how do you ask a boy out in a note please tell me
My honest opinion about NOTES is that theyre kind of a bad idea. I mean, if you trust the guy and think it'll go good..by all means, do it. Just a tip of advice - its best to ask a guy out in person! He can easily show ANYONE that note, like his friends or people in your school. So, thats the risk..hopefully hes not that big of a jerk. Anyway if you really want to ask a guy out in a note you have to work hard for it not to be TOO straightforward and too cheesy.
"______, I really think that we have clicked well together. First of all, youre so sweet and I want you to know, it means a lot to me that we know eachother. Youre one of the first people in my life Ive actually felt good with and I want to go out with you. I'm a great girl, and seriously think we should give it a chance!"
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I dont know exactly how to put a pic into my advice column. I try to upload a pic from my digital camera but it says that the file size is too big. what does that mean and can anybody tell me how to do it.
Okay.
Go to tinypic.com.
Copy the last URL it gives you.
Go to advicenators.com and login.
Go to profile settings.
Paste your URL in the box next to "URL of a picture of you:"
Click submit.
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15/F
I really want a boyfriend.
And its not like you can go buy one from the store ahaha, but I'm always meeting new people.
I dont know, just how did some of you guys find your boyfriends?
any tips..?
Its a 24/7 hour job trying to find a boyfriend. :] The hard part? Everyone wants love. Everyones looking for it. And most good guys are taken. You basically have to just keep yourself open! Flirt with guys you like like its your job. Seriously, thats not slutty. But, if you really REALLY want a boyfriend you have to work for it! Chances are, he's not just going to come to you out of nowhere..you have to work for him. Learn to be confident yourself and ask people if they want to hang out. Thats how you get a boyfriend.
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are ugg boots still in style in new jersey? i didnt get them though.. I got some other sheepskin boots from england (my aunt got them for me :]) would those be in style too? also where are some good places for a trendy, preppy-tomboyish 13 year old to go shopping that dont cost much? cuz we're kinda short on money now.. and I always end up going to the expensive stores and getting like 1 thing.
To me Uggs or any other boots will ALWAYS be in style, no matter what people say. Everyone has them in my school. Theyre comfortable & cute, so who cares if theyre "in?"
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I was just wondering why on instant messaging and on this site (actually alot on the internet) people type like this:
"Heyy whatsss upp??" or "I needd advicee aboutt myy boyfrienddddd."
They usually dont add like alot of letters except on IM though. I can understand why people shorten words, so they can type less, but why would people make themselves seem dumb by adding the last letter of a word 2-10 times? Is it like a trend, or am I missing some kind of secret? Thanks.
Sometimes I do it because it looks like a joke. Sounds confusing, I know. AH, the pshychology of AIM. Its weird..but I catch myself going "youre so pretttyyyyy." Because its basically a way to drag out speach, making it less serious. So, if they get offended, you can just play it off like you were kidding. I tend to add more letters because it distracts the person from the actual word. People do it when they want to say something, but they hesitate to say it, becuase they dont know if it sounds right. So, preeeettyyy sounds more like a friendly joke than just saying, "You're pretty." Everyone has their own reasons. :]
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if a boy bothers you a lot but in a fun way does that mean he likes you as a gf or just a friend
It depends on how old you are. In my opinion, if a guy teases you PLAYFULLY without trying to send you a hint its because he doesnt like you or something, he's trying to get your attention and flirt with you! AKA he likes you. :]
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think of your DREAM house.
and tell me something about it.
something special.
dont tell me "it has a living room"
tell me something different about it.
like how the hall, is a hall of mirrors.
or how the fifth floor is a paintball range or something.
or even somthing about the outside.
how all the windows are shaped like bongs.
or your secret garden right before the bar on the beach.
:)
things like that.
thankk yoouuu
My dream house. :] Hmm well I want it to be a HUGE all white antique house overlooking the California beaches. I want it to have ginormous windows so the sun can shine in all of the rooms. Sheer curtains on every window. I would want a theatre - not a movie theatre, an actual stage. With electronic equipment like microphones and instruments. PLUS, my own dance floor. I also would want a floor for my own makeup/hair salon like Mariah Carey has and a biggg walk in closet with all my clothes, shoes and accessories! And I want a pool and hot tub..on the roof!
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how do you become a moderator on advicenators?
Hey. Well, you have to have THESE qualifactions in order to be a moderator.
You've been rated five times
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You've updated your column in the last week
If all those are okay and you want to become a mod. or if youre not sure what your status is, go to this link:
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i have wavy hair. ive tried a lot of products but my hair is ALWAYS frizzy! wat products or things can i do to it to make the frizz go down?? its sooo poofyy! i always have to have it either up or straighten it or curl it with moose but i can never just let it down wen its wet. please. i need to get rid of this FRIZZ!!!
Bedhead products work REALLY well, from experience!
BED HEAD by TIGI
CONTROL FREAK
or Sunsilk De-frizz products.
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umm yeah i feel dumb asking this but my boyfriend reallly wants me to have phone sex. ive never done it before....so help!
Are you asking what phone sex is? If you are, phone sex is talking to your boyfriend on the phone while you both are touching yourselves and explaining what youre doing. Ex: "Im rubbing your chest and working my way down." Something like that! Ha. :] And making noises. You know what I mean. Dont do if it makes you feel uncomfortable.
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A mean , rude, jerk.
He's mean to me, he calls me fat etc.
He hates me
But we used to be really really good friends
I still like him
No matter how mean he is
wtf
help?
14/f
I HIGHLY doubt you like him. Maybe you lust him, which means you are attracted to him. But like is you like them for everything - their personality, who they are. People change. Obviously, this kid has changed if you USED to be friends. I think that might be why you like him...you still think of him as the way he was when you were friends with him. But, you cant change him. He seems like a real jerk. Someone that hates you and calls you fat is NOT worth your time. Please get over him. Forget about looks. Say, if he wasnt attractive would I like him? If we hadnt have been friends would I like him? Chances are, no. You need to realize there are better people out there who you'll miss out on if you waste your time on jerks.
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I`m already worried about starting
high school next year, especially the drinking
scene. My best friend was given 20 minutes to
live this year after I found her severly drunk
at a soccer game. (Keep in mind, we're 8th
graders) Well, I had no idea any of this was
going on and I'm not sure if I can handle
my other friends getting into drinking next
year. How do I keep myself out of it?
I'm not up for risking my life like she did,
but I am curious about trying it! Thats the
problem.
Hey. Just so you know - not EVERYONE drinks in high school. Believe me. I know it seems like it but thats because the people that DO it like to tell everyone they do to be "cool" and brag about their lives. Theyre losers. Keep in mind your friend made a HORRIBLE mistake..but that doesnt mean you have to follow the same path. I strongly suggest that you dont drink. But, on the other hand, I do have to warn you. NOT drinking does come with baggage. People will label you a "goody good" because they are jerks. My advice to you is to just play along. You dont have to drink. But, you shouldnt miss out on parties, etc just because of it. Dont drink if you dont want to. I know people that go to parties and hold beers and never take a sip and no one notices. Some people just plain say, "No thanks." I would also encourage you to try to make friends that dont drink. To another question you had, the way you keep YOURSELF out of it is to put yourself above it all. Youre better than that..you have more going for you. Like LIFE.
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does popping your cherry hurt and can you pop the cherry by wearing a tampon for the first time?
Popping your cherry is a slight discomfort. And yes, you can pop it by wearing a tampon or even riding a horse.
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I will try something on before i go to school, i will look good/okay in it at my house. Then when I get to school I'll look in the mirrors and I look fat/jiggly! Whats up with that? Is it just hte mirrors or do I really look like that :(
Also tips for a flatter/non jiggly stomach? Foods and exercises - fAST PLS!
School mirrors, dressing room mirrors & public restroom mirrors are the worst. I swear theyre like DESIGNED to make us feel bad about ourselves! God. Well, to make you feel better..its not very accurate. When youre in school, its ALL cheap flourescent lighting - not your fault. When that kind of light hits you it makes everything appear fat. Its more so in the bathrooms because there are no windows - so no natural light at all coming in. You look different in class, etc. because there are actually windows with light so dont think you look the same in the school bathroom mirror than when youre in a classroom. Its also the mirrors. Theyre inexpensive too. And sometimes the glass reflects, etc.
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ok this boy i like is going to sit with me on the bus tomorrow. i am so nervous, what do i do? what do i say? i dont want there to be any kind of awkward silences. HELPPP MEEE.
Think of questions to ask him. Keep the conversation flowing. And make sure you are interested in what he's saying or at least come off that way. :]
Examples:
Whats up?
How was your christmas vacation?
So what'd you do last weekend?
What kind of music are you into?
Who do you hang out with in our school?
What do you do for fun?
Do you play any sports?
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Me and my friend made this fake screename to talk to this boy
We did it becuase he doesnt like us and wont talk to us , but we said it was someone , he doesnt know her very well at all though
We talked to him for hours and hours for 2 nights
and we could tell he stayed up all night just to talk to "kaitlyn" when its not her .
We feel bad for doing this, but at the same time he lied about alot of stuff
We could also tell that he was starting to like " Kaitlyn" just by what he was saying and how he was flirting
It made us sad becuase we like him alot and we could tell he was liking "kaitlyn" but not us
Yeah I know we did a dumb thing
But what shuld we do?
Well, Im a little confused. Why doesnt he like the real you? Did you make "Kaitlyn" a different personality..maybe more outgoing perhaps? If so, thats the reason he liked her more. Also, some people are shallow. Is he popular? If so, maybe he doesnt want to talk to the REAL you becuase he's an asshole who only cares about hanging out with people in his own clique and people he doesnt know to keep his reputation "clean." It sounds like this is the deal here. Anyway, you have to stop IMing him because if he finds out, you will be in a REALLY bad situation. Also, if you could pretend to be Kaitlyn you can act like her in real life too. Obviously stay true to yourself! Im just saying..he liked YOU. The only thing different was the name. So try to start over with him.
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14/f okay there is this i have liked for SOOOOO long and no matter what he has done i have always like him and he know i like him and i have made moves twoards him but they never have worked because he just doesn't like me....and i understand that but i just don't know how to get overh im because i miserable and i hate knowing i can't have him....how do i get over him
Hey hun. Ive been in this situation SO many times and I cant tell you a magic way to get over a guy that doesnt like you the same way. I know how you feel. Rejection hurts..bad. :[ But I CAN tell you it doesnt last forever. Let this keep you motivated to be the best girl you can be! Let him know what HE MISSED. Get out of your sweats and let it be an oppertunity to be better..for YOU and all the better guys you'll meet in the future. When this happen to me, I get myself pampered. I go shopping, get my nails done, my hair done, etc. I build up my own self confidence and forget about the guy that doesnt like me. Whatever. HES missing out! It just wasnt meant to be. Try to find a new hobby to keep you busy and happy. Surround yourself with fun and friends and you'll forget about him in time.
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I have pale skin, usually. It isn't scary pale, its more like ivory, but when I'm in fluerescent (spelling?) lighting, I look really...sickly? It just doesn't look good. I look like a vampire, and I obviously don't like it. Plus, the entire school has fluerescent lighting, and I definitely don't want to look bad at school. My question is, is there anything I can do (makeup trick, etc) that won't make me look washed out? Thanks =]
Jergens Natural Glow or Neutrogena self-tanner. It wont turn you orange. They both work well. :] Or use a bronzer in your makeup. Sephora is my favorite store for makeup. And Cargo is my favorite brand for bronzers. Or you can also go to a tanning bed, which is what I do [just know its risky for skin cancer.] Or get a spray tan.
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i'm 5"3 and 118 pounds.
is this too heavy? honesty, please.
also, im a bit lazy. but i want to start excersising and toning my arms, stomach, and thighs. does anyone know of any specific workouts or specific excersise plans that i can try at home
thanks!
NO! Youre not overweight at all. Youre average..right in the middle. I calculated your BMI on www.am-i-fat.com and it gave me the weight range for your height:
Your theoretical minimum weight is:- 107
lbs
Your theoretical maximum weight is:- 130
lbs
So, your right in the middle.
Workouts:
.Cardio - run, dance, jump - anything that will get your heart rate up!
.Ab excercises (tighter tummy.) Go to google and type in ab excercises to get specific excercises. :]
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can someone tell me the EXACT definition of straightedge? i think its just not getting into drugs and alchohal, but can someone tell me the true definition of it. thnx
Straight edge is basically living a clean life without drugs, drinking and casual sex. It's living a poison free and keeping yourself safe. It is a choice and it does not make you better or worse than anyone. We all make choices and some choose to be straight edge and some don't. Yes, it's true that some people will stop being sXe when they turn 21 but that is just another choice. Straight Edge is a way of life but has now been formed into a trend. Out there, there are true edgers.
1)no drugs
2)no alcohol
3)no promiscuous sex
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