's Kind Of Embarassing And He Thinks I've Already Kissed A Guy. I Don't Really Know How To Kiss. People Say "Your Body Will Know What To Do", But How Will It If I've Never Done It? I Don't Want To Be "Unexperienced" And Stuff :/
Sorry For The Weird Question. (link)
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Everybody says you'll know what to do because we've gone through it. It's just a natural thing. Your first kiss might even just be a peck so it might not be something where you even need to move your lips.
Anyways, the best way to prepare yourself is to be comfortable with him. Don't jump right into kissing, hugging and holding hands will make you more comfortable with him and then kissing him will feel comfortable.
Enjoy spending time with him, and the kiss will just happen. Don't stress over it or anything, it'll be fine.
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So i broke up with my boyfriend a week ago and he has been coming to my house talking to my sister and he refuses to talk to me. I know i deserve it but im starting to become irritated. HELP!! (link)
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Why do you think you deserve it? Did you break up with him in a bad way or something?
Honestly, it's weird that he's coming over to your house when you guys broke up a week ago. I would assume he'd need more time before he sees you again.
Don't talk to him or anything, don't even try to talk to him. Be nice, smile, but do your own thing. If your sister is friends with him, which I'm assuming, then try talking to her and explaining how you feel about having him around when you guys have just recently broken up. If she doesn't care or something, then don't hang around them and go do your own thing.
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I'm going to be 15 in 2 days & I'm a freshman. Although I'm a freshman I don't look like one & I'm not immature like the rest of the freshman. All my classes are with Juniors basically because I'm in advanced classes. This Junior guy who's 17 & I have been hanging out everyday during lunch & we actually met during summer at the mall but I had no idea he was going to be in my new school. I find myself falling for him since he's so nice unlike the rest of the guys at this school. He has morals & he's so respectful. Would it be okay if we went out? (link)
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I don't see it as a problem at all. It's only a two year age gap and it's not like you're in middle school and he's in high school.
If he's the type of guy you'd be interested in dating, then go for it.
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hi i like a girl i'm in 8th grade people say this girl likes me but she says she likes me as a friend but occasionally i hear her say that i'm cute i just don't know what to do (link)
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You can't go off of what people say. But if you hear her say that she likes you as a friend but also thinks you're cute, then that's the best thing to go off of.
I'd suggest talking to her some more, getting to know her, becoming a closer friend and you'll be able to tell if she has feelings for you or not.
If you want to know sooner, your could probably get some friends together, have a group outing and invite her along, then see if she comes along or her reactions.
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Hi I am a fourteen year old and I am in High School. I don't want to sound vain or anything but I think I'm cute. But anyways, boys stare at me but they never talk to me..like NEVER. Why is that? It really kinda makes me think there is something wrong with me, and I've even cried my eyes out because of this. It's not only boys who stare at me but its also girls..some of the girls look at me with hatred in their eyes. You may think this is a stupid question but is there something wrong with me? I always try to be very nice to everyone and give them a smile or ask how there day was. Thanks in advance.(: (link)
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There is nothing wrong with you. You're 14 and you're all going through puberty and some start developing sooner than others. You're pretty, clearly why guys stare. They're just too scared to talk to you. Sometimes I wish they would man up at least talk to the girl they are attracted to, but a lot of just too afraid of rejection.
Girls that look like they have hatred in their eyes, that's their own problem, not yours.
So keep being you, don't change for other people. You're nice, you talk to them, you're fine. People are intimidated by really friendly, nice people. So don't stress or be upset over it.
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So I think i am/was friend-zoned by this girl i always liked, this year i decided to do something about it, so first i found myself a wingwoman(WW) so WW told her that she found out i liked her, and just yesterday WW asked her what she would say if i asked her out, and the girl i like responded: "I'm not sure..."........what should i do?? should i ask her out?? (link)
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By asking her out does that mean asking her to be your girlfriend or asking her on a date?
If it's asking her to be your girlfriend, don't do that. I'd suggest just asking her on a date and see how that goes and see if you guys can be more than friends. Then go from there. She's not sure, so she's obviously going to need time before she decides if she wants to get serious with you.
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Ok, So i'm a freshman in high school, and i met this guy about three-four weeks ago (before school started) at a school club/group we are both in. He is a freshman like me and AMAZING!! I didn't think we would end up friends but we did and i realized a few days ago i like him. (last week was our first week of school)and we had a football game we performed at. During the game he asked if I had facebook, i said yes and he gave me his info so i could send him a friend request. Later, when we where all packing up he asked for my number. After he left (he left way before me) he sent me a text. We talked for a while, and he told me he was sort of dating a girl in the band (all 3 of us are in band) i asked sort of? and he said they decided to play it low and he doesn't know where they stand. I felt heart broken. We still talked (I mean we are friends after all, its innocent) and he (and the girl) hangout with me and other band freshman at lunch and they barely talk to each other and he mostly talks to me and another guy from band and my best friend who is not in band. Then yesterday i was talking to him and we got onto the conversation on "How to tie someone up" then we talked about my brother for a little bit and he randomly goes
"Back onto our conversation from earlier. If you had someone tied up you really liked, Would you kiss them?" and i told him that was really random but it would depend. He said he probably would. WE talked a lot and he told me a lot about himself and I him. WE have A LOT in common, it's amazing. He's a great friend. Also (he and my best guy friend have their 5th period class right next door to mine) so they wait for me (i was blushing really hard when i saw him and my BGF waiting for me outside), and i was lost on the second day of school and he showed me to my class. and in our band class together I was switching through my instruments cause i was confused on my first day of High school band (I play F horn and flute and I'm in color guard) then i asked if i could just go outside and practice guard with other guardies in the class and my B.D said sure. I walked past him and he told me i needed to stop moving in a teasing way and i said "It's not my fault I'm in Color guard!"
SO, please don't fill your answers with "He has a Girlfriend, leave him alone" and all that. I know, and I will move on. But i was just wondering, does it sound like he is starting to or does like me?? I just want to know, thanks :) I just really want to know (link)
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Ok to first answer your question, it does sound like he's into you. Which I wouldn't consider a good thing since he has a girlfriend. Even if he doesn't know where he stands with her, it's still disrespectful to be flirting with you.
My advice to you would be to not talk to him as much. Friends have boundaries when dating. You obviously don't text your friends for 8 hours, that's what you do when you like someone.
You really like him, but you don't want to be the other girl he's talking to when he's also talking to another girl that's his girlfriend. And she's the one that he's actually dating.
So if you want to continue being friends with him, don't let the flirting continue. If he gets out of the relationship, feel free. But keep it in the friend boundaries because it's disrespectful of him to do that to his girlfriend and in the end, it could also hurt you.
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Can girl get pregancy anal or butt (link)
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No, but you can contract STI's if you don't wear a condom.
You should probably educate yourself more on sex before you become sexually active.
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I have been with my boyfriend for 3 nearly 4 years, and I have felt something had been abit odd with him lately. I checked his Facebook and found messages of him talking to friends saying that he thinks he's bored, his going crazy, he loves me but feels trapped but doesn't want to be single again and is thinking of cheating on me. I'm so heart broken about it, I don't know what to do , maybe I thought making our sex life more exciting and try having sex in different places. I hope it works and we have done exciting things before with sex I don't just lay there :-( I also found pills that help with erection problems, so he's obviously tried to do something about it but I don't want it to get to a point where he cheats on me and ruins our relationship! Because we barely ever have fights and laugh together and etc but i need some good advice and something that will help him want to be more sexually excited about me. Also taking into account he has had anxiety and seems like depression about his life and he feels like is going nowhere. He basically has a daily routine of going to work and working too hard for shit money over several years and he comes home exhausted and drinks then does it all over again. It's been hard for him to make changes but he doesn't know what he wants to do. I kind of feel that that could be what's causing him to want to Cheat. (link)
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This is a hard situation to be in. I don't think this is about your sex life. I think this is about him. He has a routine in his life that he doesn't seem happy about, you guys probably don't have a lot of time for each other anyways. He thinks cheating with brighten up his days.
He doesn't know what he wants to do because it's hard for him to make changes. But he chose the wrong thing to change, as in finding someone else.
Honestly, his heart isn't in your relationship anymore. You can't be the one to change it, he has to. Every relationship has problems but if you guys aren't fighting or anything like that, maybe the relationship has just ran it's course. You don't want to be with someone who is considering cheating on you. It's really stupid. He doesn't want to be single but he's thinking about cheating. You don't want that in the first place. You want someone you can trust to never even consider that idea.
He wants to be in this relationship, but his heart just isn't in it. You can't change that.
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so, in my 6th hr. class, the guy that I like (his name shall be Justin), and we were doing a thing where we answer questions about our selves
and one of the questions was, "what is a goal that you have set for school this year?" and I put never wear make up, so when the teacher said what mine was, Justin said, "I think that she's pretty without make up." then both of our faces turned bright red. He also wouldn't stop staring at me, I caught him like, 5 times. 8th hoe, he asked me if I had a facebook, I said no. then I said that I had a pinterest and he said that he would follow me as soon as he got home. and he doesn't get on very often. so does he like me? (link)
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He does sound interested in you. Most guys won't compliment girls unless they are into them or they're a "bad boy" and just want to mess around.
He sounds like he wants to get to know you, so try to be friends and see where it goes from there.
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Im 15 Female, my mom constantly yells at me takes her anger out on me by saying mean and hateful things I don't have a dad my older sister moved out and my brother is moving in with his dad in 3 weeks I feel like I have no reason to live I'm homeschooled and have no friends I feel ugly every body picks on me because I don't have straight teeth my mom doesn't have money for braces I'm sick of everything and everyone (link)
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It's not ok for your mom to be yelling and saying hateful things to you. If this keeps going on, you need to report it.
I've been homeschooled before and I know how lonely it can be. You should start getting into things you like. Sports, arts, instruments, anything you'd think you'd enjoy.
People shouldn't pick on you either. It's mean and it's wrong. You should ignore people who do that. You're worth a whole lot more than just looks.
You're only 15, you have so much more time to grow and meet people and do things that you love doing. You won't be stuck in this situation forever.
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So I've never had a boyfriend before because I was too scared to be heartbroken and stuff. Well my crush asked me out and I don't want to say no, but I don't want to say yes... Of course I want to go out with him and everything, but I've never kissed before and I've never dated :/ ... Any advice? Answers ASAP are appreciated. (link)
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I'd advise you to take it slow.
Did he ask you to be his girlfriend or did he ask you to go on a date? If he asked you to be his girlfriend, I'd tell him that you'd rather take it slow at first and just date so that you can get to know him more.
From getting to know him, and spending time around him some more, you'll know whether you want to get into a relationship and if he's a guy you can see yourself dating.
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I cheated on my Boyfriend. We've been dating for almost 3 and a half years.
I didn't sleep with the guy, we've made out twice (we're both in a relationship). So I suppose, I've cheated twice.
I feel all sorts of emotions, including guilt. I don't know how to deal with it. I don't know how to deal with the temptation and I don't know how I should deal with why I feel all this temptation and a need to cheat in the first place. Dealing with guilt and other emotions is another thing too...
If anyone could offer me any advice on this subject, it'd be much appreciated.
Thanks (link)
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Telling him is all up to you. If you can stay with him and not feel guilty about it.
You need to stop and think. Do you want to stay with your boyfriend? If you do, then you need to stop. You need to cut yourself off from this other guy completely. If the temptation is there, you'll most likely run to it again.
If you don't want to be with your boyfriend, then break up. It'll save a lot of pain and heartache.
So either break up or stop talking to this other guy. Everything will turn out the way it's supposed to.
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Hi, I am a teenage girl. Outgoing, cute, fun-loving, ,softspoken, good sense of humor. Anyways, I had a peprally at my school today and my friend and I were looking for seats but we found some beside this guy(let's call him Ryan). So my cousin told me a couple months back Ryan likes me(as a girlfriend) but I wasn't sure because, you know, I never talked to Ryan before then. My friend and I got seated and I ended up sitting beside Ryan. Ryan and I got to talking. He made me feel so different, special, weird, good, and, well, it's hard to explain. I know, I know what you're going to say "Pay attention in school" or "get your head out of your butt"(not that I've heard those phrases alot around my house) But anyhoo, he made me feel so weird(but in a good, hard to explain way lol)I can't even explain it. I could tell he was trying to make me laugh and I caught him staring at me and he was very sweet..so could this mean anything? Thanks in advance.(: (link)
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It could mean he's a really friendly, nice guy or that he's interested in you.
You obviously are interested in him so I'd suggest becoming his friend and getting to know him more. Then from there you can see if you still see him as more than a friend and if he's a guy you'd be interested in dating. You'll also be able to tell if he's interested in you instead of guessing or listening to what other people say.
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I want sex with a female (13 male) (link)
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I'm sure every 13 year old would like to have sex, that doesn't mean you should though.
Firstly, it's illegal.
Secondly, you'd be lucky to even find a girl around your age who would want sex.
The reason why people tell you it's not a good idea is because there are consequences. I'm sure you're not ready to be a father. Most girls that are around your age won't be on birth control. You have such a higher chance of getting one pregnant. Even if a girl was on birth control, there is still always a chance.
Then of course STI's and such. You don't want that.
Wait until you are old enough to handle the consequences. Until then, just stick to masturbating.
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So let's say a couple had a baby, and they looked like this:
Woman: Brown Hair, Brown Eyes
Man: Brown Hair, Blue Eyes
What color hair and eyes would the baby have? Just curious. (link)
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It really depends on the background of the parents as well. If they had more kids, most of them will probably have brown hair and brown eyes. But there still is a chance that one may have blue eyes.
I know people who both have brown hair but their child has blond hair, even red hair because of their genes. Even a couple who both have brown eyes and dark hair, their child had dark hair and green eyes.
So it really depends on the genes of the couple.
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Hi,
I'm a thirteen-year-old girl. For some reason, several people think I'm smart, but I'm not. At school, my work is always high-quality. Therefore, people think it is easy for me. I often hear comments about how smart I am and how school must be very easy.
However, the truth is that school is not easy at all. It's actually quite challenging, and I struggle with it very much. The only reason why my work is so well-done is because I work four times as hard as any other kid -- but I feel like I have no control over how hard or how quickly I work.
Some people say that I don't need to work so hard and that my work will be good anyway. But that's not true. I'm not smart; I'm actually very stupid. I process things slowly and get stressed out very often, so I work slowly. I will admit that I'm a little bit of a perfectionist, but it's not that as much as it is the fact that I'm just naturally slow.
In seventh grade, I stayed up late every night to do homework, and I always took forever to finish classwork. One teacher in seventh grade once told me that I would get bad grades in high school if I didn't start working faster. It really hurt my feelings when she said that. It also showed me she didn't understand that I had no control over how slow I was.
I wish people would understand that I'm a stupid girl who works hard and naturally does things slowly, not a smart girl who works slowly just because she wants to. Why doesn't anyone understand that I have no control over how slowly I work? And why can't they see how stupid I really am?
P.S. I'm sorry that this question is much longer than it needs to be. And I apologize for any errors in grammar. (link)
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Well first of all, you're not stupid.
Stupid people don't try at all, they don't care. You're not lacking intelligence. A lot of kids need to work extra hard to get good grades.
I don't really know why you'd want to convince anyone otherwise though. This is seriously your insecurities and it's something you need to work on.
As for working slow, maybe you can get some help for it. I'm pretty sure you can. Just talk to your parents about it or a school counselor. Then eventually you'll learn how to control how fast you work, it will probably also help you with stressing out about it.
So talk to them. Also, don't freak out about this. You're getting good grades and you're working hard for it. Pat yourself on the back for doing more than most kids will do.
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This girl at school (actually has my name) is being a little jerk. There are these water fountains at school connected to eachother so if both run at a time they run low pressure... I was filling up my water bottle before PE and she kept turning on the other fountain and making mine spray low... I told her not to fuck around and let me fill my damn bottle and she says "I was here first!" and I think why doesn't she get a stupid drink and quit fucking around in the first place. She also uses phrases to me like "None of your beeswax!" (LAME!!). I'm not hurt but I just wanna know if I should do something about it or just give her a dirty look or scare her out of messing with me (Trust me, I'm A LOT bigger than her). I'm also friends with her brother. (link)
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Well she's acting like a child, really immature and it can be really frustrating to deal with people like that.
You will meet plenty of people who want to push your buttons. I think for now, just ignore her. If she takes it to the next level then you should report her.
She's pretty much is acting like a child and hasn't learned to grow up. So just ignore her when she's around, or do your best and that will probably bother her a lot.
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I'm a thirteen-year-old girl. In elementary school, I was mostly attracted to guys. I sometimes had crushes on girls, too -- but I always tried to ignore the feeling.
It got even worse in seventh grade, when I had a major crush on a female teacher. I couldn't always concentrate on my work because I was staring at her and thinking about how much I wanted to kiss her. I soon decided to accept the fact that I saw girls in the same way I saw guys.
I've identified as bisexual for a while now. I recently started dating a girl who also identifies as bisexual. I have dated a couple guys in the past, but I was never really happy with them. Having a girlfriend now makes me realize how much I love being with a girl.
It's been a while since I was actually attracted to a guy. Now it seems like I'm only interested in girls. And when I think about it, I feel like I would only be truly happy with a girl.
I'm completely aware that I'm still thirteen and that I might be a little young to be worrying about this. But I really wish I knew why I feel this way. Why is it that I was mostly attracted to guys in elementary school but am now hardly attracted to them at all? (link)
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Well obviously in elementary school, you weren't going through puberty. So you weren't dealing with all the hormones that go with it. Which could explain a lot.
Anyways, a lot of people say that it could end up changing or you might just plainly like girls. I think you should just go with the flow. The labels is just to explain to other people how you feel, so if you feel like you still have an attraction to boys then you can label yourself as bisexual but if you really only like girls, then there you go. But I'd just go with it. Then of course, you're only 13 and maybe you just haven't met any guys you're attracted to.
So you'll just have to give it time.
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