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First kiss.. Help?
I Recently Started Dating My First Boyfriend, And I'm Sure Eventually We'll Kiss... Anyways, I Haven't Kissed A Boy - Ever - And I Don't Want To Do It "Wrong"...
He's Already Had His First Kiss And I Don't Want To Tell Him I Never Kissed Anyone Just Because It's Kind Of Embarassing And He Thinks I've Already Kissed A Guy. I Don't Really Know How To Kiss. People Say "Your Body Will Know What To Do", But How Will It If I've Never Done It? I Don't Want To Be "Unexperienced" And Stuff :/
Sorry For The Weird Question.
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Everybody says you'll know what to do because we've gone through it. It's just a natural thing. Your first kiss might even just be a peck so it might not be something where you even need to move your lips.
Anyways, the best way to prepare yourself is to be comfortable with him. Don't jump right into kissing, hugging and holding hands will make you more comfortable with him and then kissing him will feel comfortable.
Enjoy spending time with him, and the kiss will just happen. Don't stress over it or anything, it'll be fine.
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Hi! I recently started dating someone too, and I feel the same way. And don't worry, it's not a weird question.
First things first: don't kiss unless you feel ready. It's good to start out with just hugging and holding hands. You can also try breaking the kiss barrier by giving him a quick kiss on the cheek sometimes.
Wait for the right time. You don't really want to have your first kiss at a random moment after class -- wait for a romantic moment when you two are alone together.
When you feel ready to kiss, and when the time feels right, there are some signs you can give to show that you feel ready. Lean in a little bit and make eye contact. Get caught looking at his lips. Give him a romantic compliment, and try saying it in a soft voice. You can also put an arm around him if you want to or do other things to hint your intentions.
You two will most likely find yourselves leaning in toward each other. When this happens, just close your eyes and go for it. Keep your lips parted slightly -- but only a teeny bit. Also keep your lips soft and avoid letting your lips smack.
Keep the kisses gentle and soft at first. And do something with your hands. Maybe you could place them lightly on his shoulders or something similar. After you kiss, you can just remain silent and hug him.
I hope I was able to help! And remember that kissing isn't as complicated as it might seem. Everything will turn out fine, I promise. Just relax and enjoy the kiss when the time is right for it.
Good luck!
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I think it wouldn't hurt to go online and look up tips, and or you could ask friends who have already had their first kiss. You'll be fine, and yes in some ways the body will know what to do. I wish you luck on your first kiss :)
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