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I`m Desiree

Known as Dez

i`m 17 years old

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im 13/f and i weigh 135 pounds. am i fat? if it helps, i look like this:
http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/024.jpg

i will only rate if you are completely honest.

and be honest because i am trying to lose 10 pounds and i need to know if it's worth it

Are you sure you weigh 135 lbs?? You honestly look smaller to me && actaully real healthy;; If you choose to work out then go for it..Thats always a good thing to do..But lose 10 lbs i don`t think you need to be worried about.. But to keep a nice body is always good to have at any age..

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how do you have cyber sex? like what is it and where do you have it? also what is phone sex? i dont understand..

Cyber Sex-is saying/typing sexual things to somebody on the computer..
Phone sex-Is talking to somebody on the phone && saying sexual things to them

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so I recently met this great guy & now he's my boyfriend. it seems like we've known each other forever tho. anyway, i kinda want a schedule of what we should do & when... we've held hands, kissed & made out. we love each other as much as possible for the about of time we've known each other. when would be a good time to do something new? can you point me in the right direction? I don't want it to seem like we're rushing things. i'm 15 almost 16, he's 16 almost 17. thanks a lot!

Honestly;; There isn`t a certain time its whenever you feel comfortable && ready thats when the right time is.. There isn`t a time in the relationship you should do something..If you think your rushing into things slow it down..But just let it happen if it feels right..[[I`m not sayin rush into like sex but holding hands && such are the simple but cutest things to do in a relationship..

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How do i make my cat stop pooping so much?

Don`t feed your cat so much..
Really you can`t control it cuz i think they use the bathroom alot anyways

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I was just wondering,
is vitamin water good or bad for you?
cause I drink a lot of it and I was just wondering.
Thanks

Its good for you..Vitamins are very good for your body

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I have little red bumps going across my chest. What are they???

It could be a few things..
-Acne which you can buy some cream for that..
-If you sweat in that area it could be that too && cause a rash from sweating..
You just could wash it soon as your done sweating so it doesn`t make a rash && put lotion on it..

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what are sum good rap songs??? that you can play at parties

I personally love rap music!!
Alright..
Lil scrappy-Money in the bank
Young Joc-Its goin down-Hear me coming
Juvenile-Slow motion-Back that ass up
Lil jon-Snap your fingers
Young dro-Shoulder lean
Shawnna-gettin some-Take it slow-shake that shit
Busta Rhymes-Touch it-I love my B
T.I-what you know about that
Bubba sparxxx-Miss new booty
Too short-Shake that monkey
Ying Yang twins-Salt shaker-I yi yi-get low
Iconz-get crunked up
8ball-stop playin games-you don`t want drama
Coolio-Gangsta Paradise
Jkwon-Hood Hop-Tipsy
D4L-Laffy Taffy.
Dem Franchize Boyz-Lean wit rock wit it;Oh i think they like me
Trina-Pull over
Khia-Respect me-My neck,my back
504 boyz-Wooble Wooble
master P-Oooo Weee-Them jeans
David Banner-Like a pimp
Project Pat-Chickenhead-Don`t save her
Paul wall-Sittin sideways
Mike jones-Still tippin
Pretty Ricky-Grind on me
QB Finest-Ooochie walley-Quick to bakc down
Game-How we do
50-candy shop


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i get these random pains all over my body. my mom says it may be arthritis, but i dont know!
and i had an injuryyy this year with surgery and im scared it wont get better.

You should defiantly see your doctor about this..

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I have a lot of trouble finding a bathing suit that fits me. I have a very large bust (D) and I am most comfortable wearing tankinis. However, all of the bathing suits I have tried on are wayyyy too small in the bust. Any suggestions for a bathing suit that is good for my body type, and preferably 35$ or under? Thank you!

Well i have this same problem && i understand what your talking about i suggest going to a department store.. && taking the top off a bigger bathing suit && keep the smaller bottoms you need..I do it all the time..

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hi I am a girl and i shave down there... i know that you are suppose to shave down then side ways then up but it still hurts and I cut myself doing it. Is there a specific technique i can use to still be completely smooth without so much pain or something other than a razor that I can use?

I suggest shaving over like nair && hair removing things.. Yes they work but it hurts also && sometimes you end up having to shave anyways..
Alright instead of soap or shaving cream try conditionor like for your hair && make sure you use enough to get it all covered..Not real thick just a thin layer..
Then shave that way it shouldn`t hurt as bad..Take your time also;;

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is it bad for you to masterbate with the water fasit from the bathtub?

If it isn`t hurting you then it fine.. Nothing wrong with it

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i havent even made out with a guy yet. like ive been planning on to, but i guess it just hasnt happend. a few times i got peer pressured into it, but i would back away cause i dont wanna everyone there watching. i just get uncomfortable. i just want it to be the right moment with the right guy. and im only 13. is that normal that i havent hooked up with a guy yet?

Hey sweetie;;
I can completely relate to you..
I kept thinkin that i should kiss a guy cuz everybody else was && that i should have a boyfriend && stuff..But honestly i wasn`t ready i was too shy && the guy defiantly wasn`t the right person..
So yeah i waited had a couple boyfriends nothin real serious && never did it lead to kissing or anything til i was 15.. Yeah some people might consider that too old but i`m so happy i waited that long && didn`r rush.. I`m 17 now && still with the same guy that i waited for..
I`m not saying this will happen to you [[I mean it could]] But my point is i think its okay to wait as long you want for the right guy && don`t rush things..
Everyhting should be perfect even the first kiss

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I've look this song up on the internet but I can't find it maybe its cause I ain't got enough information on it? I'm going to try to give you enough information on it..Its a rap song and at the beginning its got kids singin this.. does you chin(or something like that) wobble to the floor.. thats the only part i know.. do you know what it is? Thanks soo much!

The song is called Chain hang low by Jibbs..

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can you listen to ipods in tanning beds ?

Where i go tanning at there is a radio in the tanning bed.. Ummmm but i wouldn`t suggest taking a ipod in the tanning bed.. Where the cord goes i`m sure will touch you somewhere on your body && it could streak you or watever.. But most of the time you can listen to music there at the tanning salon

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19/f
I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few days ago in the shower. I happened to notice some blood trickling down the drain. It wasn't a lot, but it was enough to concern me. Is that normal? Please tell me!

Hey sweetie;;
This is perfectly normal..
He might of broke your hymen or some people say popped your cherry..
So there aren`t any worries

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What do most people define as "hooking up"?

Sooooo many meanings..
-Having sex once
-Going out
-Hanging out
-Having sex && no relationship
-Having a relationship

People have their own meanings its hard to say exactly..
Sorry if i didn`t help much
♥Dez

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Hey, can you guys help me find Nelly Furtado's song Promiscuous? I just want to listen to it, so an audio version or video version is fine. Thanks so much.

Go to Yahoo.com && click on music..They`ll most likely have the video..
♥Dez

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ok well im 13/f and i masterbate like 5 times a day is it too much?? its like a need i love to do it!!! is this weird?? another thing is its kinda smelly down there what should i do about it and is that normal????

Your 13 this is very normal for your age..Eventually you won`t do it as much or as often.. Also for the smell use femine wipes;;Change your underwear atleast twice a day also..This is also normal to have an odor in this area..
♥Dez

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What is dry sex?

Basically sex with clothes on..You rub && touch each other..

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16/f
you can use a condom and be on birth control right? because im on birth control but trust me in nowhere near having sex people wanted to with me but i said no :D im not ready for that or the consequences yet! well i was just wondering. because i am on birth control for my period not because im being sexual. well yeah i was just checkin sorry if that was a dumb question! just wanted to be sure.

Yes you can use a condom while being on your birth control sweetie..

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