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is there hope?


Question Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 2:25 am

14/f
So,
i met this guy at this dinner party for my parents, and he is as old as me [ i could tell ][we were the only kids there, other than some 2 year olds] we didnt really talk, but he was SO GOOD LOOKING!! anyway, he kept trying to make eye contact [i did sometimes to though] , he would always turn towards me and then "look at the sky", so, if we met again, would there be hope?? like by the way he always tried to make eye contact and im talking always! so, yeah, could this mean anything?


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TheGivingTree answered Thursday July 3 2008, 7:36 pm:
There is always hope! as long as you are confident and stay true to yourself, you have nothing to lose!

I've learned that American society almost discourages something that the French (and many other European countries) call "the look"-- this is the connection that two people can share, even a passing glance on the street, that shows potential interest. you never know when the love of your life may be standing next to you. don't be afraid to take a chance!

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erloisse13 answered Thursday July 3 2008, 2:34 pm:
Ha, something like this just happened to me recently. Definately hope! I would agree that next time you see him to try and chat. whats the worst that could happen? Either way youll get to talk right ;) If just walking up and saying hi might be hard, then try to find something to complement or ask him about, his clothes, hair, shoes, anyhting... just to break the ice!

Good Luck
Elise 15/f

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schwartz answered Thursday July 3 2008, 10:56 am:
If you see him again, sure there is hope. He was obviously interested in you, just neither of you made a move. Next time, make an effort to say, "hey" and talk with him. It may not be love at first sight, but who knows...

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xlovexx463 answered Thursday July 3 2008, 10:19 am:
If you were to see him again, of course there's "hope". There's always "hope". You just should try talking to him if you ever see him again.
You see, this doesn't mean that he likes you or anything. The whole trying to make eye contact thing was him noticing you (as in physical attraction) and probably wanting to get to know you. And you semi making eye contact was the same deal. You guys think each other are good looking. So now you need to move on to having conversations if you meet up again.
There is "hope" obviously. To have a relationship? Always. You just gotta make it happen is all. Just because the guy made eye contact isn't the reason why there's hope for this to happen. There's hope for this to happen because you have the ability to choose whether or not you want to talk to him. See? Even if he hadn't of made eye contact, it could still happen because you have the power.

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