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i neeeeeed advice!!!
I like a guy in my grade(7th). I know he likes me to.Lots of people have told me. He is to scared to ask me out and I dont want to ask him out. I get nervous. Please Help Me!
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From my friend Laura's answer:
Well, there are 2 major options you can go about to solve this problem:
1. Be blunt about it.
2. Be shy about it.
I highly suggest being blunt about it, and either asking him if he's into you too, or simply asking him out yourself. Guys like when girls show confidence, and there's no better way to show you're confident than walking up to a guy and asking him out!
Or, you can go the other route and be shy about it, possibly doing nothing to show him you're interested in him. Sometimes, people who use this method drop subtle hints such as smiling [which is common in girls and doesn't always show you're into a guy] or having a friend ask if he's into you [this only shows that you're too shy to do it yourself]. This option is really kind of stupid, and is used all too much...
As I always say:
Life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling a boy how you really feel about him?
--Jack
(16/m)
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Well, if you both like each other and you know this for a fact, what's there to be nervous about?
He's nervous to ask you out, and you're nervous to ask him out. Why is this? Both your feelings for each other are out in the open, so go for it. If you both just sit there nervous and whatnot, nothing's going to happen. So just take a deep breath and ask him. You've got nothing to lose on this one.
Good luck.
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