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fueding friends
heyy every1
well today wen i went to skewl mi 2 bffs nd i were outside in the parking lot nd evrything was going great until mi one friend (let's call her jill) sorta made fun of mi other friend(lets call her gabby) because gabby likes this boy in my history class. jill kept trying to apologize to gabby because gabby got mad at jill,but jill just made things worse. soo im stuck in the middle while mi 2 bffs are fighting, then gabby sed that she hates jill and never wants to speak to jill again. then in tech. class, jill sed that she "absolutly hates gabby" i dont know what to do and now jill isnt coming to hang out w/ us on halloween just because gabby is going to be there! what should i do!?!
thnx
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This may suck, but you really can't change how your friends feel about each other. Maybe you could take them both aside and talk to them about their argument. Either that or keep them away from each other. They might just not be a good match. If Jill is going to be that immature about Gabby, then show her you like Gabby too. I think Jill thinks you're going to tag along with her and ditch gabby. That's what she wants, so don't give it to her. Say, "Gabby, if you're going to be that immature, go ahead." Let her know NOBODY pushes you around. Just a note, don't play sides. it'll causde more problems. (not saying you wil, just a reminder)
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seriously just stay out of it. tell htem if they want to hate each other then thats between them but youre still firends with both of them so dont drag you in. tell them if they wanna talk about each other do it away from you n just stay completely nuetral. untill they get over it (and if theyre real friends then they will) just stay completely out of it bc its between them! x0x0x
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Hey girl,
Remember that everyone has immature moments. And I hate getting stuck in the middle of a fight too. I would just set something up. Call either friend first and plead them to make up with your other friend. Then 3 way. Tell both of them to say they were sorry to each other. And tell them saying sorry doesn't nessecarliy mean you were wrong. Then meet somewhere when they all have made up and do a big group hug! Aw...picturing it makes me emotional. REMEMBER: FRIENDS ARE FOR LIFE
Hope everything works out *before* Halloween!!!
Hope I have helped...Holla acha girlie!
xo0x adriana
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