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Hello Sunshine!
My name's Jamie..call me what you prefer.
I'm not here to judge, just to help people with their problems.
I love helping people out, it's one of the most satisfying feelings.
When you rate me, I'd prefer if you put a reasoning behind the rating, just so I know how I'm doing/how I can improve.


Feel free to leave me questions!
XOXO.

>> PS. If you plan on asking me a question, please, type grammatically correct and put punctuation marks where necessary...instead of like this: "muh boyfran lefff meh nD eye dunno waddado. halp?" (haha okay maybe that's a little exaggerated.. but you get my point!)





advice

I always get new sneakers for school but this year I have no idea what shoes i wanna get. Any cute ideas?



btw, im very preppy. so i don't want skater-ish shoes or anything like that. thanks!

SKECHERS.
These ones, personally, I think are the CUTEST sneakers I've ever looked at: http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/25836020/c/14.html
The review said that they were very comfortable as well. :]

PUMAS.
http://store.puma.com/pumaUSStore/category.asp?catalog%5Fname=PumaUS&category%5Fname=WomensClassicFootwear&mainCategory=Women&productType=Footwear&Page=0&shopBy=style&siteid=1
I like Puma Romas. I had a pair last year, and they're still in excellent condition. I love them.

**These both are a bit pricey, but I'm sure you can find the same/similar ones on different sites.

Enjoy!

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I have this friend, ok, lets call her x. And her boyfriend, J. X and J have been going out for a month. They are both 14. X is very primiscous and likes to make out and stuff, which is fine with me. Like, they kissed the first day they were going out. They go over to eachothers houses all the time. And x (my best friend) said she would never lie to me. She knows how conservative i am. I think having sex at 14 is disgusting. I told her that and she said, dont worry im still a virgin. Then, j's best friend told me that they have had sex like, four times since they started dating. I havent told her yet, cuz she'll get mad. I havent talked to her since i heard about it, i wanna tell her, but i dont wanna loose my bff. WHat should i do? HELP!!!

I know you're not going to like my answer, but you have to talk to her. Friends talk. Tell her what you've heard, and that you understand that it's her life, but you care about her.

If you need any more help, Inbox me. :]

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So it's summer which means for sports I sweat and break out more. Wondering if there is any really good working creme or face masks that work to elminate the break outs.

If you're looking for acne products, I definitely recommend Proactive. It works wonders. Use that once you're done doing that was making you sweat. It'll keep your pores cleaner, obviously.

However, BE CAREFUL >> Don't use it more than twice a day, you don't want your skin to dry out!

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anyone know website where u can get free ringtones for verizon phones thank you

Do you have texting? .. If so, www.myxertones.com works.

That's the only way I know how to though. Sorry!

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on myspace, people always do those bulletin surveys...does anyone know a really good site to get those?

http://search.xanga.com/searchgroups.aspx?q=surveys

If you need any help from there, I'd be happy to help. =)

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well my cousin died in november, im 16 he was 27 but he was my best friend like i talked to him all the time and we were just really close. does anyone know of any quotes about just missing somone who has died and wanting them to be here soo bad, i miss him and i just need good quotes. please help

I'm really, really sorry.
Stay strong. Things will get better.

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ok well yesterday i graduate middle school. and my best friend and i are going to different high schools. people all assume we're a couple because we're practically glued at the hip but he told me he didnt like me like that but ive always liked him. problem with him is he gives a lot of mixed signals. so i was talking to him on msn and he had to go. i said "wow im not gonna see you at school tomorrow anymore. its so weird.." then he said "i know...i love you" and i said "i love you too". the he said "we sure say a lot for not a couple...some major questioning is to be done." what does that mean? i really have no idea what he meant. and i told him i dont like him anymore. so he doesnt think i still do. and i know its time to move on and just be friends but what did he mean by that? thanx

Well, first, congratulations on graduating!
Hmm, alright, so i would definitely say that he likes you..his feelings could have changed from when he told people that he didn't like you, OR, he could've lied to them.
I can safely inference that he likes you, not only because he said I love you--but especially when eh said "We sure say a lot for not a couple..."
Maybe he was getting at asking you out.
I don't know if it's worth it to like him, because you said he's going to a different high school.
But if you really like him, GO FOR IT! Talk to him. Call him on the phone or something..

Wishing you the best of luck!

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I have a lot of problems with my friends, and my family right now. I seem to gravitate to food to make me feel better. I eat like ice cream chips and bad stuff like that. I was wondering if anyone knew anything that i can do instead of eat to relive stress?
thankss

Take baths, go for walks, listen to music, or just work out.

It kinda depends on what you like.

http://stress.about.com/od/tensiontamers/a/stressrelievers.htm

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I have a sinus infection, so my nose is incredibly stuffy. My "M" sounds like a "B", which is really bad because I have my choir concert tomorrow night. I have been taking nose sprays and what not, but nothing is working. Any home made remedies that can help?

Thanks.

I'm not sure if this works, but I found it online.

You should use it when you take a shower prior to leaving for your choir concert.

http://health.yahoo.com/experts/intentblog/335/do-it-yourself-remedy-clear-your-sinuses

Good luck and hope you feel better.

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My best guy mate is called phil. He's really nice and sweet and i know he would never hurt anyone on purpose. But over the past couple of weeks he's been acting weirdly with me. For example, if we're talking on msn and he has to go, he used to just say g2g cya xx then go offline before i even reply. But now he doesn't go offline untill i answer and he says g2g cya with loads and loads of kisses and sometimes with a heart and allways with a sad smiley face.
We made up this joke a couple of weeks ago, like we would call each my lovly or something, and now he starts calling me babe and baby and everything.
He told me he likes someone and apprantly everyone knows. But, i wanted to know why he wouldn't tell me, we tell each other everything, and i mean everything, everyone was saying it's me but i kept saying we're only friends. Well, i finally got it out of him and he said ''well, i'm not sure yet but it might be storme [this other girl at my school], but i'm not sure yet'' and i asked him why he wouldn't tell me before and he said i didn't want to :(.

Arghh it's pissing me off! Does he like me or is he messing around with me?!

xxx

Honestly? .. I think he likes you.

If he's typing loads and loads of kisses to you, calling you 'babe' or 'baby', he's obviously trying to tell you something.

If he wouldn't tell you at first (that he likes you), then clearly he was trying to keep it a secret from you at first. Like you said, you guys tell eachother everything..so wouldn't he tell you? Maybe he was embarassed. And he said he likes Storme, ..but come on now!

So yes. HE LIKES YOU.

Let me know how everything works out.
Inbox me if you need anymore help.

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when your cherry pops does it hurt? and this is a retarded question but does sex hurt?

Like the person below me said, popping your cherry may or may not hurt. You can even get it doing simple things, such as inserting a tampon, or even playing sports.

Does sex hurt?...It could, especially for the first time. However...I've never had it, but I can tell you that that's what I have heard.

If you need anything else, feel free to Inbox me.

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What are websites similar to Myspace?

Facebook, Hi5, Xanga, LiveJournal, Tag, Yahoo 360, MSN spaces.

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ugh, i just got my hair cut, and i absolutely hate it. its just above my shoulder, and it's much too short. any suggestions to make it grow faster??

Whoa, Deja Vu! lol. I did too a little while ago, I hate it so much. What I've been doing is keeping it up, it doens't really look that short. Sometimes, I wear it down. If you straighten it, sometimes it looks longer.

As for making it grow faster, make sure you keep your split ends conditioned, or the hair will be so damaged that it won't grow as fast as healthy hair.

Good luck,
I share your pain.

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im 13 and my boobs are just developing and i only have 1 its been like this for months is this normal

Yes, it is normal. Once you're done with puberty, things will be better-except nobody is ever perfectly symmetrical.

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hi, well if i were to get dreadlocks done in my hair, how long would it take for them to grow out? and where would i get them done? thanks.

http://www.dreadlocks.com/

Should answer all of your questions :]

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What can I do to get over a cold the quickest?
And does anyone know how long a cold usually lasts?

I started feeling sick yesterday,
and I have a dance next Friday,
do you think I will be better by then?
Or possibly earlier?

I rested today and am drinking plenty of water.
I have 3 more days to rest before I go back to school.
Will this help and is there anything else I can do?

Sleep, LOTS OF FLUIDS, Plenty of Vitamin C, using Nyquil and Dayquil, ... and again, lots of SLEEEP! =)

Good luck & hope you feel better.

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Hi.
I am graduating from 8th grade, and going to a different school than everyone else next year. I was wondering if you knew where i could find some good graduation quotes or if you had any.

ive already looked at quotemania & xanga.
thanks so much

Well, it's more like lyrics, but "Graduation" by Vitamin C really has some good quotes.

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prom's this satuday for me. any pictures of cute hairstyles/websites? mine's naturally straight, long, and thick and i want it curly, half up & lots of volume.

http://www.beautifulhairstyles.com/prom/

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my skin is clear and once in a while i'll get a few pimples. but i was just wondering what was a good face wash that will keep my skin clear and healthy. thanks!

Clearasil Morning burst works AWESOME (when you just have a few breakouts here and there).

If you ever start to have a pimply face down the road, use Proactiv. It really works well. :)

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Is there any drawing tutorial sites for bodies?

While using stick figures or shapes as a base?

I really need some help with drawing poses. But I need some reference pictures or something.

http://mcduffies.comicgenesis.com/tutorbody.html

http://video.google.com/videosearch?q=body+drawing+tutorial&hl=en

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