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It's fine.Ask me a question. I like giving advice. If you don't like the advice I give, or the opinion I have, it's fine.
Sometimes you can't get through to people no matter how long and hard you try.
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im john and im only 13 i realy have an urge to have sex but i know i shouldnt i have tried evrything but nothig helps what should i do?
Usually around thirteen, your hormones start acting up. You start thinking about sex more and more. That's normal. However, just because you have these urges doesn't mean you should act on them right now. You shouldn't rush in just for the sake of having sex. There are so many risks involved that you couldn't possibly be ready for right now. Be careful and wait until you are absolutely ready to handle possible consequences.
my friend is annoying and, like if he gets really annoying and i call him retarted or a d#*k head and then he goes "how am i retarted?" or "how am i a d#*k head?" and then im stuck so can anyone help me come up with a good comeback, a comeback for any situation would be good if you want, thanks
btw were both in grade eightand were guys
and pleaz dont be sayin stuff like your to young to be swearing and stuff like that because nearly every kid i know swears and not all of them are as old as me
Honestly kid, why fight fire with fire? I know you're a guy and all so maybe you think that's what guys are "supposed to do". Well, I'd say a more mature approach would be to just ignore him. And if your friend is so annoying, why are you friends with him?
And by the way, if you can't even spell the words your using ("retarted" is spelled incorrectly), then you probably shouldn't be using them in the first place hun. Besides, retarded is a mental illness, not an insult.
I am not going to tell you that you are too young to swear, but by asking this question, you've proven that you are probably not mature enough to swear. I'm not saying that mature people should swear (I'm mature and I don't). But I am saying that you shouldn't swear just because "nearly every kid you know swears".
16/f
bi-sexual
so whenever i get into a realationship,it always feels awkward afterwards
its like i want one but right after i do it just doesn't feel right i guess you could say
right now im going out with my best girl friend
she gorgeous and fun and itde seem like shede be perfect for me
but it feels wierd
this happens everytime,girl or boy,friend,best friend,or just met
its like ill never be marrige material,i know thats a bit extreme,but i just mean ide love a serious realatinship type thing but idk its never right
its like ill always be a one time thing
so i have two problems
1.i want a realationship,but i don't know how to fix this wierdness
2.If i can't i need to break-up with this friend,but i don't know how to go about
it seems anyway i say it doesn't come out right
"Things are only awkward if you make them awkward"
I've definitely learned that lesson lately. What I mean is, the first few days of a relationship are always a little weird or awkward at our age. It's perfectly normal. To get over awkwardness, just pretend everything's cool and fine, etc. Pretty soon, it will fade away.
(You didn't specify how long you've been dating this new girlfriend so I'm just going on assumption lol.)
But basically, if you walk into a relationship (or any situation really) already thinking about how awkward it will be...chances are you're going to be in for the weirdest relationship of your life. But, if you go in with confidence and a positive attitude, the awkward first days will pass quickly.
I wouldn't worry yourself at the moment about not being able to get married. Don't stress just because you're having a few awkward times. No worries.
If with this friend you really do come to find that that awkwardness won't go away and it's been months/years...then do what feels right. If you need to break up with her just let her know that it doesn't feel right and it isn't working out for you. I know it may be hard, but if it isn't working out after a long period of time and you've really given it your best effort, then it's time to move on.
I hope everything works out okay for you. Good luck!
I like a guy in my grade(7th). I know he likes me to.Lots of people have told me. He is to scared to ask me out and I dont want to ask him out. I get nervous. Please Help Me!
Well, if you both like each other and you know this for a fact, what's there to be nervous about?
He's nervous to ask you out, and you're nervous to ask him out. Why is this? Both your feelings for each other are out in the open, so go for it. If you both just sit there nervous and whatnot, nothing's going to happen. So just take a deep breath and ask him. You've got nothing to lose on this one.
Good luck.
f/14
i have this huge crush on this guy lets call him adam. i knew that he liked me back cuz one of his friends told me so i told my best friend lets call her mary about it. then a few weeks later i noticed her flirting with adam when i wasnt there i could tell that adam wasnt in to her cuz he was trying to walk away.i asked her if she liked him and she denied it so i let it go then a little while later we had this dance and she couldn't stay away from adam. i asked her again if she like him and she said no again i wanted to make sure that she really didnt like him so i told her that i like this guy named zach and then i saw her flirting with him too then after awhile i noticed that she always happened to be flirting with the guy that i liked at the time or atleast told her that i like them.i think that she is a copy cat and she likes every body i like i dont want her to ruin my relationships in the future by flirting with my boyfriends so what can i do??
i dont want to hurt her feeling either..
thanks,
clueless
I'm going to tell you a little story:
When I was thirteen, my best friend got her first boyfriend. I personally couldn't understand why on earth she would ever want to date him. But then, once they started going out, I started thinking "You know, he doesn't seem that bad..."
You know why? Because my friend saw something in him, and because she gave him a chance, I started to see what she saw.
It wasn't at all that I was trying to steal or flirt with her boyfriend. It's just that I began to see this guy as dateable now that he actually had someone who liked him (my friend).
So back to the point: I think that maybe your friend sees your crushes as dateable now that somebody likes them. I think that maybe when she hears you talk about how much you like them, something clicks for her and she suddenly knows exactly what you are talking about. Like, "Oh yeah, I do see how nice he is" or "You are so right, he really is funny in a cute way". You've opened her eyes.
With that said though, obviously it's making you uncomfortable. But I don't think she's copying you on purpose. Sometimes it's just hard to control our emotions. Without being mean about it, tell her how you feel. Such as: "Hey Mary, I really really like Adam..and it makes me uncomfortable when you flirt with him all the time. You might not know you're doing it but..." Just be sure to avoid being angry when you're telling her this. You want this to be a mature heart-to-heart. Just remember that you don't have "dibs" on this guy or control over her. All you can do is tell her how you feel. As a friend she should listen to you, but as a person remember she can do what she wants and that it's not your decision unfortunately.
Good luck!
i have an absolutely beautiful perfect best friend ha. and my closest guy friend is her boyfriend. they are perfect for eachother! hes my neighbor, and we hang out alot. but trust me we are NOTHING more than friends. we USED to like eachother, but were way over that and she knows.hes a GREAT friend that i can trust with all my heart too. so i dont ever want our friendship to end. i dont know if i should get any closer with him because i dont want to make her mad that we talk alot. but when we talk it about her or one of the guys i like. it doesnt seem to bother her but i hope one dy me and her friendship doesnt get torn apart because of it.
should i remain as close to him as i am now?
I'd say yes stay close to him. There is nothing wrong with girls being friends with guys. Just because a girl and guy talk, that doesn't mean they like each other.
I think you are just jumping to conclusions here by thinking that your friend will get mad if you and her boyfriend talk. Are you worried about her confronting you about anything? Honestly sweetie, your best friend (emphasis on "best") shouldn't feel threatened by you. Because true friends would never make a move on each others' boyfriends.
However, I notice the part where you said "it doesnt seem to bother her but i hope one dy me and her friendship doesnt get torn apart because of it". Are you expecting the friendship to get torn apart? Sometimes if you expect something bad to happen, it just might because you have your guard up and are just waiting for attack. If you think that she might flip out, then maybe you realize that you are getting "too close". I am definitely not saying back off completely since he is a good friend of yours, just be considerate of your best friend.
But like I said before, guys and girls can be friends. Just relax and don't freak out about it be mistaken for something else, and you'll be fine.
i dont know how to kiss my girlfreind canyou give me tips on how to kiss?
http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-kiss-someone-passionately
http://www.kissing-tips.net/
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
Basically, just relax and have fun. Do what feels right. And above all, if she tells you she's not ready or uncomfortable...stop right then and there. You need to be sure that you're not doing anything she doesn't want to do.
Have fun!
There are bumps on my vag, usually about 5 or 6 at a time (not all clustered like cellulite). Some of them look like pimples that match my skin color, and there's usually one or two that have the texture and size of a mosquito bite. There's also this one bump that looks kind of like a scar. It's about an eigth of an inch long , is several shades darker than my skin color, and is surrounded by a VERY VERY thin yellow-whitish line. and these bumps sometimes itch.
additional info:
-i am a virgin, so no STIs..
-i masturbate on average four-five times a week, depends on where i am in my cycle
-14/f
what is it, and should i be worried?
Ive been told from a friend to get it checked out but im scared and dont want someone looking at me.
Your friend is right, you should go see a doctor. I understand that you are scared and don't want someone looking at you. I was too my first time. But I had to go to the doctor to get "inspected" you could say. And you know, it's not as bad as you think. Most doctors are very matter-of-fact about looking down there. It's their job and their used to it so they're not out to embarrass you. And your parents don't have to be in the room with you in case you're worried about that.
It's just really important that you get it checked. If you have any questions whatsoever about your body that your mother can't answer, see a doctor. You should be comfortable with your doctor, and eventually...if not now, you are going to have to be checked down there. All women go through it and it's nothing to be ashamed of sweetie.
hey everyone,
okay so i am 5 feet 4 inches(female) and I used to weigh 115lbs, and I was happy with the way I looked..I felt healthy. I have gained some weight recently and I now weigh 124lbs. Now, I am not saying that I am fat or anything like that..but I am skinny and than I have this tummy pudge and I have wide hips (love them) soo..basically I just need some fast ways to shape my tummy pudge...I just don't like it hanging over my pants and it ups my pant size from a 3 to a 5...ideas???
What really helps your stomach is drinking water. You should drink at least eight glasses of water a day. I advise to stay away from carbonated beverages, such as soda, as well as really sugary fruit drinks.
However, just cutting soda out of your diet isn't enough. You should exercise. Even if it's just taking a walk around your neighborhood, so be it. It's exercise, which will definitely help.
Also, I'd suggest crunches or sit-ups to build muscle. Running will trim your fat, but crunches will help to build and tone muscle. Or so I've heard. But cardio is by far the best thing for you. For anyone really.
Keep to a healthy diet. Don't eat a lot of junk food such as greasy potato chips, sugary candy, etc. Of course you can have some on occasion. But you definitely shouldn't eat it everyday, all day. Everything is good for you...in moderation.
Sometimes what gets people when planning to eat right and exercise is this: Thinking that just because they made a healthy choice in one aspect, they can make an unhealthy choice in another. But the fact is that diet and exercise just doesn't work like that. You can't balance out lack of activity with steering clear of soda or cookies. Of course it's okay to slip now and then. We're only human. But don't make it a habit to try and "make up" for slipping more in one area.
Here's a website I recommend a lot called My Pyramid Plan. It lets you enter your height and weight into the chart and it comes up with what your body needs specifically, because everybody's different.
http://www.mypyramid.gov/mypyramid/index.aspx
The important this with the website is to be honest when filling out you weight/height/physical activity.
Good luck!
so i had this best friend
i was with her all the time
we were really close
but she started being a really bad friend
and this huge thing happened
and we completly stopped being friends
she never even apologized or anything or even try to be my friend again
not that we could be friends even if we wanted to
actually if we realllyy did im sure we could
but the other day she came whne i was hanging out with my other friend
if wouldnt normally be okay but nothing bad happened
we still arent friends
but everyone says she misses me
today i found something we made
and just started crying
i really wanna be her friend again
but i don't even know how to go about it
or if i can even trust her
Something like this happened to me. I lost one of my best friends in the whole world. I miss her a lot. I don't know what happened to us. The fight was about something totally stupid anyways. I think the main problem for it not getting any better was that nobody tried to fix it. I tried once, but then just dropped it when it didn't work out. But if I were to try again, it could still be fixed. No matter how long ago it was, there's always time to fix it. It's never too late. Me and her could still be friends. And so can you and your ex-best friend.
What I'm telling you is that you should just call her up. Tell her how you feel. If you miss her as much as she seems to miss you, just try. Please. It's never too late.
This question made me realize that people can't just sit around regretting the past. We have got to forgive and forget. You were best friends with this person. There's still a chance. There's always a chance. Call her up. Just talk to her. About anything. It doesn't even have to be about whatever happened to you two. In fact, it probably shouldn't at first. Just ask how she's doing, how she's been. Reach out to her. There's plenty of time for opening up later. The first step is communication.
I'm not saying at all that it should all be up to you to fix this. But sometimes, you just have to step up and be the bigger person. Sometimes, people need somebody else to make the move before they react. She's probably feeling the same way you are. Distant, not sure if she can trust you. After all, a fight involves to people. And we, being only human, often forget how the other person is feeling. So, it sometimes pays just to step into another's shoes. Take a look at things from her perspective. Empathy really really helps.
But like I said, all you need to do is make one phone call. Just one. I doubt that she'd say something rude or anything. Just try. You've got to try. It doesn't matter if you end up talking about absolutely nothing either. Just any communication whatsoever is key.
I wish you all the luck in the world. I know how you feel and what you are going through. It may seem scary or nerve-wracking to call this person up, but what have you got to lose?
So good luck. Let me know if you need anymore advice, or just want someone to talk to. I'm here.
Does anyone know any home remedies to make your hair softer? You know, using things you could find in the kitchen. Thanks a lot!
Mayonnaise.
I know it sounds really really gross, but trust me. If you put it in your hair as a conditioner, then wash it out thoroughly after 2-5 minutes, you're hair will be softer.
Ok, well after a long and complicated story streching out for months, me and a 'friend' are barely friends.
We used to be best friends, now we'll rarely talk on the internet, and if we do it's forced and awkward.
Anyway, I try and move on, and I will admit she's not as petty as she used to be.
However she still has this constant need to show me I'm not welcome in her friendship group (Who were my friends at one point, and a few of them were friends with me before her) as well as try and compete with me over who has more friends.
In a few days there is a meet up with a few people, because a couple of people from town are in our town. People they know have been invited and I was one of them, as well as my now "distant" friend.
Anyway cut to the chase, my "distant" friend invited randoms from her friendship group. Most, who dislike me a lot. Now I don't think I'm THAT special, and her sole purpose in life is to make uncomfortable, however at the same time it makes me wonder what her intentions are. Only one of her friends has spoken to these girls from out of town, only a couple of times. She doesn't really like one of them either. Distant friend's other friends have never even spoken to her before. It makes me wonder why she would invite randoms to a special gathering held for 2 people.
Also, she keeps banging on how her friendship group are going to have a super special awesome sleepover party, and how much fun they're going to have, and keeps hinting and making it obvious that me not being invited is a big thing. Even if we change topics, she'll go back to this "awesome sleepover" and she keeps asking if I'm still going to the meet up.
Basically, she's trying to intimidate me out of going to the meet up. And it's sort of working. I was pretty excited to go, but because all these people who dislike me are going, I'm bummed out and don't want to go. Even if I did go, the whole day would be spent in awkwardness and I wouldn't have fun.
So my question, should I fall for her tactics and stay home, or should I suck it up, go to annoy her and spend the day awkward and misrable?
I understand totally where you are coming from because I've been there. I get exactly how you feel, trust me.
I went through something very similar to your problem. And you know what I've learned? That it's so much better just to not care what she says or does. Because it really won't matter five, ten years down the road. When you're older and look back at this, will it really matter to you what some petty girl did to you in high school? (I'm assuming you are either middle school or high school)
Honestly, what you have to do is just go to this thing and have a good time. But don't go to "annoy her and spend the day awkward and misrable". Go to enjoy yourself with your friends. It doesn't matter that she's invited "randoms" to this thing. Can't you all just get along with each other? What helps me is to not automatically assume that the person is out to get me or is only doing something to annoy me. Because, really even if she is, that doesn't matter. That just shows that she isn't a big enough person to just move on from all those petty arguments. Therefore, you need to be the bigger person and display that it doesn't bother you. She'll leave you alone once she gets this. And if she feels that she needs to continuously brag about her amazing sleepover, well then she seems to have some self-esteem issues. She's only treating you this way to feel better about herself.
Don't "fall for her tactics". She doesn't have any, because you shouldn't be assuming she's out to get you. And don't just "suck it up" and go just to annoy her. That won't solve anything if you go with that attitude.
Good luck! I hope all goes well for you.
I am 15 years old and I am a perfectly healthy girl, I have gone through puberty and I have goten everything it comes with except my period, I am 15 years and 7 months old, I dont thnk thats a normal thing, Im not freaking out yet but my friends keep telling me to go to the doctors and stuff so im getting kinda worried. What should I do?
Hey, I'm fifteen too, have gone through puberty, and have never gotten my period either. And you know what? We're okay. The age is between 9 and 16. So we have a whole year before we should be concerned.
But get this, one of my friends is 17 and she just got her period a few months ago.
You're just a late bloomer. Just like me and my 17-year-old friend. =] But if you are concerned, I would go see a doctor. There could be something wrong with you, but I doubt it.
I really want to start losing weight this summer and start now. Theres a problem though , i cant get motivated to get up and actully do it. How can i motivate my self . Alot of people say buy a ofit you really want to fit in but see that doesnt motivate me. Please give me some ideas on how to get motivated. I cant join a gym eather just incase you need to know. Thanks for the help.
Set a schedule. Almost like a "To-Do List" if you will.
For example:
4.30 get home from wherever
4.30-5.30 go for a jog
5.30-6.00 eat dinner
6.00-6.30 watch TV
6.30-7.30 do crunches, sit-ups, etc.
Stick to the schedule. Every time you really feel like skipping something, find it within yourself to do it anyways. Put check-boxes next to each item and tell yourself that you have to check each item off in order.
I honestly wouldn't buy an outfit you really want to fit in. That could just end up making you feel worse. In fact, stay away from things that make you feel unworthy the way you are now. Because no matter what your weight is, you are still worthy as a person. Focus on how great you'll feel when you lose that weight, not how you'll look. Because take it from someone who knows...feeling good about yourself is a whole heck of a lot better than looking good.
Good luck.
I'm going to get straight to the point!
I can't stick with a diet..
this last time has been my best attempt.
But I cant seem to tell a difference.
Now, starting off I'm going to be dedicated.
No sweets, what so ever.
So heres my plans.
& the question is, what other activities can I do, or foods I can eat, or Remedys, that will help me lose weight.
My Plans:
Drinking nothing but water.[plain water]
Not eating past 6; [my mom usually dont get home from work until 7 or 8 so I'll have to fix my own food.
When I do eat after six, nothing but fruits & veggies.
My PLANS [activity wise]:
Running/Jogging/walking..whatever my mood is.
Running-1 mile.
Jogging Mile & 1/2
Walking 2 miles.
Anything else?
Eating nothing but fruits and vegetables isn't exactly good for you. It isn't completely bad obviously, but what you need is a balance...not cutting out other foods. Moderation really is the key. Everything's good for you...in moderation. Eat until you are satisfied, not stuffed.
Here's a cool website that lets you make your own 'pyramid plan' for your unique weight/height/BMI:
http://www.mypyramid.gov/mypyramid/index.aspx
As for exercise, start out easy and work your way up to it. Don't run five miles a day starting tomorrow if you've never run before. Try jogging for say, fifteen to twenty minutes four times a week. Each week, bump that number up. Pretty soon, you'll be able to run long distances and see a noticeable change. The last thing you'd want is to burn out.
The rule is you shouldn't eat three hours before you go to bed. That's because your body doesn't digest well while you're sleeping, so the food just sort of sits there. At least, that's what my health teacher told us.
You should drink other things besides just plain water. For instance milk. You have to drink milk. I know there's that rumor out there that it makes you fat...but it does build strong bones and you can't just go without it. But yes, water is extremely good for you. You should drink eight glasses a day. But please remember to drink milk too. (Unless of course you are lactose intolerant)
Anyways, good luck with losing weight. Remember just to keep your motivation if you have issues sticking to it. And don't beat yourself up if you don't lose weight fast enough for your standards, because that will make you less apt to stick to it. Trust me. Also, after doing something repeatedly for three weeks in a row, it becomes a habit. So if you were to run three weeks in a row, or fix dinner for yourself three weeks in a row...it'd become a habit so it'd be much much much easier to stay with.
Good luck!
14/f
So,
i met this guy at this dinner party for my parents, and he is as old as me [ i could tell ][we were the only kids there, other than some 2 year olds] we didnt really talk, but he was SO GOOD LOOKING!! anyway, he kept trying to make eye contact [i did sometimes to though] , he would always turn towards me and then "look at the sky", so, if we met again, would there be hope?? like by the way he always tried to make eye contact and im talking always! so, yeah, could this mean anything?
If you were to see him again, of course there's "hope". There's always "hope". You just should try talking to him if you ever see him again.
You see, this doesn't mean that he likes you or anything. The whole trying to make eye contact thing was him noticing you (as in physical attraction) and probably wanting to get to know you. And you semi making eye contact was the same deal. You guys think each other are good looking. So now you need to move on to having conversations if you meet up again.
There is "hope" obviously. To have a relationship? Always. You just gotta make it happen is all. Just because the guy made eye contact isn't the reason why there's hope for this to happen. There's hope for this to happen because you have the ability to choose whether or not you want to talk to him. See? Even if he hadn't of made eye contact, it could still happen because you have the power.
My friends and i are going camping on saturday
i just have a problem.
1) Id have to lie to my mum and dad about where im sleeping, as they wouldnt let me otherwise.
Should i lie to them?
Or just not go?
The lad that i like is going, and i really want to go.
Im jst really worried id get found out.
xx
Honestly, I would just tell your parents the truth. Being truthful would pay off definitely in the long run. Honesty will show them that you are maturing and are responsible and trustworthy. That way the next time you want to go on a camping trip, they might allow you to.
Worrying that you'd get found out is your conscious telling you it's a bad idea to lie. Therefore, it's probably best to listen to that little voice inside your head.
Okay Me and my bff are reallllyyy close we go everywhere together almost always think the same things and like finish each others sentences and have sooo much alike.Before we would talk the wholee day since like 12 all the way to 12 am like n total we would talk 4-6 hrs but know like we dont tak that much we talk like 20 minutes the whole day.And im always the one that has to call her for we can talk and if she calls me she calls me until like 4pm and she keeps saying shes busy and we only talk 20 minutes ten she ends up saying always i have to go..umm take bath idont know like if making it up soo are we fading away or does she want time off help!!
People change. Times change. Etc.
It's no big deal that you aren't talking 4 hours a day. Honestly, I'd get tired of talking to my best friend that long every day (and I love her to death). Sometimes, people do need breaks from each other.
I really don't think it's anything personal against you. She probably just wants some time apart from you. I wouldn't freak out just yet, let her have her space. It's definitely not that you're losing her or anything.
Just relax sweetie. Maybe try hanging with some other friends? Just because she doesn't want to talk with you for hours on end everyday doesn't mean it's the end of the world (or your social life). Try just making other plans with different people.
Sometimes when I'm talking with my best friend, I occasionally just plain run out of things to say. It doesn't mean that I hate her or am done being her friend. All it is is that maybe I'm tired, or we're just talking about the same old stuff that we go over again and again every single day. So, I just need a break. Everybody needs a break from people sometimes. I bet you even might be needing a break from your best friend just like she needs a break from you. It's not like you two are cutting ties with each other. You're still best friends I'm sure.
So step back, take a breather, enjoy your summer.
EDIT: For a week? That's not a long time sweetie. Relax. You guys are still talking to each other, it's not at all like you've stopped being friends. You should definitely not make a big deal out it, unless you two completely stop talking for say 2 months straight. Then we'd have a problem.
Yes many are going to find this really imature. But here goes...
Okay so my boyfriend is going to be 18 next year. His dad wants to get his a stripper for his 18th birthday. I absolutely hate it! I mean I've been with him for over two years, why does he need another girl nakes rubbing up on him. I know many guys do this, and I'm probably over exadgerating( i know i spelled that wrong =]) but honestly, I can't get over this. It bothers the hell out of me. Is there anything I can say to him that could change his mind. Or is there anything I can do to stop worrying about such a childish subject? PLEASE help me, cause I get more and more pissed everytime I think about this!
I read through your question and noticed the "Okay so my boyfriend is going to be 18 next year". Next year? Maybe his dad was kidding? You know parents, always making little jokes like that. Maybe there's nothing to worry about for now. However, if when his birthday comes closer and it seems like his dad isn't joking at all...
Tell him how you feel. If you've been with this guy for two years, he'll listen I'm sure. Let him know that it makes you uncomfortable to think of a stripper with him. It would make most girlfriends uncomfortable I'm sure.
If however, he doesn't listen to you and decides to go for it anyways...well just remember that you're the one he loves, not the stripper.
But once again, don't jump to any conclusions because maybe they were kidding (fingers crossed for luck).
And if you were thinking that you were the immature one for asking this question, think again because I think he's the immature one if he'd actually go through with this. You're right to feel uncomfortable, especially if they're serious. Also, if you come to find that they aren't serious at all...tell them how uncomfortable this little 'joke' makes you.
Response to feedback:
That is really sickening. Well, there's nothing you can do to change how his father acts. But you can do something about your boyfriend hopefully. =]
14/f im going on a movie date tonight, our first one acctual and I need tips :) whats cute, whats attractive. What would be an appropiate movie for us to see tonight. We've hung out alot so a kiss wouldnt be out of the question so all tips and advice would be great!!
And if anyone can relate, im kind of the pants in this relationship because sometimes hes more nervous and can be awkward because im his first. He doesnt always know like how to act in this relationship
Hey there!
Ah I remember my first movie date with my ex-boyfriend (well obviously not ex when we went to the movies lol). Yes, I totally get what you're saying about having to be the one to make the move. That can be cute though, at least this way you know that he's not just hanging around to get some action.
Okay so basically, first movie date? Personally, on your first one, sit somewhere sort of in the middle of the theater so he doesn't get any ideas. Back means "I plan to attack this person and make out excessively". And there's nothing wrong with that, just not on a first date. Front means "No way babe. Everybody's watching". Which, clearly you don't want and I don't blame you. Middle means "Sure we can kiss and hold hands but not excessively". Middle is nice =]
Movies that are playing right now:
WALL-E (G)
Get Smart (PG-13)
The Love Guru (PG-13)
The Incredible Hulk (PG-13)
Kung Fu Panda (PG)
Indiana Jones (PG-13)
I recommend Get Smart. I saw a sneak preview of it last week and it was really funny. I think you and your boyfriend might enjoy it.
Above all, obviously have fun and enjoy yourselves. The key is to make yourselves comfortable. If you have to be the one to make a move for now, so be it. He'll warm up eventually. Just be sure not to put too much pressure on him (not saying you would) and you guys will be sure to have a great time.
Have fun!