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my name is SHELBY

but you can call me boo

im a caretaker

i knock on wood alot

i can make you smile

im getting braces soon

i like capri sun & zebra cakez!

i still count with my fingers

i will watch Sex And The City with you

i will thumb wrestle you in public

and i will make cute faces at you in the rear view mirror

if you need to get ahold of me in another way besides advicenators then feel free to send me an email at SHELBYcrunkpants@yahoo.com

advice

My boyfriend and I make out all the time. He wants me to go father with him. I don't know what he wants, but my question is what can I do and how do I do it?

Im not going to answer your question because your obviously not ready. If you dont know what to do and your asking for advice on it because HE wants you too then believe me your not ready. Just think about it and dont let him force you into doing anything you dont want to do.

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hey my name is rachel and i have been having cyber sex online and i think iam addicted to it i've tried to stop but i can't I want to stop before my parents find out please help me.

First of all delete any type of communication you have with these people you are having cybersex with. Delete buddylists, chatrooms, anything needed to be deleted, delete it. Second, get your mind off of it. Join a sport, hang out at a friends house away from the computer. Spend less and less time on the computer until you rarely go on.
Third, think about what your doing. Im sorry but its extremely stupid. Talking about sex with a keyboard. Come on, your better than that.

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for pirates of the carribean, keira knightley said they had to paint on cleavage cuz her boobs were so small. well, im not really 'busty' or anything, so does anybody know HOW to painton cleavage??

Im just gonna be honest. Its not realistic at all. It took Keira Knighley a professional, loads of tools, lots of money, and lots of time. And most likely if you look at her upclose in person it wont be as convincing.

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Hey,
I'm gunna be a freshman next year, and I need some ideas about what to wear on the first day of school. I guess I wear"preppy" clothes like American Eagle and Abercrombie. But it really doesnt matter to me. But, I'm open for any kind of clothes, and any kind of suggestions. You dont have to give me brands or anything. General would work too. For example"long sleeve shirt and a skirt" or whatever. Thanks sooo much. xoxo
marsbars

I would try to wear something creative and different but still stylish and trendy. Try something you have never tried before so you can come back to the school year with a whole new look. One of my favorite stores is Charlotte Russe. Try this outfit.
Face print top - $14.99
Dark wash denim mini - $24.99
Nylon opaque footless tights - $5.99
Circle hoop earrings - $4.99
Sneaker with checkerboard print - $18.99
All found at Charlotte Russe or you can find it on their website.
Have fun and be creative!

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alright, I heard somewhere, that if you sleep in a tampon, then you can get an infection or a disease or something.

1. myth or fact?
2. If a fact, what is the infection?
3. what is the infection caused by?
4. how serious is the infection?

alright, thank you all so much!

1. Fact. If you sleep in a tampon you are having one in for 9 hours about so you do have the chance of getting an infection although its very rare.
2. TSS aka Toxic Shock Syndrome.
3. Leaving a tampon in for more than at the most eight hours.
4. Pretty serious. Chance of death.

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I'm thirteen and my eyes are really small, and my lips are very big, which is not a good combination. Is there any way to make my eyes looks bigger and make my lips look smaller? (Without surgery please, haha)

Get your eye brows done and tell the person doing them about your eyes being small and then they can shape your eyebrows to help make the illusion that your eyes are bigger. Wear colors that will bring out your eyes and wear clear lipgloss.

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okay well my friend is going through a rough time right now. her boyfriend just told her that he is gonna kill himself cause he wants to but he wont tell her why. he was starting to but then he just stoped typing ( it was on AIM ) the ages are 12. do you think he seriously could of meant it. cause he said he really wanted to cut himself also. & she is so worried about him because she loves him so much and she doenst want to loose him. any advice that i could tell her to do. that would be helpful thankks
♥

Most likely he is not serious but just to be safe print out a conversation and show it to his parents. He needs help because he obviously has problems in his life that he needs help to deal with.

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if youre with your boyfriend and youre making out and doing other thingsand then you stop and then 2 minuts later you wanna start again but he says hes not "lustful" or in the mood anymore does that mean you turned him off?? or do guys just change into more romantic and calm moods all the sudden?

What else is new? Guys change their mind about everything all the time. Id get used to it and dont worry I doubt you did anything to turn him off.

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I'm 18 and I've been told plenty of times that I have the face of a 15-16 year old. I wear enough makeup to try to enhance my features, hoping I'll look my age, but I must be doing something wrong. Any specific makeup tips or techniques that you might suggest I try? (Ex: Stay away from any colors, etc)?

Stick with natural colors ex: light pinks, peaches, earthy greens and browns. Stay away from any playful colors ex: blues, purples, bright greens.

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for high school, we're aloud to carry around a backpack during the day. do you reccomend this (because our classes could be in seperate buildings & i don't know where my locker will be related to my classes)? also, where are some places you can get backpacks that are cute and not to big? or, what are your recommendations for types/styles of backpacks? thanks

Go with the class Jansport backpack. Simple, easy, gets the job done.

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Ok....i know im only 13 but i want to wear a thong but im afraid my mom will get mad at me for asking should i just buy one and hide it?

i feel hot around guys if i wear a low cut shirt or something that guys like they always think i dress the perfect way becasue half the time they look down my shirt and they like that but one day they asked me if i wore a thong i said no.

i think it would be comfortable but i dont know how to ask my mom cus she dosent even let me date

I think every girl goes through this in her life. Anyway dont tell her you wear it because of boys, doesnt sound good to a mom sweetie, believe me. Tell her you want one because your embaressed of panty lines. Dont get mad at her if she says no at first, just keep on trying to convince her and tell her she can go with you to buy one or a few.

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I do not like shaving, and am looking for an alternate solution. Do the "Nair" products work, and if so, which ones?

Stick with Veet rather than Nair :]

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Ok this might sound stupid but i wanna know if this is normal. sometimes if i hear a song that i really really love it makes me want to cry, i think just becuase its so beautiful and i feel so deep, its kind of disturbing. for me its enjoy the silence by depeche mode, and lacuna coil covered it, i like that one just as much.

So is this normal? It might be becuase music is such an important part in my life? Thanks.

Yup its normal :]

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how do you get sand out of the fabric of a swimsuit

I just soak mine in water and all the sand comes off.

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Ages of children: (boy)6 (girl)8
My age:14
Entertianing? Cooking?(breakfast and lunch)
any ideas?

For food you should first ask the parents if they would like any specifics or if any of the kids are allergic to anything. Stick to the simple foods that are fast and easy. Kids arnt patient.

For breakfast you could do cereal, eggs, toast, oatmeal, fruit, poptarts, frozen waffles, yogurt, etc. Juice or milk with it.

For lunch you could do PB&J the classic, grilled cheese, kraft mac&cheese, frozen pizza (never order in when babysitting) a favorite sandwhich that is specially made, etc.

For entertainment you shouldnt worry about it too much because they will probably let you know what they want to do but here are some ideas.

Boys are into action figures, toy cars, play fighting, etc.

Girls are into barbies, doing eachothers hair, painting nails, dressing up, etc.

For all three of you try games outside ONLY in the backyard (never out front or street) hide&seek, tag, catch, swings or slides if they have them, house, etc.

Just be creative and have fun with it, kids that age love it when you have all the attention on them and they love to feel older. Good luck!

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My best friend is just like me exact! i mean we say all the same thing at the same time and everything! she taly alsome! we do everthing to gether.Do u think well stay best friends?

No one can give you the right answer because there isnt one. You might stay friends until your adults with your own kids, or someone could move, or you guys could go to different schools, get in a fight, stay friends until highschool ends, etc. You never know what is gonna happen. Things happen, and poeple change. Just try not to fight, spend time together, and hope for the best. Also, keep in touch. Always. Otherwise you will regret it.

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im gonna be out of town during our 2 month anniversary thingy and i told my boyfriend i got him a present but i havent gotten it yet and i really dont know what to get or what to make and hes coming home tommorow!! anyone have ideas?

Since its two months dont go super big on it. You should still get him something with meaning behind it though, showing how much you are. A card with a the lyrics a special song, his favorite, or just any love song inside and a picture of the two of you also. Be creative and have fun :]

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Is it true that if you print out a picture, can you iron it on to a shirt? I would think it would burn. o.0

Special paper needed.

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i want to get white etnies. would they look bad if i wore skirts and capris or no? thanks

Well it depends. If your wearing capris then yes it will look fine because to me capris most of the time look kind of tom boyish so tennies would look good. For skirts, if your wearing a jean skirt it would look cute. Any cloth or frilly looking skirts dont wear tennis shoes.
-♥Shelby

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Whats a good gift to get any guy..I just want to get something for my boyfriend.

Tickets for you and him to a baseball, football, or a basketball game etc. Make sure its one of his favorite teams/sport. That way he can be with you but still be a guy with his love for sports.
-♥Shelby

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