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Basically, in the last 6 or seven months I've lost abut 10.5 pounds/three quarters of a stone just through cutting down on certain foods and running. I've never stopped eating completely although there were certain times where I ate minimally and may have not eaten quite enough. I didn't really need to lose the weight in the first place I just had some puppy fat but now i am much skinner (48.7kg/7.6 stone/107 pounds)and generally happier. My only concern is that I may have stunted my growth through this. I am 15 years old and 5 ft 4 inches. Is this likely? x x x

no i doubt you stunted your growth. i barly eat just because i cant. i get full VERRRYY easily so i basically only eat one meal a day and if i do its not alot. anywho lol i dont think youve stunted your growth so id say dont worry about it. but if your really extreamly worried you know you can always call the doctor and ask him/her! :] hope i helped a bit.

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what is a healthy way to loose 5 pounds, or so. not a ton of weight but just some. what has worked for you? thanks in advance!! ill rate high :)

ok well you might not want to do this and im not sure if its healthy or not but i lost alot doing this and i have kept it off. (if you want to know how much i lost go ahead and leave a question in my box). alright well basically what i did was i only ate one meal a day and that was dinner. but i made myself a special diet i guess you could say. like i would only eat some pasta and that was it and i was full. or i just ate a sandwhich, or a salad, or some chicken or something like that. i lost a pound a day and i have kept it off and rite now i eat normally. so try doing that. it might not work for you though because i have a small stomoch and get full from just eating like 5 crackers lol so idk if that would work for you.. so heres what my cousin did. for breakfast she ate like cottage cheese or something light like that with fruit or something and thats it. shed skip lunch maybe have a snack or something in between and then for dinner shed eat soup and salad or pasta and salad or a sandwhich or some type of poltry and a salad. she lost a LOT of weight doing that. so i guess basically what im saying is just dont eat as much as you normally do. try those but if they dont work then try the regular eat healthy and exercise. i really hope i helped! sorry its so long. :[

michelle

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I'm 14/f and this is i think like the 5-6 time i've gotten my period and when i get i'm really happy ( well this time i am because i won't have to worry bout it round x-mas) so i'm happy bout that but now i just have this feeling to be hugged or held and that usually happens when i get my period? Thanks will rate

yea its pritty much normal. cause your hormones are more "active" around when you get your period so your body & hormones are telling your brain you want to be held etc. i know it sounds weird but its true! anyways dont worry about it its normal. :] hope that helped a bit!

michelle

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He's my favorite singer and I have three of his albums. He only has 4 altogether, right?

yes.

1;who needs pictures
2;part II
3;mud on the tires
4;time well wasted

:] hope that helped lol.

michelle

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I want to ask my crush to winter formal creatively. (girls ask guys for this dance)
I have different ideas. Please rate one through ten each idea on how cheesy it is [1 being not at all cheesy, 10 being wow that's cheesy!] And also give me feedback about each idea.

#1: The Guitar Pic Idea. I type "Will you go to winter formal with me?" in small font and print it out and cut it out and glue it onto one side of a guitar pic and put clear nail polish over it so it doesn't look tacky. Then I'd give it to him. (He likes to play guitar.)

#2: Fortune Teller Idea. This is probably most flirtatous. I playfully tell him I've learned palm reading. Ask for his hand and as I move my finger over different lines on his palms, I jokingly make up different predictions like "You will be a famous rockstar." Then I say "Let's see what's in your near future." Then as I look at his palm, I say "I see you going to winter formal with me." And then sincerly look at him and ask, "Would you like to go to winter formal with me?"

#3: Icing On The Cookie Idea. I bake cookies and on one write in icing "Would you like to go to winter formal with me?" (One problem: I've never baked cookies in my life before)

If you have any other ideas they are appreciated. Thanks in advance!

aw those are cute ideas! well i think #1 one would have to be my favorite. but im really partial to music things so maybe thats why. i dont think any of them are cheesy and since im not good at rating things ill just give you my opinion and that would be that i would go with the guitar pic idea. its really cute and hed be really impressed since he likes to play guitar! i love that idea so i think you should do that! very cute! :] hope i helped a little..

michelle

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hmm yes i agree with the person below, you do seem like a fake. And you also make yourself come off as a whore. isnt that just dandy

hah. um alrighty! idk how i make myself come off as a whore but what ever floats your boat hun!

michelle

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What are all the bases becuase my boyfriend wants to go to 3rd and I don't know what it is. Becuase we have made out and stuff but I'm just confused!
xo lauren ox

well some people have differnt ways of putting it but this is what i know.

1st;kiss
2nd;felt up n things like that
3rd;oral sex
4th or "home";sex

:] hope that helps!

michelle

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Ok My mom is 48 and she had a Biopsiy (how ever you spell it) about 2 days ago. She has been Bleeding alot and its not time for her period and she has been having a fever and VERY BAD Cramps!!!!!! What Can I do??!!?!?!?! The roads are sorta icey. but Whats Going On? I'm Scared!!!

it could be an alsor which is in the stomoch. the doctors should really be checking her out for everything. why doesnt she go to the hospital like asap and tell them whats been going on. there could be so many things that could be wrong some might even be life threatening. so id say get her to the hospital as soon as possible. no one should wait around for something like that! good luck babe!

michelle

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someone, anyone tell me what this guy thinks. i love him, and i can read what he says. but im wondering if theres somthing 'inbetween the lines'? help, ill rate & all that jazzzz < 33

me: will you go out w. me?
him: no
me: whatt, why?
him: complicatedd
me: just dime
him: i hate you. END
me: what
him: that was SUCH a joke
him: tard
me: but..
me: but i like love you
him: so suck it
him: bye
him signed off at 5:51:56 PM.
him signed on at 5:53:27 PM.
him: so to set this straight, benny dared me, i dont like you, i like jenna, ask anyone, get out of my face and stopo being such a clingy little 4 year old
him: so stop following me, and stop obsessing over me, just stop, youre WEIRD.
me: what
just too radical: want me to spell it? W-E-I-R-D
me: fine w.e
him: i know you care
him: youre crying arent you
me: s what if i am
him: thats so sad
me: really?
him: i mean sad as in loser as in, pathetic puppy
me: as in suck it
him signed off at 5:56:57 PM.

um. i dont think theres anything inbetween the lines at all in that convo. hes a fat jerk and you deserve better. if he calls you weird and is a dick like that why would you wanna go out with him? i think you should move on and find someone who appriciates you. hes an ass! so just forget him. i know sometimes its hard to let go of people you really love/like but trust me you can do it. its really hard for me to let go of people but ive done it several times so if i can do it i kno you can! good luck babe. and forget about him hes a jerk!

michelle

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I know that your boobs look bigger by the tissue that is in them. Is there anyway that you can lose some of that tissue without having a breast reduction.

actually boobs are more fat then tissue. so if you find an exercise for the bust it would help. so try looking around the internet or something for those kind of workouts. also if you diet and exercise its a garontee you will lose some fat in your breasts! good luck. hope i helped a little. :]

michelle

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I've just been wondering, how do you know if you're going to be left-handed or right handed when you're born? Is it that you just tend to use your left hand/right hand more than the other than you become left handed or right handed? Or does it have to do with muscles? And what about those people who are ambixterous?

its your parents choice really. or just the childs. if the kid feels more comfurtable holding it in the left then theyll write with the left same as right. or if the parent want them writting with a certain hand they can keep changing the hand the kid writes with so that he/she will write with the hand they want him to. ambidextrous is if the kid was writing with both hands at the same time while he was learning to write and just came accustom to both or when he/she was older decided to learn to write with both hands they practiced and practiced till they were good. so really its just what the child feels most comfurtable doing as a child.

heres an example. when i was younger id always try to use my left hand to write but my dad didnt want me to be a lefty so he made me use my right. (who knows why he didnt but whatever lol)and now my sister is 4 and when she started writing she tryed using her left hand but my dad made her use her write. so really i think its just whats comfurtable for the kid. sorry this is kinda long hah.

hope i helped a little. :]

michelle

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are? boobs fat?

yea theyre made up of fat and tissues and things like that. you can probibly search somewhere on the net if you want more info on that. but yea theyre fat.

michelle

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okay i went to Goody's tonight and they are slipping up on their plus size clothes...I'm 15 years old and I am looking for some new clothes...sad thing is...i wear plus sizes and i am into fashion...like the ripped jeans and such...but lately no one is carrying anything that makes me happy...does anyone know of any stores besides Goody's that carry fashionable teen plus sized clothes that are also on the cheap side? Thanks a mil!

torrid. thats all i can think of though. or that i know of. good luck. sorry i didnt help much!

michelle

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whats 4th base please answer asap!! will rate

sex

michelle

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im buying some cds for my dad for x-mas but i dont know which ones are the best from each band
can you tell me which cds are the best from

1- The Eagles
2- Chicago
3- Any other cds from around this time or cds that people liked if they like these two bands

try going for the "best hits" cds from those bands. or just any random cd you see of that band. for my dads birthday i got him chicagos greatest hits and he loves it. here are some other bands my dad listens to and that are similer to those that you listed, or that your dad might like/know.

journey
earth, wind, and fire
kansas
boston
styx
jimmy buffet
the rolling stones

good luck!

michelle

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is there anyway i can get checked for stds without my parents knowing? or the heatlh center letting them know?

there should be a teen center somewhere around your town that helps with that kind of stuff. they do all of that and dont tell your parents. so look through the phone book or something or ask a close friend if he or she knows where or how to contact that place.

michelle

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i'm cr0ssfaded right n0w. is that sick or is that SICKKK?!?

sick.

michelle

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hey ok is gonna sound really dumb especially to me cause music is my life...but what EXACTLY is r&b??? xoxo thanx no smart a answers

rythem & blues. :]

michelle

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Hey peeps. I am thinking of becoming a goth. But I have some dilemmas.

1 my mom wont let me be what I wanna be. I know the consequences. I told me mom that I wanted to dye my hair black, and she freaked.
2 I cant get past the metaphores. To goths, gothic sayings may have a meaning but when I hear or see gothic sayings or quotes or whatever, all I see is stuff about blood, guts, and death.
3 Idont know any chain stores that has a lot of gotic clothing and silver jewelry with the gothic sighns.


Help.

well i dont know if you want to turn goth. goths are people who worship the devil and do sacrafices and things like that. you can wear all black and stuff but not be goth. people who dont really know what goth is classify people who wear all black goth, when theyre not. SOO. just wear all black if thats what you really want. and you can buy all the stuff your talking about at hottopic. which isnt a goth store even though people say it is. but anywho. i know im not really helping i just wanted to put my input on this. so, if thats not really who you are dont do it. but if its what you feel is right then go for it. good luck. and sorry i wasnt really helpin. :[

michelle

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okay well like any normal person i wear deoderant =) but the thing is whenever i get to school i've started sweating immeadiately. i have NO CLUE why and its happened just recently. what should i do or whats wrong with me???

its not your deoderant. deoderant isnt supposed to make you stop sweating its just to keep the smell away. some people have over active sweat glands and you might have it. SO, go to the doctor and tell them about whats happening..if they think its savere they will do a presedure to make you stop sweating. if its not as saver they will perscribe you a special deoderant type thing to help the sweating stop. good luck! :]

michelle

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