Ok well there's this kid that I've liked for awhile. We went out before but broke up..and I've bascially liked him on and off since. The only problem is I only like him when I know I don't have a chance...even when we were going out it felt weird. It seems that when I know he likes me I really have no interest but when I know he doesn't like me I get all depressed and I like him soooo much. Don't get me wrong..I don't just want to get attetion because when he likes me i do still have a little thing for him but I like him so much more when he doesn't like me! I really think I should tell him how I feel this time but I don't know how! Pleaseee help me!
LoViny0ux914 answered Friday October 29 2004, 7:14 pm: just tell him exactly what you told us! maybe show him this question you posted because you described it pretty well! just give it to him straight up! x0x [ LoViny0ux914's advice column | Ask LoViny0ux914 A Question ]
dramaqueenbabeiwb answered Friday October 29 2004, 7:12 pm: I sort of feel that way too. Maybe deep down you didn't want to break up. Either that or maybe you like the idea of having a boyfirned than actually having one. I had a crush on a boy, I didn't like him anymore, dumped him, then liked him again. It'll pass hun. Try to keep your mind off of him. [ dramaqueenbabeiwb's advice column | Ask dramaqueenbabeiwb A Question ]
xForeverxForgottenx answered Friday October 29 2004, 7:03 pm: you like him more because you can't have him. people always want what they can't have. if you think you should tell him then do it. you'll never know either way. just dont lead him on and then dump him (im not saying you would, but i've seen it happen a lot of times like this). hope i helped. [ xForeverxForgottenx's advice column | Ask xForeverxForgottenx A Question ]
Xo_Blondii_oX answered Friday October 29 2004, 6:59 pm: i think your afraid of getting hurt so when your together you dont wanna get into him that much so if you break up you wont be all depressed like them other girls get! [ Xo_Blondii_oX's advice column | Ask Xo_Blondii_oX A Question ]
x0x_surfergirl_x0x answered Friday October 29 2004, 6:52 pm: ooh, I have been there before. You want what you can't have and when you have it you don't want it anymore. Maybe your not that "yay" when you you are with him because you know you guys will break up sometime soon. But then your sad when your not with him prolly because you don't want to see him with another girl. Am I right on target?
Or you could possibly not know what you want. I would just forget about him cuz life is short y0! Meet someone new and have fun. During the summer you'll like not like him anymore and when you go back to school again next year and see him again you'll be like "Ew" lol It works all most everytime like that for me
I really hope I have helped
Holla acha girlie!!
xo0x adriana [ x0x_surfergirl_x0x's advice column | Ask x0x_surfergirl_x0x A Question ]
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