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i wish i never read that note.... :/
my friend gave me a note to give to another friend...and i forgot to. Later that night i remember the note was in my pocket so i did a bad thing and read it. In the note she talked about how she wants to kill herself and about how she is thinking about slitting her wrisits! what should i do! if i tell my friend she`ll be furious that i invaded her privacy...but if i dont....who knows what could happen!
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yeah she might be furious. but hey it will help in the end. you should tell her that u read the note and that you know it was an invasion of privacy, BUT you really care for her and u dont want her to do something that she will regret. good luck
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Why don't you give the note to the person that you were supposed to give it to and then like a few days later go up to her and tell her what you read but tell her that you heard it from someone. But if you do that becareful that it don't blow up in your face. And if it does maybe you should tell someone, even if she gets mad and never talks to you. At least you know she's safe.
Good luck xoxo
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You need to talk to her... no matter how hard it might be she needs help and if u dont want to talk to her someone at your school can.. you can even talk to the person you where going to give the note to for her and tell her to talk to her that would make it a lil easier and not so obvious that u read the note just make sure she gets help that could really become scerious good luck x0xLuckyx0x
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Dont blame urself for readin the note...Its in everyones nature to be a lil curious bout that kinda stuff...Even tho it mite make ur friend mad...Ya should talk to her...Maybe she would like ya bein there for her to talk to...But just do wut ya think is rite
Nikki
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aww i feel so sorry bc if i was in your place i wouldnt know what to do! well actully i would just talk to her and be like hey ( name ) we need to talk , and then be like im soo sorry for reading the note but i just have to tell you the truth! please dont kill yourself! i love you VERY much and your a VERYYY good friend! OR .. tell the guidance counselor! my friend told the guidance counselor bc my friend cuts so she told the guidance couselor and now my friend is so glad that our friend did! GOOD LUCK HUN! kLg*
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You definitely need to talk to your friend about this. Even if she gets mad at you, she needs help if she wants to do that to herself. Just talk to her about it, and if she doesn't listen, you should tell an adult about it so they can do something about it. Good Luck!
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Give the note to your other friend and read it to her. You guys should create a plan to talk to your friend. She may be mad at you, but you saved her life.
*Randy T*
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You definitly need to talk to the friend who wrote the note. Tell her you know that it was wrong of you to invade her privacy and read the note that was not intended for your eyes to see, but that now you're very worried for her. She needs to know that it's not okay to want to slit her wrists or to kill herself. Tell her that you're always here for her if she needs someone to talk to - and that the last thing you want to see is her gone or her hurt. Just be a comfort to her, a friend. That's probably all she needs right now because she's probably feeling like a piece of crap for some reason.
If your friend tells you to go away, then you can contact a trusted adult like your parents or a guidance counsler or someone at school.
I hope it all turns out okay for your friend!
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wow! You need to talk to the friend who gave it to you and tell hjer that ur concerned. Tell her u didnt kno wat the paper was in ur pocket so u oppened it and read it and saw wat it sed but u didnt' kno it was the note from today until after you read it. But u def. need to contact some sort of counsler for this girl, she def. needs to talk to someone
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omg thats scary! you should tell someone else,like a friend you can trust and dont make it obvious, but try to make her happy and talk to her and try to get things out of her. invite her to sleepover, have girls talks, go to the mall ... do whatever you can to get her to be happy and maybe she'll forget about it all ... if you notice something weird happening tell her parents or some adult you can trust .. good luck!
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awwwww... ur poor friend! well i def. thnink u should talk 2 the friend that the note was supposed 2 go 2...because if it was me i wouldnt want my friend who gave me the note 2 give 2 the other friend thinking i was nosy by reading her note. so talk 2 her about it and be like well she was worried and she asked me about it sooo u guys should both talk 2 her togther. dont judge her but listen tell her how much u guys and ever1 cares about her. tell her u love how she makes u laugh and u are so jealous of her killer wordrobe. let her know that u r worried about her and u would die if ne thin ever happened. if it gets realy super serious... tell her parents... even f she gets mad at u... its better then having her die and knowing u could have stopped it. shes probably just insecure.... so let her know how awesome she is! g/l!!!
xOxO, aLeX
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talk to her one-on-one and ask her if anythings going on and if there's anything she wants to talk about. dont be too obvious but do show her you care. she might be upset if you read it , so i personally wudn't meantion it. hopefully u reaching outt o her will help. good luck and i hope i helped.
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its a good thing you read it, tell your friend that you'll always be there for her and what a good friend she is (if you dont want her to know that you read it). tell her how much she means to you. keep an eye on her. let me know how things go, im sorry. i hope she doesnt do anything. if you need someone to talk to, im here. i know a lot about cutting and suicide and all that so i'll try to help as much as i can.
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Privacy is less important a human life. You have to tell an adult about this. Her being furious at you will be forgotten.
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Keep the note, go to your parents (if they are friends with her parents or not) and give them the note, tell them the situation. DO NOT TELL HER YOU KNOW!!!!!! RIGHT AWAY she may be mad at you, but she's crying for help, so get her help, she will thank you later, personally I would rather have my friend mad at me than dead. Good luck sweetie
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