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I'm 17/f/Michigan and I'm in cross country. There's this girl who keeps running behind me in every race and every practice, she tries to keep up with me, and when I slow down she slows down etc. How can I stop her? It's really annoying (link)
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Theres really know way to stop her.. i'd say that maybe she looks up to you and wants to be like you which can sometimes get annoying.. just let her do it.. and just run your race at your pace and ignore that she's behind you.. take it as a challenge/motivation to run faster.. hope i helped
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i know im so lucky to have my boyfriend but i take him and our relationship for granted a lot and i expect things to be perfect a lot. What can i do to lighten up and appreciate things, like REALLY appreciate things? (link)
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Well.. i no how you feel.. when i was going out with my ex boyfriend.. i expected him to be the perfect boyfriend.. so every little thing he did that bothered me i told him.. and expecting him to be perfect pushed him away.. and he dumped me.. no boyfriend is gonna be perfect.. you have to appreciate what you have.. if you love him and you no he loves you.. and you can talk to him about anything and you feel comfortable together..then thats as perfect as it will get.. if you no you're lucky.. then thats all that matters.. just compromise and come to conclusions together.. if he does something thats not so "perfect".. you just have to say well at least its not like hes cheating on me.. push the little problems aside and enjoy having a boyfriend.. hope i helped
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ok...heres the story...
boys starts liking girl, girl doesnt like boy, boy and girl hang out for some time, girl starts liking boy but doesnt know what to do!!
*by the way, the boy is shy and the girl is far from it...please help!!!!!! (link)
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well you said the boy likes you.. nd since the boys is shy.. youll have to be the one to make the first move.. i mean just tell him since you know he likes you
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i wanna make my boyfriend know that i like him. like i dont want him to break up with me cuz i feel like i havent been the best. and two other girls like him and i personally think they're prettier than me =/.. and i just really dont wanna loose him..like i feel like telling him i love him isnt enough but i dont wanna sound corny if i say more..help! (link)
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Well.. you just have to be confident in yourself.. guys like that... your boyfriend wouldn't have asked you out in the first place if he didn't truly like you... don't try so hard to be the best.. plus.. i hear that guys like when girls play hard to get most of the time... don't worry.. im sure just telling your boyfriend that you really love him and wanna be with him and hugging and kissing him or w/e.. will be enough to show him you love him.. hope i helped ♥
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my boyfriend and i broke up on monday. and i knew it was gonna hppen since a week and a half ago. but. i still like him. and i need to get overhim, hes a very bad person. i need to stop thinking about all the good feelings and times we had together. because i start crying again. i want to be over him. i wake up every morning with a heavy heart and i dont think he even cares. thats what gets me too. any advice on how to forget? (link)
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im in the same situationg right now.. i know EXACTLY how you feel.. well my first thing of advice is... if you don't let go of your past, then you won't get to have the perfect guys in the future.. you just have to think to yourself that there are better guys out there .. i mean, you can't help what the heart wants.. so you just have to let it die out.. i would say that you shouldn't even be friends with him, cauz then you'll never be able to forget about him.. don't be enemies, don't be friends, just be nothing.
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There's this guy @ school, Derek, who I'm friends with, and I've known him for a few years.. and I've been in love with him for the past 2 years. School just ended, and I just can't comprehend the thought that I won't see him again for another 3 months. The thought of it makes me nauseus, and I get depressed. Last night I cried myself to sleep because I missed Derek so much.. and school just ended yesterday. He doesnt have a cell fone, but I have his house #. I wanna call him, but I don't wanna sound dumb. Ive never called him before, and he doesnt have my number. I dont know what to do.. I just really wanna see him, or atleast talk to him. I'm going to go crazy this summer if I dont. What should I do? Btw im really shy :/ (link)
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what do you have to lose? iF you don't at least try calling, then your just gonna be miserable all summer which would stink, call him and say "hey, I wanted to know if you wanted to come hang out with me and a few other people, and you can bring your friends too." since he isn't really friends with your friends, you can let him invite his also and you'll all get to know eachother and you'll start hanging out on a daily basis.
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so this guy hes really sweet and everything i just dont like him in the way he likes me i didnt mean say sure when he asked me out he just looked really sad, i wasnt expecting it so i kinda freaked out and felt bad saying no. like this other guy so what do i say to him i dont want to hurt his feeling but i really dont like him whats the best way to fix this
help, i rate good answers!! (link)
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Well you've just gotta be honest with this guy, you can't lead him on... just tell him that he's a great guy, but you think its just best if you guys are friends right now... or something like that
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i keep making stupid mistakes in my relationships. i dont know how to stop! i always manage toscrew it up by being with some one else or sleeping with someone else. i cant help it. it just something inside me that make me want to do stuff. i am in a relationship now (4days) and ive already cheated on him. at the time it feels good. i dont know whether its the rik of been caught or what but now i just feel bad and dirty! how do i stop doing this? (link)
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hmm... well there really isn't a way to stop this... you just have to catch yourself before you do something wrong... just keep telling yourself... "im going to feel horrible after i do this... so i shouldn't be doing it" you have to promise yourself that you won't hurt your boyfriends feelings... maybe you do it because your boyfriend hasn't kissed you or made out with you and you want to do those kind of things... so you do them with someone else... i can't say for sure... but i hope i helped
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My best friends obviously have other friends, but I get so jealous when they have a conversation and I'm not part of it! I get even more jealous when they hang out without me! I really don't want to feel this way but I can't help it! What should I do?
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I know how you feel =/ it stinks! Maybe you can try hanging out with your best friends, friends... like all go in a chat room online together... or you could make new friends so that way when your other friends all ready of plans with their friends... you can hang out with your new ones... hope i helped
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My mom and I had an argument over braces the last week and she got really mad. I'm going to get them anyway and she won't talk to me. It's been almost a week and she always ignores me..and doesn't tell me wen it's time to eat or anything.. PLEASE don't tell me to sit her down and have a talk..we don't have that kind of relationship..and I can't wait it out! Please don't critisize..I rate! (link)
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i dunno if this will help... but maybe you should just casually start talking to her again... like be like "hi mom, how are you?" or something like that... and if your dads around... maybe you can ask him to talk to her for you... you should try building a relationship with her because she's your mom and inside she really loves you... you can also talk to a counselor at school if you need to just get all your problems out,... make some time for yourself at night where you just relax and listen to music. hope i helped
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okay..i sweat alot in my armpits! i use secret platinum gel and it hasnt been working. i dont smell (atleast i dont think) but i get really really soaked in my pits rite when i get to school! its awful! please help! what is the strongest womens deodarant/antipersperant you know of? help me out please! (link)
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omg... i had the same exact problem!!... i tried certain dri and it really works... its awesome!!! you put it on at night... and you shouldn't put a lot of it on... i got mine at target... i dunno if you have a target by you.. but you can also get it at a local drug store... hope i helped... and please rate =]
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14, female.We recently took a fieldtrip to go to a skating rink at my school. While at the skating rink my friend broke up with her boyfriend. I tried to comfort him, I told him she was retarded and a bit*h, but in a goofy voice so he knew I was just kidding. Well one of her other little friends took it the wrong way and ran off and told her. She got angry and started dissing me behind my back, and saying I was a bad friend. We are sort of getting over it, but now I like her ex. Everyone keeps saying he likes me too and that we should go out, but I don't want to make my friend madder. What should I do? (link)
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well.... since he didn't brake up with her and she broke up wit him... then you should definetly be able to go out with him./... i mean,, if she has no feelings for him... she shouldn't care if you go out with him or not... you shouldn't say that about your friend even if you were joking... tell her you were just trying to comfort him and make him laugh and that she's a great friend... you should go out wit this guy cauz she doesn't have any feelings for him left... and if she does, its too late now
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i babysit this 11 yr old boy, max and i am 13/f he is taller than me and is quite mature for his age. the thing is latley he's been acting really strange. he asked me if i had my period yet and i tried to change the subject but he was persistant. oh, and the other night we were watching a movie at his house (lion king) and he is younger than me so he like layed down on me and pretended to be asleep. then i fell asleep too. when i woke up he was like all over me and touching my boobs. i dont know what to do. his parents pay well and i need the money badly. should i tell his parents, will they hire me agian? should i talk to him? HELP! (link)
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if you don't feel comfortable talking to the parents.. maybe you should talk to this kid... you shouldn't have fallen asleep... so now... you have to be more responsible and watch whats going on... whats more important... the money or how comfortable you are... this guy could be asking if you have your period because he wants to have sex with you but doesn't want you to get pregnant or something... you should be able to feel secure in your job and if talking to the kid doesn't help... then you should find a new job and then quit... or talk to the parents about it
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I go to a private school, and my friend did also, but then she went public. i still keep in touch with her and she is still a really great friend. But now i have this other great friend in school with me and i'm not sure wiether to think she is a better friend or not. Should i replace her? is it bad that i do not feel as close to my previous best friend?
-dorinflower55 (link)
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its fine... people come and go in lives,.. and friendships change...you don't have to replace her.. its just this girls your new friend and the others your old... still keep in touch with her... but you don't have to rate which ones better than the other... she'll always have a special place in your heart
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ok im 13 female and i started cutting because family and friend problems and i stopped 4 like 2 weeks and then i got so mad and deprest i cut again and now i want to really bad but i promised myself i wouldnt do it again because im scared someones going to find out about it and send me to a mental home or something beause of it and i have thought about killing myself one or twice but i havent gone threw with it yet but i trie to hide it from my mom and my teachers so i dont wear shorts or anything and i wear a jacket most the time so that no one see the scares but i really need help and i was going to tell someone about it but im to scared so can anyone give me advise because i could really use some right now??? please help (link)
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ok... i think that you have to stay strong... if you get mad... scream into your pillow... blast your music... go outside take a basketball and just throw it at the ground really hard... just let your anger out in other ways... go to your guidence couselor or a trusted adult and tell them everything your feeling... you don't have to tell them you cut... just tell them all your problems... if your never gonna cut again... and i mean NEVER than there's no need to tell people what happemed om the past... get some scar creame so that you can erase the scars.. hope you feel better
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i've gotten everything... sweaty armpits... can't fit into shoes.. pubic hair... vaginal discharge... everything! i went to the doctors last year in march or april... and they said my period would be coming in about 6 months - a year... and its the end of march now and it still hasn't come... my discharge has been heavy lately... how much longer will i have to wait (link)
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everyone "blooms" at there own time.. your period should be coming soon... but no one can tell you when
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okay, there was a party last night and i became friends with this boy, i kissed him on the lips as a joke, and then he said "come with me to the bathroom" i brought my friend with me, and then he started kissing me. what should i have done?
Was it a big deal?
Am i stupid for stopping it half way? (link)
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you should ALWAYS do what YOU feel is right... your feelings will NEVER be stupid... i can't really say if its a big deal or not because you do what you feel is right,. hope i helped =]
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ok, here goes, i have known this guy for 3 yearsnow, we have always had something even tho he has been engaged and i have had a long term bf who is his mate, now we are both single , and have been getting together on the sly, (we cant let too many people know yet as my ex and him ae good fiends) but all our mutual friends know, we are the best of friends and he says he loves me, but the other day he asked me to get a number from a message in his phone , and i saw a message to his ex fiance (who he apparantly hates now) saying he missed her, it was just a random bit at the end of a normal message, do ya think im right to be a bit worried?? sorry this was so long!!!! (link)
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sure... you should be worried... talk to your boyfriend about it.. if you guys have always had some sort of a connection... than maybe your meant to be... after you talk to your boyfriend about the message... you have to decide if he's definetly loyal.. if you have any doubts... don't let the conversation end.. hopefully he really is worth it.. if you can't seem to have the guts to talk to him... continue checking his messages... if things get any worse than you definetly have the right to bring something up... hope i helped
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i really like this guy and the problem is i dont know if he likes me. i dont think he does and i need help. (link)
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you can do 1 of 2 things
1) since this dude don't like you... he's probably not the man of your dreams and you could get someone a lot better than him who WILL love you back
2) you can ask him out.. the worst thing that'll happen is he'll say no.. sure you'll be upset... but in the longrun ... you'll find a guy who will wanna go out with you... take a risk if you REALLY like him... don't have any regrets
hope i helped
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I recently went to an orthodontist and he said i needed to have braces on my top six teeth for six months to straighten it. Now my aunt takes her kids (my cousins) to this other ortho who does all the private school kids and she thinks that he is the best...she wants me to go to him and have a second opinion on my teeth..my mom disagrees..my mom doesn't think there's enough time to have a second opinion..now i'm stuck in the middle because my mom doesn't want to me to go but my aunt keeps yelling at me because she thinks the ortho that she goes to is soo much better! My mom was planning on getting me braces on april 15..but now that my aunt has gotten in the way, she wants to have the second opinion consultation on may 19! i don't know what to do because i am stuck in the middle!!! (link)
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i think you should think about what YOU want... then sit both of them down and say "ive done some thinking... and i know which doctor I want... my desicion isn't based on what you guys thought... its based on what i thought... and its not to hurt anyones feelings... but i want 'so and so' to be my orthodontist".. don't let them make the desicion for you... its your teeth and you need to pick who you think is best. (if i were you... i'd just want to get braces over with... i hate my braces!)
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