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ok, so u hear about these girls who have guys as best friends..well im one of those girls. any ways, brandon os my best guy friend, and i love him..but not like that. well, it turns out he has the biggist crush on me...and he told me he loves me more than anyone else. but the prob. is..is that i just like him as a friend. Hes the sweetest guy a girl culd have..but im just not really ready for a relationship. and hes really hard on himself, and i would do anything to keep from breaking his heart. But if i do end up having feelings for him...i would definatly go out with him. but hes kinda dorky...and i kno i kno it shouldnt matter, but wut if people tried to make fun of us as a couple...so what should i do??

hmm..it seems to me that you DO actually like him but you're letting his reputation (or lack of one) get in the way - look at it this way, one of you has to be the "cooler" or "hotter" one in the relationship, so why can't it be u??

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List what you think the top five fashion MUSTS to have in your closet will be this fall...I could use some tips on whats gonna be in fashion...!!! Thanks!

1) a cute skirt (jean or pleated or the cotton kind)
2) an off the shoulder sweatshirt-like shirt
3) jeans with a cute belt
4) an off the shoulder shirt with a tank top under it
5) shirts with flowers pinned on them

also, i saw someone do this, and i thought it was soo neat so i did it too ~ take an old t-shirt and cut it down the middle in the front and tie the ends at the bottom so it's like a t-shirt/jacket thing lol do u have ne clue what i mean?? lol

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hey! i came to u before with my problem about the girl i have a crush on liking my best friend and i thought u gave some great advice. so i'm coming to u again.

Before I told the girl how i felt, i wanted to clear things up with my best friend first. He told me that he wouldn't make a move on her and that i could have her. I didn't want him to just give her to me, cuz i thought that wouldn't be right. So later i asked him if he would go out with her, and he sed maybe when school starts again (we're freshmen). After he told me that, i went and told the girl just like she asked me to. She went on about how she was so grateful she was that i did that for her and that this was the happiest day of her life and that she has liked my best friend for a long time. After she sed that, i didn't think it was the right time to tell her my feelings. I'm so lost, wut should i do? plz help!

hey, i'm glad to help!

okay, so you obviously kno that this changes things up a little!! i don't think now's the right time to tell her because if you truly like her then you'll want what's best for her and that might be for her to go out with your friend.. and if you do tell her then she'll probably think you're just jealous...also, if she told you that she's liked this guy for a while, then it's probably a sign that she hasn't given as much thought into going out with you as you have about going out with her...i suggest that you let them see how things work out between them, but make sure that your best friend doesn't take advantage of her and always be there for her - do NOT do nething w/ her or tell her once they start going out though (if they do) cuz it'll look like you're backstabbing your best friend -- you never kno, things might not work out between them!! and maybe she hasn't liked you for the plain reason that she never really thought about you that way ~ but if she does start to think about it then something may heat up! lol...if it's inevitable that they're gonna get together, then the best thing you can do is show her that you're a good guy and a good friend! but you seem pretty cool so I think you'll be alright!! if you have any other questions or just wanna talk then leave one in my inbox! ;)

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If your a freshman in High School.. what is the homework load for someone in ALL honors courses?

well, obviously every school is gonna be different, but i was in all honors 9th grade and I thought it was a lot harder than 8th grade -- i had to do more reading on my own and i definitely studied a lot, but i got good grades!! if you are willing to put time into it, u should be fine!! *nothing is hard - it just takes time*

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School is starting soon and that means yearbook pictures! im so nervous mine is gonna look bad...is there any way to like practice to make sure u look good or what?

i always look in a mirror to decide which way i want my hair - like tucked behind my ears or behind my shoulders, etc.... you can also practice your smile, but you also want it to look natural! and practice putting on your make up so that you kno exactly how you want it to be

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how do i know if i need a bra?

a lot of ppl start wearing a bra b4 they actually have anything of a chest, just start with a sports bra so that you're comfortable and it won't be very noticeable... at first you only really need a bra so that you aren't embarrassed when you start to get speed bumps haah you'll kno when your chest starts developing -- most ppl i kno started wearing sports bras in 5th and 6th grade

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My friend just told me today.. that she ALWAYS throws up after she eats. As much as I'd love to help her, I just dunno what to say. Cuz she might get mad. I don't want anything bad to happen to her. The past couple days shes been telling me that shes been haveing bad stomach pains and she feels sick ALL THE TIME. I wanna help her, I don't wanna make her mad and say the wrong thing though. Should I just forget about it, and let her live her life the way she wants it? What would you do? Please I need help.. =(

*amYy.. my AIM sn is NaInErZzZ

you have to do something, even if it's to just tell her parents - warn her that the acid in throwing up can ruin your teeth and your esophagus and you don't get nutrients that your body needs!! i had a friend who had an eating disorder and i didn't kno what to do so i didn't do nething cuz i didn't feel it was my place to do nething and after she got help she told me she wished i would've said something and i always wonder what would've happened if i did........

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hello. i'm going into 7th grade and i weigh 153. i'm 5'3". i want to run cross country, but i don't want to get a physical cause you get weighed. for one reason, my mom is skinny and is always preaching to loose weight and i did, 5lbs. reason two, i don't want the coachs, and definatley other runners to see it. what should i do? I only have till next thursday. please help. i rate HIGH!

the other ppl on the team won't ever find out how much you weigh, and it doesn't matter what you weigh - it's how you look! (and feel!) it sounds like being active is a good idea to me if you have weight concerns...plus, I KNOW the doctor has seen some ppl that weigh WAY more than you do!!!!!

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i have a bump on the inside of my pubic area.. im almost positive its not HIV becaus i only have one & my boyfriend has no signs & hasnt been with anyone who has any.. its itchy & sometimes sore when irritated, im going to the doctor soon.. has anyone ever had one of these? what do you think it is?

ingrown hair??

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Hey Everyone ! Ok ths is a good one, How come when your single you have the hardest time finding anyone to go out with. But as soon as you have a BF and become Attached Everyone in the world wants to date you. How many times has this happen to you guys? LOL its agravating. But I love my man so no huge complaints here. Have a great day everyone ! xoxoxoxooxoxoxox

you have to have a boyfrined to get a boyfriend hahaha ...ppl want what they can't have i guess, and they figure if somebody else wants you, then you must be special! ;)

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ok well i have this one friend well she's more like my best friend but anyways there was some bad shit going on in my family and i didn't know how to handle it and well so i cut. and i meen now she's soooo mad at me for doing that when i told her i would neevr do it again like 50 times. but it just helps you feel better! what should i do i really don't want to loose my friend anymore then i alreayd have!

she's probably mad because she doesn't understand how you could do that to yourself - so explain it to her! let her know that you've realized why it's a really bad thing to start tho...also, she may be mad because you resorted to cutting yourself instead of talking to her - so show her that you want her help by talking to her about cutting!

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Ok...Well My sister is 15 years old and has been doing alot of partying lately and messing around with guys much older than she is!Its been bothering me because im 17 going to be 18 shortly and i am going to be 8 months pregnant which dont get me wrong im happy about the baby and im not going to regret her but i just dont want to see my sister end up in the same situation at an early age if she keeps it up.She seems to think that what she is doing is fine but im worried about her ending up in a bad situation or getting a bad reputation.Any ideas on what i should do and do you think that what she is doing is wrong?

is there a possibility that she might be acting out for attention?? you might've been getting a lot of attention since you got pregnant, and maybe she feels unimportant...i suggest telling her straight up why she should stop based on your own experiences

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Well I have this really birth mark/mole on my at the top of my left arm, but none of my friends know about. I always cover it up with a bangage or something that sort but the only reason I do is because people used at school used to stare at it and make fun of me about it. So my question is should I keep hiding it or should I just let it be and not care about it?

as long as it's not hairy, then let it show! it's part of your skin and you! lol but if it bothers you so much then get it removed!! *i think you've been watching too much austin powers haha...moley,moley,moley ;)

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i jest found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me with my bff should i not be her friend or dump him or do both.

you can't place the blame on just one of them - cheating involves 2 ppl! but give them a chance to redeem themselves b4 u cut them out of your life

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hi. my rich grandparents just bought me a saleen s7 for my 16th bday. I LOVE THE CAR and ive always wanted it. The only problem is, even though my neighborhood is fairly nice nobody has a car like mine and everyone is making fun of me! they say rich girl, spoiled brat, snob and stuff like that. My car got egged too :(. How can i make this stop??
thankz

offer your friends rides and stuff so that get to be in the "cool car" too!! the other ppl are just jealous - ask them if they would turn down a new car for free? didn't think so haah

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I've a had crush on this girl for a few months and i think she might like me too. We are like best friends, but we flirt with each other all the time. We tell each other everything. She tells me everytime she likes a new guy. But last night was different. She told me that she liked my best friend. I can't say i blame her, cuz my friend is a nice guy (that's why he's my best friend). I don't know how to feel. I'm kinda disappointed, but at the same time, i want her to be happy. What should i do?

i think you should tell her that you like her but don't put any pressure on her to like you back..just tell her so that you won't regret not telling her and if you're lucky than she just might like you back - you do already have a lot in common!

((This last part isn't going to be very motivational, I'm warning you lol - my best guy friend had a major crush on me for years, and I knew this but I just couldn't think of us as being in a girl/guy relationship since he was practically my brother and all. on the other hand, I didn't act any differently towards him after finding out that he liked me..anyway, this might just be in my case since he lived next door to me lol so DON'T LET THAT DISCOURAGE YOU!))

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theres this kid i really like and he likes me too so he asked me out last night and i said yes. then today hes like i like yoo more as a friend so want to be just that so im like sure , but i dont know how to act towards him now, do i be friendly or ignore him, i dont know what to do.

i think you should still be friendly with him, but if you guys end up talking a lot and forming a friendship, I'd definitely ask him what was up with him asking you out and then changing his mind

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im 14 and went out w| this guy during the school year and i still cant get over him. even when i liked other guys and went out w| them, and just recently i thouight i was over him but every time i see him i like him again,and since hes like my best friend i see him alomost everyday, do you have any advice to help me get over him?

they always say you never really forget your first love but that doesn't mean that you should still be with him - it also doesn't mean that you should cut things off...if you like his company, spend time with him so that you don't miss him ~ who knows, maybe you'll realize what you don't like about him if you spend more time with him! lol

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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me



*~I RATE REALLY GOOD~*

no offense, but i think that's not the way to go about getting noticed...i mean you WILL be noticed, but most likely ppl will be grossed out or laughing...wear form fitting clothes, but thongs sticking out just aren't attractive.....that's my opinion tho, sorry if it's not what you wanted to hear

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are carrots good 4 u

most definitely...and i think they help your eyesight

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