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Well, let me start off by saying me and my best friend camaran have been best friends forever. Well, over the years her mother, Tara, has been having some prblems. She is overweight, smokes, and drinks. Well, about a month ago she got into a car accident from "Drinking Under the Influence". The police scheduled her to have a court day yesterday. But with her illness symptoms, she couldn't make it show she wrote a letter to the judge. Obviously they didn't care and had her arrested for not going to court. She was in jail all last night, but was let out this afternoon. Now they're rescheduling her court date sometime in January. After court she is going to be arrested and go to jail for "Drinking Under the Influence" and causing harm to another person. (she hit the other car when she was drunk and the person who she hit had to go to the hospital) (link)
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just be there for her. tell her you'll always be there and she can go to you any time she needs you and how much you care for her. and you wish this thing never happened. im sorry it did happen. just keep an eye on her and make sure things are ok like she says it is. other than that i dont think there is anything you can do. just be a good friend. hope i helped.
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there is this guy i like that says i am to young for him but i am bout be 16 and he just turned 17. i think this might be an excuse but he acts like he likes me.am i "too young"? i don't have a clue what should i do is there any way to show him i am not to immature and how do i talk to him about it? he also told me his last g/f was B**** and she was immature and she was my age. could this be why? i really think it might be an excuse. plz help i really do need it! (link)
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that is probably why hes saying that. just talk to him and tell him you really like him and age shouldnt matter. its just how old your body is, not your mind. tell him that not all girls your age are like that and for him to just give you a chance to show him. tell him you'll get to know eachother first before anything really happens. hope i helped.
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i feel like none of my friends like me b/c no1 ever wants to hang out with me and im gettin rlly upset about it (link)
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if you have to go out of your way for them to like you, then they dont sound like very good friends to me. no offense. i dont think you should change anything for anyone. you deserve better. hope i helped. if you need anything dont hesitate to ask...i've also gone through something like this and it sucks. im sorry you're going through it too.
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ok...so theres this guy i met and weve become good friends...we hang out on the weekends and stuff and hes really fun to be around and talk to...only i think i like him too much and i kno he likes me too much...i didnt want this to happens on account hes a lott older than me ... what should i do? (link)
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well, if you trust him and really like him i'd say go for it. you cant help who you fall for...good luck!
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Does anyone know any really good books about stuff like romance, death,depression, all that fun stuff. i have already read the lovely bones and it is my absolute FAVORITE book. nothing to happy...but does anyone know a really good book that has the same kind of mood as the lovely bones.
Oh yeah...and P.S. there is this one book my friend was telling me about where this woman loses all her money and sells her daughter to this prostitute house. its called like "reading me love" but i could never find it...i dont even know if thats the title!! Thanks. (link)
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i've never read that book but i know of some books that deal with depression n all that. there speak, cut, laurine mcdaniel has some book that deals with love/loss....theres this one book thats by her that this one girl makes herself skinnier and all that kinda stuff if your interested. lemme know if you want any more book ideas. hope i helped.
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i'm thinking about becoming wiccan. does anyone know of any good websites or books i can look at?
thank you in advance. :) (link)
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sure, just go to witchschool.com or look it up on google, if you need anything else just let me know. im interested in it too.
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hey guys..i need help writin a poem about the season of fall. any ideas?!?! i need one asap!! please help!! (link)
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the leaves falling
the wind rushing by
the leaves changing colors
the trees starting to die
cold weather comes
school has resumed
the darkness returns
which the sky is consumed.
really gay i know but hey i just thought it up, i like to write poems so if you need any others then just let me know, and how long it has to be. heh i wrote a poem for my friend once for homework and it turned out really good, plus i've never even read the book it was supposed to be about. well hope i helped.
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Ok well there's this kid that I've liked for awhile. We went out before but broke up..and I've bascially liked him on and off since. The only problem is I only like him when I know I don't have a chance...even when we were going out it felt weird. It seems that when I know he likes me I really have no interest but when I know he doesn't like me I get all depressed and I like him soooo much. Don't get me wrong..I don't just want to get attetion because when he likes me i do still have a little thing for him but I like him so much more when he doesn't like me! I really think I should tell him how I feel this time but I don't know how! Pleaseee help me!
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you like him more because you can't have him. people always want what they can't have. if you think you should tell him then do it. you'll never know either way. just dont lead him on and then dump him (im not saying you would, but i've seen it happen a lot of times like this). hope i helped.
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ok, does any oen know any good ways to get rid of hiccups? and fast? and is it bad if i get hiccups on an almost daily basis? please help me out
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usually when i drink soda slowly, it helps get rid of mine, and you have to concentrate on your breath and make it slower. it usually works. hope i helped ~Kare
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ok my friend thinks she may be pregnant because her stomach is really warm, and the smell of food makes her sick and shes ALWAYS hungry. She has had her period but shes still scared and she also told me she is taking a depression medication called lortex (i think) and she doesnt know if its because of that or if shes prgnant and shes too scared to ask her parents! Please help asap! Thanks! (link)
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she could be pregnate, i've been on a lot of pills and i've never had any of those side effects. though it does say you could lose appetite or gain it. if shes to scared to talk to her parents, then maybe she should just go out and get a test, thats the best way to find out. and if she is, then maybe you could be there with her when she tells her parents if she is. just be there for her. i hope everything works out.
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hey im 14years old.and my ex bf now,asked me out sometime in june he promised me that he would never hurt me and would love me forever and all that crap ummm hes 16 well everything was fine for a few months then like 2weeks ago he started calling me less..well my friend called me and said that he was cheating on me with one of my friends i had no idea she knew..i went crazy they were talkin about having sex and here im thinking u know his parents are going through a divorce maybe he just needed time i felt like i didnt something wrong i love him still and i know i shouldnt what do u think about this whole situation reply back i will rate good..thanx (link)
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aww im sorry hun, if hes cheating on you, then you need to find someone better. you dont deserve that, not matter WHAT is going on. there's no excuse for a guy to cheat on a girl. talk to him about it though, see if he'll tell you that hes cheating or not. you deserve answers. and you're going to like him for a while, as hard as it will be, just remember that you will get over him. what doesnt kill you makes you stronger. sorry i couldnt help more. ~Kare
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my friend knows guys for liek 1 day and she'll have huge crushes on them...i tried to tell her you don't really liek them sooo much if youve only known them for one day but she is just like..yeah i do so how else and i convince her to get to kno the guy before she crushes on him? (link)
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i know you want to make her see, and i would too if i were you, but with some people, they wont see and you'll just have to let her do things on her own. learn from her own mistakes i guess. just keep an eye on her to make sure she doesnt do anything too drastic. sorry i couldnt help more. ~Kare
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i guess this might be a stupid question, but something kind of depresses me. my boyfriend asked me last night would it be okay if he spent new years with his guys this year. he said that him and i spent the last 2 new years together and he wants to hang with his friends. ofcourse i said yeah, because im not the controling type. well, even though i said yes, it makes me a little sad knowing that he doesnt want to spend it with me. its like, why cant i chill with his friends too? its not like i never had. do any of you guys think i should tell him how i feel? or do any of you think that im wrong for feeling the way i feel?
thanks for your time.
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i dont think its wrong at all. im a lot like you, i never say anything but then i feel horrible after. and in this situation i would fell the same as you, i think you should talk to him, ask if you could hang out with him n his friends too. its better to try then to not and never know what would have happened. hope i helped n i hope everything works out. if you ever need anything just leave one in my inbox.
~Kare
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What the hell is with these people that spell things that are supposed to be a g with a q? And what the hell is with the double "i"? Like some people have II went to a place where you could eat iicecream "seriiously" what the heck is up with that? Don't you people know how to spell? (link)
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yeah it annoys the hell out of me too, i wish i knew what to tell you but i dont know why they do it. they do know how to spell..they just choose not to i guess. ok well MOST people know how to spell lol. its so hard to understand them. sorry i couldnt help any.
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Hi! I am 5'3 (I think) and I weigh 127 (Or a little lower) ( My scale is messed up). Anyway, My friends say I'm not fat and stuff, but I do have a flubby tummy! I tried everything, from dieting (didn't last a day!),excersing (could'nt do it daily), and so nothing worked for me! I would love to have a flat tummy before Christmas because my mom always talks about how my stomach is so flabby and things like that and I would like to show her that I can do it! I have'nt had a flat tummy in 5 years! Can anyone one tell me any ways to get my tummy flat! Thanks so much! I rate high! (link)
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well i dont know how much it will make your stoamch flat....but lemme tell you im just like you, i can't excersise daily or anything like that. but latly i started drinking more water just because it would make me more hyderated and all and i ended up losing some weight. i cut back on soda and everything, just by drinking more water. and it could help you diet kinda cuz it will make you fuller faster so you dont eat as much. hope i helped.
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Hey guys,
When I was in second grade, I got really sick and had to be put in the hospital. Since I wouldn't eat, they gave me streiods. When I got out of the hospital, I wouldn't stop eating and now I am chubby. I want to loose about 10 to 15 pounds and I am just so fed up with my weight! I have been trying to loose for about 3 years but I havn't really been able to stick with really anything. I want to loose some weight as soon as possible. Does anyone know any ways that would be fast and easy? Please help me!! I want to feel beatuiful and confident. I will rate a 10 if someone suggests something good. Please help!!
~Chubby~ (link)
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well what worked for me was drinking a lot of water. it filled up my stoamch and its good for you. that was a big part of it. i dont drink many other things than water. but im sure running would help too. hope i helped any.
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My friend and i used to be really close but lately shes been ignoreing me alot and its really hurtin my feelings.. what should i do! (link)
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talk to her about it. thats the only way thats going to make it do she talks to you. ask her why shes ignoring you. tell her how you feel. hope i helped.
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my friend gave me a note to give to another friend...and i forgot to. Later that night i remember the note was in my pocket so i did a bad thing and read it. In the note she talked about how she wants to kill herself and about how she is thinking about slitting her wrisits! what should i do! if i tell my friend she`ll be furious that i invaded her privacy...but if i dont....who knows what could happen! (link)
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its a good thing you read it, tell your friend that you'll always be there for her and what a good friend she is (if you dont want her to know that you read it). tell her how much she means to you. keep an eye on her. let me know how things go, im sorry. i hope she doesnt do anything. if you need someone to talk to, im here. i know a lot about cutting and suicide and all that so i'll try to help as much as i can.
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my two bestfriends hate me for no reason! they think i talk about them when i dont nd ive told them a million times that i dont talk about them. i still want to be freinds with them, what should i do? please help! (link)
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ask them why they think you talk about them. maybe someone else is telling them that you are, if they still dont believe you...maybe they're not very good friends after all. hope i helped. good luck.
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If you are on the pill, or have taken it, did you gain weight?, and how much? (link)
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i didnt really gain weight. if i did i lost it. it keeps going back and forth but it usually doesnt change much. hope i helped.
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