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My sister and father are not talking!!!!!!
Hey,
Ok well 3 years ago i was at my beach house and my dad told me i had a half sister, Elisabeth. He said that she was coming down to visit and like the rest of the family wanted to meet her, like EVERYONE in my family was there. So she came, and she was sooo beautiful and we saw eachother and ran and hugged ^_^ We were so happy knowing we had a sister cause our whole lives we wanted one! so she saw ALL of the family and was upset, she thought it was going to be just me and my dad *big surprise for her* so then we switched aim adresses and numbers and we still talk, but she never talks to my dad anymore and dosent want a relationship with him now cause he was bugging her to go to college. This year she's enrolling but i dont get to see her- at all.. all cause of my dad *whom i live with* and she dosent even know my mom, so it's hard for us to even BE sisters. Does anyone know what i can do to cope with this Fued?!?! Thanx a bunch, i'll rate REALLY, REALLY high for good advice *tear* ... thanx!
*Jill*
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Okay, I can see that you care deeply for your sister, as well as your dad. But you have to let these things work out on there own. For coping though I would suggest talking to your dad and your sister about it. Or you could talk to your friends. They would probably be awesome during this type of conflict. I just know that everything will work out and your gonna feel better soon. So dont worry, and hang in there! Your friends are here for you Jill! ^_^
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You need to talk to your sister and ask why she is acting like that. She has to know that things cant always end up perfectly. She wont end up like you and your dad so tell her not to worry about it. You, your dad and sister should all go out to dinner and try to see each other more. ♥
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HEY JILL! haha itz jaimeeeee!!i saw your question...i knew it was you right away. well, maybe you should ask your sister whats up with her and your dad, and ask your dad the same thing. Or try to set up a certain day of each week/ month ect. when its just you and Elisabeth. Maybe you can introduce your sister and mom to eachother someday. HoPE i heLpeD!! Good luck!:D <33!RUMPRAOST! haha
~*jemmy*~
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Well Jill, maybe you should talk to Elisabeth and ask her what's the situation between her and your dad, I mean maybe he could have told her something and she's finding out it wasn't true. After you've talked to her, talk to your dad and explain the problem. Next time she visits it will be much better because everything will be fixed.
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k since im the first one to answer this, i should be rated a 5. lol. just kidding. i think you should talk to your sister and tell her he didn't kno all those people were going to be there and if she could come back and see you, it'll just be your dad and you.
*hope i helped*
xoxo Julie'
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