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best friend and her boyfriend
i have an absolutely beautiful perfect best friend ha. and my closest guy friend is her boyfriend. they are perfect for eachother! hes my neighbor, and we hang out alot. but trust me we are NOTHING more than friends. we USED to like eachother, but were way over that and she knows.hes a GREAT friend that i can trust with all my heart too. so i dont ever want our friendship to end. i dont know if i should get any closer with him because i dont want to make her mad that we talk alot. but when we talk it about her or one of the guys i like. it doesnt seem to bother her but i hope one dy me and her friendship doesnt get torn apart because of it.
should i remain as close to him as i am now?
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Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!
I think you should remain as close to him as you are
know.If,she is your best friend she wouldn't care
if you and her boyfriend are close. Plus, if you do
stop being close to your best friends boyfriend things will get really weird between your guy friend and your best friend. Than, it will be hard
to get back to how you were.
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)
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There isn't anything wrong with the relationship you have with this guy. For less confusion we'll call your guy friend Joe and your Best friend Sally. If you and Sally are BEST friends, then there should be trust there. She should know that she can trust you and she shouldn't ever ask you NOT to be friends with anyone. In fact, I know that one of my prerequisites to getting with a guy is that he get along with my friends..I want that to happen! Does Joe feel that she is going to get jealous or upset? If they are 'perfect' for eachother, then trust should not be an issue. Don't over think this! I think that you are a great friend for just being concerned. Continue to do what your doing girl! You've got nothing to worry about in my book.
<3 Leslie
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I'd say yes stay close to him. There is nothing wrong with girls being friends with guys. Just because a girl and guy talk, that doesn't mean they like each other.
I think you are just jumping to conclusions here by thinking that your friend will get mad if you and her boyfriend talk. Are you worried about her confronting you about anything? Honestly sweetie, your best friend (emphasis on "best") shouldn't feel threatened by you. Because true friends would never make a move on each others' boyfriends.
However, I notice the part where you said "it doesnt seem to bother her but i hope one dy me and her friendship doesnt get torn apart because of it". Are you expecting the friendship to get torn apart? Sometimes if you expect something bad to happen, it just might because you have your guard up and are just waiting for attack. If you think that she might flip out, then maybe you realize that you are getting "too close". I am definitely not saying back off completely since he is a good friend of yours, just be considerate of your best friend.
But like I said before, guys and girls can be friends. Just relax and don't freak out about it be mistaken for something else, and you'll be fine.
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