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ok, here goes, i have known this guy for 3 yearsnow, we have always had something even tho he has been engaged and i have had a long term bf who is his mate, now we are both single , and have been getting together on the sly, (we cant let too many people know yet as my ex and him ae good fiends) but all our mutual friends know, we are the best of friends and he says he loves me, but the other day he asked me to get a number from a message in his phone , and i saw a message to his ex fiance (who he apparantly hates now) saying he missed her, it was just a random bit at the end of a normal message, do ya think im right to be a bit worried?? sorry this was so long!!!!
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Well since I'm only 15, I'm probably not the best person to answer this question, but that's ok.. I don't think you have a real reason to worry.. Although you two are best friends, sometimes when you're around someone for as long as he was with his ex, you miss their conversation and personality. It probably has nothing to do romantically. He just might miss her as a friend. If you're really concerned though maybe ask him if he still has feelings towards his ex.. something of that sort. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~Lana
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ok....well i think that you should be totally worried...i mean if he says he loves you then the next few days you find out that he misses his ex....you got your self a lil problem....just talk it out with him!
~Busylizi~
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sure... you should be worried... talk to your boyfriend about it.. if you guys have always had some sort of a connection... than maybe your meant to be... after you talk to your boyfriend about the message... you have to decide if he's definetly loyal.. if you have any doubts... don't let the conversation end.. hopefully he really is worth it.. if you can't seem to have the guts to talk to him... continue checking his messages... if things get any worse than you definetly have the right to bring something up... hope i helped
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Well sure, be worried. But read the date on that message, was it when you two were starting out or was it a recent message? Talk to him about it...he shouldent get mad because he told you to get a number from one of his messages. So yeah...just talk to him and maybe he'll have a good reason ! i hope everything works out for the best!
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