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just want an opinion..
so I recently met this great guy & now he's my boyfriend. it seems like we've known each other forever tho. anyway, i kinda want a schedule of what we should do & when... we've held hands, kissed & made out. we love each other as much as possible for the about of time we've known each other. when would be a good time to do something new? can you point me in the right direction? I don't want it to seem like we're rushing things. i'm 15 almost 16, he's 16 almost 17. thanks a lot!
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Honestly;; There isn`t a certain time its whenever you feel comfortable && ready thats when the right time is.. There isn`t a time in the relationship you should do something..If you think your rushing into things slow it down..But just let it happen if it feels right..[[I`m not sayin rush into like sex but holding hands && such are the simple but cutest things to do in a relationship..
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Hey there!
In my opinion.. I dont think that you should schedule what you two do because you should let things happen by themselves. Just let things be at where they are. You dont have to move too fast or too slow. When you feel the time is right to try something new then go for it! If you want things to least just take things slow. Put some thought into things that you two are going to be doing. Never do anything that you dont want to do. When you two feel like your relationship isnt interesting then try something new. Try not to hold hands, kiss and make out all the time because then things will start to get boring that you two may stop doing those things. I hope I helped! I can only TRY to point you to the right direction but your heart can only lead you to the right direction. Sorry its so long and took me so long to answer you. If you need any more advice on anything go right ahead and leave more in my inbox!
-Manda
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I think you answered your own question in a way. There shouldn't be a schedule on when you guys are going to do things. The first time someone asked me a question about this whole schedule thing I didn't understand it and I still don't. Not to sound kocky or something, but you guys should do something whenever you're ready. I don't really understand what you mean by doing something new. In what way? Just take the relationship slow. Day by day and things will be fine. Be there for each other and love each other like you have been. Understand that there will be people trying to destroy your relationship and there are going to be lies but if you guys truley care about one another, you wouldn't let it get to you. When you guys have arguments, don't break up. Sometimes, they're healthy for couples. It's not good keepings things inside so always be honest. Best of luck with everything and if you need more help let me know.
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well everyone moves at different speeds so its hard to answer this question. if hes almost 17 then hes probally already done a lot. i think that it would be a good time to try something new. try talking to him about it first to see what he wants to do. maybe you and him can have a movie night. cuddle up with him and talk and see where that takes you. i hoped i helped if you need more advice just ask me i am happy to help!!
xo//Stacey
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