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i CANT STAND my older sister. Shes a junior in highschool, im a freshman. she is always making fun of me for no reason at all, and always telling me what to do. So, im always mean back to her. I dont wanna be mean to her, but i cant control myself, she thinks shes so smart. She gets straight A's, drives her own car, has lots of friends, .. so she thinks shes wicked cool. I cant stand it, i really cant. Like, sometimes i just go completely insane. I have a bad temper, as im typing this now im just shaking, i feel like im gunna explode. WHAT SHOULD I DO (link)
just ignore it, or just pick on her. make her realize shes being really immature. tell her to GROW UP. good luck, hun.


well I REALLY like this guy... and i have a couple questions.

1) all my friends keep telling me to tell him.. should I? I mean I really do like him and I want him to know but I highly doubt he likes me and I'm scared of looking stupid.

2) What can I do when I pass him in the hall or something to catch his attention? And is there anything else I can do? I have absolutely nothing to talk to him about.. and I'm willing to change anything to get his attention. I tried learning about hockey and stuff (it pretty much just bored me) and I tried wearing a hockey jeresy.. I mention I play football sometimes and im on the basketball team but idk what else i can do.

3) How obsessed am I? (link)
you shouldnt be devoting your life to this... which, it looks like you are. if you think he likes you, tell him that you like him. if not, keep it a secret for now. start being really flirty with him, that'll get his attention. and also, yeah, your really obsessed.


I am not fat one bit. I am actually really skinny. My hair isn't the prettiest but it's ok. I look pretty hott. But there are shorter skinnier girls in my grade that just get in my way and take all the boys. I'm not a big flirt at all. But the girl in my grade that all the boys love is such a BIGG FLIRT! I think that shes not that pretty but shes a nice girl and shes my friend. I really want the boys to notice me and like me. What should I do??? (link)
i think you can figure that out... think... think some more... the answer is: flirt with guys... DUH? flirt, flirt, flirt. theres the key.
good luck


well im like 16teen and when i was younger like about maybe 5-7 years old i experimented with somebody who was only like 2 yrs older i mean he didnt even go through pubity yet and i didnt feel anything so does that make me still tight like a virgin (link)
well, techniachally, you arent a virgin, but you can consider yourself one. it doesnt really count when your that young, but its still having sex. but if i were you i would tell people that im not a virgin. just say you are. no one is gonna know right?


hi, im 18 and my boyfriend/fiance is 22 (we are going to get married, we have discussed it an everything, but he hasnt properly asked me yet...lol) and he lives in New York and i live in Ohio. (i just moved here 2 weeks ago) and we have been together for a while but then i had to move here for a while (family thing long story) and we have been apart for 2 weeks and i miss him like crazy. i used all my prepaid minutes on my cell phone on the phone with him in one week. and we miss each other a lot. he is going to come get me as soon as he can get the money (he is kinda unemployed until he gets a job. another long story) but until then we only have email and phone to communicate. and it is tearing myself and him apart. he mopes around the house and things (his mommy told me) and its all because he misses me. thats why i am going to move in with him, but until then we are 5 hours apart and so deeply in love and everything. but im getting to my big problem here. my freind im living with, her fiance just returned from mexico after a month being gone. so of course they are all over each other, and it gets me depressed, realizing how much i miss my man. how i cant hold him or kiss him right now. and it has me to the point where i cant even look at the two of them when they are together. i have spent all morning crying b/c i miss him and things, is there anythign i can do to ease my pain (other than smoke a lot of ciggys like i have been?)? please help me. (link)
you'll make it through. i know it seems hard but eventually you'll be with him and all will be well. just try to have things that occupy your time as much as possible and maybe then you wont think about it so much. and stop smoking, cause when you do get to see your bf/fiance hes not gonna wanna be kissing an ashtray, and smoking is so unhealthy, i cant stand it. good luck.


hey is it better to have sex for the first time with a virgin or an experienced guy (link)
well, i would think someone expirenced unless they have an STD or something... good luck


I'm not overweight or anything, but my tummy could really do with some toning up! I already do ju-jitsu and go swimming twice a week, so I'm quite active. I just wanted to know if anyone had any suggestions for getting a flatter tummy. Thanks! btw, I'm 16/f (link)
just doing like 100-200 sit ups a day will help alot... good luck


Should I be worried if I'm on birth control (and have taken it effectively) and he uses a condom and pulls out? I know there's always a chance of getting pregnant, but I should be fine..right? (link)
you dont really have anything to worry about. im just as paranoid as you are, but i know that itll be ok. birth control and using a condom, most likely you wont have any problems.


Ok so my name is Tilly and I came in late for biology class. I look in my chair and there was a note with my name on it..I opened it and it said "Tilly, will you go out with me-your secret admirer"..obviously, they were joking because it was written very MESSY and..if i wanted to say yes/no..how could i tell them? so i was being mocked and embaressed..should I get over it? I wanted to cry so bad..this made me feel even more horrible because people have been calling me ugly for 5 years! (link)
forget about that note. people can be assholes. they have no life so just pretend this never happened. maybe try to comment back when people say ur ugly. if they say: ur ugly. you should say: well, have YOU looked in the mirror? or just keep ignoring it. good luck.


so i woke up in the middle ofthe night the other day... and you see i was going to pee and i heard scary sounds coming from the basement. I did what my mama always told me and went down there with a shovel that i always keepunder my bed. So i tiptoe down and find this person like rollingaround in the basement.. so i hit him.. and then omg this is horrible.. it was my sister andher bf!!! they were having sex:o whatdo i tell my mom?? and my sister?? how can i confront her? i dont think she is ready emotionly. Is 37 too young?? idk thanx I RATE HIGH!!!! (link)
ok... the shovel under your bed really scares me... i wouldnt want to be them... having sex and then being hit by a shovel... but anyways... to answer the question, she's 37. that should just answer your question by itself, but no offense, you seem a bit slow. people have sex from the time theyre 13 years old, so 37 is fine. shes old enough to make her own decisons by now. you dont need to tell your mother... good luck hun...


i need a tough ass girl probably black to tell me what to do in this situation. My brother is always instagating if you don't know what that is its when someone says stuff to get you to fight them or wanna hurt them really badly. What usually happens is I either flip out on him or i try and hit him. He doesnt get in trouble i do and it gets me sooooo pissed that i wanna cry. My parents take his side cause he is younger and i was trying to hurt him. how do i make my brother stop instagating me.

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i need some good advicenators to get me some advice. pretty fast please! thank u and love ya (link)
first of all your being just a little racist. theres nothing different about a answer from a white girl or a black girl. theyre the same. please dont be racist. no one aprreciates it. and to answer the actual question, just walk away. you dont need to fight your brother just because he instages it. please think about this and grow up. good luck.


hey there's this guy i really like, and he keeps asking me who i like. i really want to tell him that it's him, but i just don't know how to. please help me! i really don't know what to say!
i rate high! (link)
he might be asking you because he likes you. you should just tell him that you like him. he wouldnt be so anxious to know if he didnt like you back. why else would he care?


what's a virgin? (link)
it means you've never had sex.


I already asked this question but not many people answered please can you guys help me.
HOw can i tell if these guys like me
Okay there are three guys whom maybe show signs they like me or something like that. One is called Ben, the other is called Connor and the other called Ryan

Ben always asks me weird questions like Are you a lion tamer? when i say no he's like well only cool people are tamers. then he's like oh sorry never mind, I didn't mean it. And one time I was trying to open my locker and this guy we'll call him Jim just kept on closing my locker door whenever I tried to open it. Ben started pulling his arm away and he's like leave her (me) alone.

Connor sits behind me and he always rubs his shoe against my shoe when I told him to stop he just smiles at me and keeps doing it and he has a girlfriend.

Ryan always bothers me whenever I try to do my locker combination he messes me up by turning the nunbers the wrong way. He also shuts my lucker when I open. Today he asked me what my name was.

Sorry its so long but are these signs of them crushing on me or what. Please HElp !!
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just keep flirting back. you'll probably end up going out with one of them or just keep flirting with them all and having all three. good luck with them...


my best friend diana, she weighs 113 pounds and she REFUSES to eat, and i sware. shes 12/f ps shes like 5'6

diana wants to be like me. im 13/f
im really small about 5'0 and i weigh a little over 76 pounds

she wants to loose like 20 pounds and be like me.

i find that disturding because like, it just is!

how can i tell her to stop it off and well yeah!

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ps she always says she is fat and she isnt!
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xOx mel

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well tell her that for her height, shes fine. 113 is really good. just because you are obnormally small doesnt mean she should try to starve herself, it doesnt work in the end. starving yourself just makes you fatter. trust me, ive tried it. its painfull. you start to pass out ocassionally, have a constant headache, or your constantly lightheaded, sometimes you throw up or gag. tell her if she wants to lose weight she just needs to work out and eat healthy. good luck convincing her. if she doesnt listen then tell her parents. think of whats best for her, would you rather see her mad at you cause you saved her from getting fatter and possibly from killing herself or see her get fatter in the long run or kill herself? your decision.


well im a 16 yr old female lol.... and sorry if its long :( but i dont know what to do!
i have like a best boy mate
and i THINK he likes me. i really like him.
like today i was showing him something on my fone he came right up behind me and was like really close in a romantic way.
and when we was getting on the train he put his hands over my eyes and as i moved them away we kinda didnt let go for like 1 second but i really wanted to hold them.
and when we got off the train and in general we always walk really close to each other and our hands keep touching. i have a really huge urge to hold him its not fair.
i want to be with him so much but i dont know how to tell him or what to say
please help i really want to be with him. does what i explained above sound like he likes me?
emma xoxox i rate 5's for good advice :D
xx *sorry its a bit long* (link)
i think he probably likes you. i know its hard to but you should talk to him and tell him that you like him and see what happens from there. good luck!


When a guy says maybe does it usually mean yes? Like my one friend asked the guy I liked if he'd ever go out with me and he said I don't know maybe. So do you think that means yea since to guys maybe usually means yes? (link)
yeah it really depends on the guy and stuff. but usually it means they dont know yet and havent put enough consideration into it yet. ask him again in like a week and see what he says then.


Im not allowed to have a boy friend and im going to be 13 they treat me like im two. well i have a bf named chris and i been sneaking him for a LONG time now since i was a little kid we keep fighting and getting back together and fighting and well ne wayz i am sick of sneaking but i love him soo much and i dont want ne thing to happen between us but i am sick of my parents...what should i do.
LoVe,
puppyluv (link)
first sit down with your parents and try to convince them to let u have a boyfriend. after that, if it doesnt work then just keep sneaking it. ive done it too, but only once cause he was 16 and i was 13.


ok my birthday is coming up soon well not really but i like to know things before ok my birthday is in the spring and i was wondering what are some fun things to do like what games and where can i have it at like my house or like bowling rink or skating place. i dont know can you give me more ideas and things to do with about 13 people i go to private school and theres about 13 in my class.i rate high (link)
you could... go ice skating, roller skating, bowling, lazer tagging, have a dance party type thing, u could have like a guy/girl thing and then have the girls sleep over...


I don't know what you would put this under. but I am in a crisis people. haha I have to babysit a 2 year old on Saturday with my dad who wouldn't care if he got run over by a truck. The child is wild. He is my nephew and I have to baby sit him for 5 hours. 7:30am to noon. What can I do to keep him under control. Sorry if this is a stupid question but I am nerved wreched. No smart remarks either/ thanks in advance.

13/f. Neika (link)
try to get him to watch tv with you and have a time to have him eat something. theres not much you can do to keep him under control if he wants to be wild. just maybe try to read to him and get him to play with toys... thats about all i can think of. good luck!




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