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can someone help me. its finally raining here after not raining in about 2 weeks and now that its raining..its heavy raining! I can't go outside..nothing on TV..nothing good to do on-line..i can't go to the mall or the movies..and I doubt I'll be allowed to have anyone over..can someone help me? btw im a 15/f

Well.. you could try a craft, but I don't know what craft materials you have in the house. You could also try baking something yummy haha, Cosmogirl.com [I think they post their recipes]or foodtv.com usually have good recipes. When I'm bored, sometimes I go through my closets and stuff and see what I want to give away to my cousin, donate, or whatever. Some good sites online to keep you busy are www.art.com - search ART PAD lol and www.paperdollheaven.com - Hope I've Helped!

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I like this kid alot, we went out a while ago but things were different then. hes become alot more popular wit the girls and everything now, and hes really cocky too, i told him i still liked him and he said he might like me and i wouldnt be wasteing my time going for him. But he'll flirt on and off and says he doesnt like anyone. should i just give up on him or try and make him like me.

Honestly, I don't care how cute he is or whatever, but he's a jerk, especially for his little "i might like you" comment. I don't think you should waste your time and please don't change yourself for him, but if he really likes you, he will come to you- you've done all you can, he needs to put some effort in. Hope I've Helped! ♥

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that jessica simpson and nick lachey are getting divorced, and thats why theyre not doing Newlyweds anymore?

Hey, well if you look in magazines besides tabloids or her interview on tv, you will see the truth, which is that they want to finally live their lives without the cameras - they've been doing it for the three years that they've been married- and they want to settle down and work on a nursery because they want to have kids sometime in the future. Hope I've Helped!

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Okay, well i have to do a speech, and im doing it on how girls are just terriably mean to eachother with the backstabbing, and the calling of names such as "whore, slut, skank.. ect" and everything else that has to do with bullying. if anyone has any stories about their lives and being bullying by other girls please comment me. or e-mail me on xobabicakesox@hotmail.com
thanks so much
ashley

Hi, well I don't want to broadcast it on Advicenators, so I do have a few stories for you, so just message me back and I'll give you my AIM sn, and I'll be glad to help you with whatever you need =] ♥

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My webcam comes out a little blurry, is it just my cam or can i fix that..

What happened to me with my webcam was, I had all the lights on in the room, but it still was blurry. It could either be the lack of lights, even if they are all on sometimes they are just not at the right angle [I had to get a desk lamp to make it brighter] or it's the webcam. It's very common about the lighting problem. If you need anything else, just message me! Hope I've Helped! ♥

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A week ago today, I accidently poked myself in the eye with mascara in the morning. Since then, the bit which I poked has been red and blood shot. My Mum said it was like a bruise and would probably go soon but it's been a week now and it seems to be getting worse. What is wrong with it? What should I do?

Well, I had one little bloodshot mark in my eye, I forget the cause of it, but it usually goes from tiny, big, bigger, tiny, gone. It should go away pretty soon, mine lasted for a week also and there is most likely nothing wrong with it, but you can try, like bringing a little water up to it and rinsing it out. Hope I've Helped! ♥

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My parents fight a lot and my best friend keeps telling me that they're going to get divorced, and it really hurts my feelings. I don't think that they are going to get divorced because I know how they act around each other, but it just hurts my feelings when my friend says that. What should I do?

I hate to sound rude towards your friend, but it's really none of her business. All couples fight, even the ones who seem to be perfect, it's completely normal. Next time she says that, I'd tell her that I don't like it when she says stuff like that because she really doesn't know the true story or reason, and quite frankly, it's not her concern. If you need anything, just message me. Hope I've Helped ♥

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OK. I usually have a really heavy flow. Today, blood soaked all the way through my pad, through my underwear, and through my pants!!!! I was so embarassed! Second, i feel like i smell bad during my period. What can i do to control the smell other than changing the pad frequently, because i do. Should i wear perfume?

I could use some help.

Try Alway's long and super for the pad problem, or any brand of long or extra long and super, and try to "feel" to make sure your protected. Secondly, with the odor problem, take a quick shower every night that you have your period, you can even put your hair up, and just rinse off. It usually helps alot, and on the perfume thing, if you want, you can just spray a little bit in that area, but spray a little on the rest of you too, and most likely people don't smell the odor, so you are probably okay in that department =] If you need anything else, just message me! Hope I've Helped! ♥

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In school there are about 10 boys that pick on me they call me names and I hate it , Once I tried to kill myself but they laughed more Please help me!

Wales Bullied

Maybe you don't see it, and those boys definitely don't but EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL IN THEIR OWN WAY, yes cheesy I know, but it is true. The only ugliness that a person has is their personality. Don't even dare try killing yourself and taking your precious life because of 10 idiots. Just ignore them, I know it's easier said than done, but just try it trust me. Killing yourself should NEVER be the answer. If you need ANYTHING, do not hesitate to message me, and I really hope that I've helped.

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I am attracted to guys but there are these two women i am too. One is my moms friend who is 42 and her daughter who is 17. I like them a lot like more than friends and im only 13. After i stop liking these two girls i dont think i will like any others. After thse two im back to guys 100%. Am i bi?

Well, technically, you are, since you are interested in people in both sexes. However, I know they are crushes but 42 is really old to even have a chance with, no offense, but think about it. Are you attracted to them that way, or do you just admire them because of their beauty?
If you just admire them and not attracted that way, you aren't bi. But even though you only like 2 girls, you still pretty much are bi. If you need anything, just message me! Hope I've Helped! ♥

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I am so tired of people writing "liek dis" Spell correctly so that you can actually get some advice! I don't even know how those questions even appear on the site if it's not even understandable...Does anyone agree with me or am I just illiterate?

I so feel the same way! People just, think that since they're on the computer they can shorten EVERYTHING.. I mean yeah I use LOL and LMFAO sometimes but atleast i dun't spell lyk dizz .. wit dat sortaa crapp.. lmao right? People need to invest in a typing class.

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:'( i hav frigging sweat circles under my armpits! i wash with soap in the morning and at nite and i put antipersperant on or i go to the washroom when i start sweating and reapply the antipersperant but i still SWEAT! i'm tired of this and i really want to put a stop to this! .. okay i've heard of certain dri but i live in Canada and i've looked and looked but they don't sell it here! i also asked over the counter pharmicists and they told me about this stuff thats like 20 bucks and most of the stuff that like makes u stop sweating that isn't generic are like 20 bucks and i don't have that kinda money so please please help me, its really really embaressing!

Try this, Lady's Choice, sold in pharmacies and Walmart, usually is only $1 and works amazing, trust me, and smells AWESOME. If you take a gym class, put it on before and after gym to prevent it, and if you don't this is small enough to keep in your purse if you want to run to the bathroom to just put a little bit on. If you need anything, just message me! Hope I've Helped! ♥

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I have a cousin who puts my probles on here for the world to know! It's really annoying me..what should I do..I don't want to seem mean though..

Unless your cousin is a sympathetic person, she probably won't stop, and thinks its funny how upset you get. My advice is to just ignore it, this is pretty confidential anyway and really no one will ever know, or you can try talking to her, she might not realize what she's doing, she might be trying to "help". If you need anything, just message me! Hope I've Helped ♥

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hey my lips are always dry and i dont know why. i have to lick them all the time to keep them wet. they arent chapt so i dont need chap stick, but what should i do? i rate high

Licking them isn't helping, it makes it way worse! Blistex, Vaseline Lipgloss/Balm, or even Chapstick (even though they are not chapped, it will help the dryness)really help bring the natural moisture back into your lips. Hope I've Helped! ♥

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What do you think about these baby names:

Mattilynn Nicole
Jake Ryan
Zachary Daniel
Rylee Elizabeth

Twin girls :

Ashlynn
Joshlynn

They're adorable! What I love about them is that they are totally unique- my personal favorite is Rylee Elizabeth. I also like the way that you spell them, it's not common, which again, is unique and I adore unique baby names! Good choices! ♥

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Hi, thank you for the heads up about the smileys, but I sort of wanted to give it a try anyway, I know the other person has to have it, but is that the only way it will show up on an instant message? Because I remember just being able to send them to myself too. And, its not even showing the tiny smiley button at the top of my instant messages. Is this my computers problem, or was I just imagining that I sent them to myself?

No, since you have the program installed you can send them to yourself, sometimes it sends you a link. If you go to send it to a person who doesn't have it, it shows up as a link that you send like "YOU'VE JUST RECEIEVED A SMILEY" or something lol. The button SHOULD be in your IM though I believe. If you need anything else, just message me! Hope I've Helped! ♥

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I recently had about 100,000 smileys from SmileyCentral.com, they were awesome, but now I wanted to install them. They are installed, but not in my AIM instant message. It will only let me send it through some E-mail thing. How do you get them on your instant message to send?

To get them on the IM, the other person kinda has to have it. But listen to me, UNINSTALL IT NOW. It totally messed up my computer and didn't let me receieve pics through AIM for months until I uninstalled it and then reinstalled AIM. Hope I've Helped-and if you need help with it, just message me! ♥

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ok im not very thin or anything and i usually wear around a size 7, but yesterday i got a pair of jeans from Holister and they were a size 1 and a pair or A&F shorts that were a size 2. are the sizes supposed to be that big or what? id appreciate any feedback!

It might just be the cuts of the shorts/jeans/pants that you bought. Every store cuts their stuff differently- usually Hollister is smaller and A&F gives you a little more room. If you've lost any weight or toned recently, this could also be a factor. Hope I've Helped! ♥

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I bought a shirt from Abercrombie today and washed it when I got home (I don't like how their clothes smell). Well, when I got it out of the dryer, I noticed that I accidently grabed a Large and it's wayy too big. I don't know if they'll let me exchange it since it's been washed. What do y'all think? I can't just forget about it becasue it was a 48 dollar shirt.

I'm sure they will, you didn't dirty it or wear it and make it smelly. Personally, I wouldn't bother saying that I washed it, but if they ask I'd be honest, after all, it's just an exchange! If you need anything else, just message me! Hope I've Helped! ♥

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Ok I have this PIT feeling inside of me--I think that Britney and Justin should totally get back together..I know that some of you may not be their biggest fan, but please don't reply to this unless you want a negative rating. I think that they BELONG together..and this feeling is really bothering me..I hope that in the future they will get back together...I don't know why I'm feeling this way but it seems like it's meant to be. Now, I know I have no right to decide who should be together since I don't know what really went on in their relationship...but If they're not together, it seems like everything isn't right. I love Britney Spears..she's an inspiration to me...and Justin is just amazing also. I'm soo sorry if this is long but I just need to get it out. Don't you think they belong together?? This feeling in me is really strong..

I totally get what you mean. It seems wrong that Britney is with Kevin, but we can't do anything about it. Personally I think she married him to prove a point to Justin. Even though, it's not our lives and we can't do anything but wait- and remember as long as they are happy- we should be happy for them, and if it is meant to be, it WILL happen one day, so don't get upset about it because there's way other important stuff going on in the world today. If you need anything else, just message me! Hope I've Helped! ♥

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