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i know im so lucky to have my boyfriend but i take him and our relationship for granted a lot and i expect things to be perfect a lot. What can i do to lighten up and appreciate things, like REALLY appreciate things?
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Well.. i no how you feel.. when i was going out with my ex boyfriend.. i expected him to be the perfect boyfriend.. so every little thing he did that bothered me i told him.. and expecting him to be perfect pushed him away.. and he dumped me.. no boyfriend is gonna be perfect.. you have to appreciate what you have.. if you love him and you no he loves you.. and you can talk to him about anything and you feel comfortable together..then thats as perfect as it will get.. if you no you're lucky.. then thats all that matters.. just compromise and come to conclusions together.. if he does something thats not so "perfect".. you just have to say well at least its not like hes cheating on me.. push the little problems aside and enjoy having a boyfriend.. hope i helped
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well if you know that your taking the relationship for granted then it shouldn't be that hard to realize how great it is! Nothing is perfect, even though they may seem it at times..
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realize that nothing in life is perfect and lower your expectations! like for me the little things go a long way . . like just saying i love you or a little kiss or hug! just be appreciative of everything he does! show him that you care, appreciate everything he does for you, and that you love him! hope i helped*
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Spend more time with him. Start to realize that what you have is perfect. that you have a perfect relationship with the perfect guyy. A lot of girls are dying to have a girlfriend. You know that you're lucky to have your boyfriend, there's a start. Just give him nice cards or a little gift. Good luck && hope i helped
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You need to realize that most girls would KILL for a boyfriend, or even for a boy to like them! Appriciate that you don't have that same problem! If you still are taking things for granted, go do some kind of volunteer work. That's charity, and it will make you feel better! [=
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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Little things go a long way. Do things like cook him a meal, spend quality times with him and what he likes weathe it's sports or a hobbie.
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