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so this guy hes really sweet and everything i just dont like him in the way he likes me i didnt mean say sure when he asked me out he just looked really sad, i wasnt expecting it so i kinda freaked out and felt bad saying no. like this other guy so what do i say to him i dont want to hurt his feeling but i really dont like him whats the best way to fix this
Samantha(aka_sam) answered Sunday May 22 2005, 1:40 pm: First off you have to be honest with him it may hurt his feeling alittle but act sad when telling him. tell him that you think he is a great guy and all but if maybe yall could just be friends and act sad so it doesnt make him feel guilty.
-Sam- [ Samantha(aka_sam)'s advice column | Ask Samantha(aka_sam) A Question ]
tearsintherain08 answered Saturday May 21 2005, 11:59 pm: I have a familar situation and the best thing to do is to tell the guy you just want to be friends and that you cant like him in that way..also its not fair to date someone you cant shar feelings with..right? simple problem answer..Oh and if the guy is hurt try not to feel to bad. [ tearsintherain08's advice column | Ask tearsintherain08 A Question ]
mystical_breeze answered Saturday May 21 2005, 5:43 pm: Of course he's going to be upset, but even though he's going to act that way you did the right thing by saying no and telling the truth. I suggest you talk to him again and tell him exactly what you said in here, that you weren't expecting him to ask you and you feel bad saying no, but it would be for the best if you just stay friends. Soon he will get over it and find a girl that will like him the same way.
~Alexa~ Good luck!
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xosweetiepiexo answered Saturday May 21 2005, 4:45 pm: Well you've just gotta be honest with this guy, you can't lead him on... just tell him that he's a great guy, but you think its just best if you guys are friends right now... or something like that [ xosweetiepiexo's advice column | Ask xosweetiepiexo A Question ]
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