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hey. my name is sam. i love music and my friends. feel free to ask me anything, even if its stupid. maybe not that stupid...
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Will taking a lot of multivitamins help me lose weight? Or will it make me gain weight?

taking a lot of vitamins wont make oyu fatter or skinnier. it will just make you unhealty(even thought their vitamins).
so i wouldnt reccomend it at all.

OK idk if this happens to everyone, but in my myspace on the about me section, it wont let me like skip a line. I wanna write one sentence, and then skip to the next line. How do i do that? And how can i make words in bold/italics/ and get them bigger?
thanks so much

to skip a line--
bold--
italics--
underline--

This question is for all you people who are fasinated by Shakespeare's plays. I need to know who is responsible for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet, and why. I also need to know what the messenger (Balthasar or whoever) told Romeo, and why. Thank you so much.

the messenger never told romeo anything, he left before the messenger could deliver the letter. the letter said that juliet is faking her death and will wake up after 72 hours or something like that, so dont think shes actually dead.

no ones exactly responsible for their deaths, because they killed themselves. romeo killed himself, because he thought he saw juliet was dead, when only she was under a potion to make her seem dead. when juliet woke up to romeo dead, she also killed herself.

anymore questions about it, just ask me.

I am overweight (13 yrs old, 5ft 4in, and 140 lbs) so I use a bathroom scale to check my weight 2 times a day, in the morning and in the evening. Why is my weight different at those 2 times of the day? How do I know which one is telling the truth? Are any of the scales telling the truth? Because one time I went to the doctor and I weighed more on that scale than on the one I own at home. Why are these weights all different? How much do I really weigh? Help me please! What should I do?

your wieght changes at different times during the day, because of the graviational pull of the moon to earth. thats what my teacher said a few weeks ago.

does anyone know how to put pics in your profile..like...going across the about me? thanks so muchness ♥

if you mean moving, whick i think you do, put in

Whats the code to change words color on your profile. Or just how do you do it without making every font that color.

Thank you

if you mean myspace;

how do you get rid of pimples by, lets say, tommorow? ill rate 5's

put toothpaste on it and it shrinks great.

hi! well im 15/f
and yeah my family doesnt think i have any friends...BECAUSE my cousin always wants to do something with me like hang out..she doesnt have very many pepole to hang out with...and like so i have to spend all my time with her it seems..i just met this girl and we clicked right away! i mean we are pretty good friends now..i dont really hang out with anyone really..except my cousin and this girl that i was talking about earlier..and so my bro comes home today and is like yeahhhh susie (my aunt) said she is worried about you because you have no friends..i mean i always wanna go out and do things! party it up! but i never get invited to parties..im not outgoing..and i dono i guess i really dont have THAT many friends..well i do..in school..but i dont hang out with many and today my cousin is like yeah my my was gonna ask if i could spend the weekend with you since they're gonna be gone and im like..oh? and then she is like Nevermind!! my dad is gonna be home..you can just spend the weekend here then..and so now like i guess i have to sleepover there friday and saturday and then hang out on sunday too..and i didnt wanna be like yeah i dont wanna hang out with youu! so i was like umm okay? but that takes up my WHOLE weekend and we like never do anything there..i even told her we are gonna go out and do something!!! because she always sits on the computer..and im like we are gonna go to a movie or something..just party it up! and then she is like i kno..but what are we gonna do? and at her school..they're are alot of hotties but she isnt exactly the 'popular' type.. sorry not to be mean..but she isnt? i can tell..and so she doesnt have like hardly any friends..and like NO guy friends :( me either thO! and i wanna hang out with guys..and shes like well on the computer we can ask a whole buncha people including this kid that i think is hott...and he is pretty popular i guess..and im thinking he is gonna try and make up an excuse not to go..or say he has other plans..and i hear this girl that is like very popular and gorgeous that this kid i think is hott..is going to the movies this weekend too..so im scared their gonna ask this kid to go..and alot of other people then nobody will wanna go when we doo..and the kid always flirts with this girl and it BUGS me..i wanna meet hiM!!! thats why i want to like go to a movie or something..but i know if my cousin asks he wont (sorry mean?) but its true! and i dont know anyone else that knows him.. and on friday my cousin plays hockey and she is like OH SHOOT..i have a hockey game at like 530 and they usually have to watch varsity too..so there goes our friday night you know?..UGH this is very very confusing i cant meet new people thru my cousin..she dont kno anyone..but i wanna go out and have fun! neither of us have cars..and her dad works till like 6 every night..and i dono if he would even wanna bring us anywhere..and yeahhhH! please dont say hang out with my friends..because i dont hang out with many people either..woahhh sorry SO LONG really!! its just lately this has been bothering me..

SORRY SO LONG AGAIN!!!
BUT THANKS FOR ANSWERING :)

--oh its okay that its so long, one thing i think you should do is get to know people at school better. you can ask if they want to come over and hang out one day.if they say no, theyre probably busy. just ask someone else then. even if you dont know these people very well, you will get to know them if you hang out with them. try taking your cousin to some school things like basketball games and whatnot. if she says she doesnt want to, then just tell her that you had your heart set on going and go without her. she might even change her mind and go with you, because she seems like the person who gets what she wants easily and you need to show her that shes not.
--if your shy at talking to people, try and compliment them on something(shirt shoes, necklace) especially something in common like if they have a band shirt on.
--another thing you could do is get a myspace, or if you already have one, ask to be some peoples friends that go to your school. if you dont know them, the best way to open up is to comment their pictures or ask how its going or do their stupid little quizzes that them post in a bulliten or blog. thats how i met a lot of my friends i have today.
--as for your cousin, tell her that you want to stay home this weekend. you could say that you have a project, or that you dont feel like a sleepover that weekend.

does anyone know any music that isnt very popular (preferable alternative, indie type bands) or even singers that really no one knows about, but you think will hit it big in 2006? im looking for brand new artists that no one really knows of!! thanks a ton!

umm "30 seconds to mars"
"vaux"
"bright eyes" is somewhat known, but not that much
"thursday"
HOPEFULLY "Signal the Escape"
if u need more, just message me.

I wear makeup to hide ugly scars on my face. With my makeup on no one ever knows that I have them. Only my family has ever seen me without my makeup. My boyfriend of one year is getting fed up with me. He cant accept the fact that he cant see me as sporadically as he'd like. When he comes over unannounced I make him wait 10 or 20 mins while I fix myself up. He says that he loves me no matter what.. and yet he is always saying the best thing about me is my beauty. Should I reveal to him how I truly look and risk losing him? Or save face and let him be upset?

trust me, if a gut doesnt like you because of your scars, then hes not a person worth wanting. i know that most guys wont care if you have scars or not, i mean i'm missing bones and joints in one of my hands, and that hasnt stopped any guys from asking me out.

hi im just wondering, i seriously think im kindof on the pudgy side, but my friends always tell me not (but i mean theyre friends, come on!)
but im 5'8 and i weigh 110 or so and i just constantly wish i were skinnier. am i?

wow your skinny...you shouldnt worry about your wieght at all hun.

Could someone give me a list of HTML for MySpace?

take the spaces out between the arrows and it sould work((leave in the spaces between the words in the font ones))

< b >--bold
< i >--italics
< u >--underline
< br > break in line
< font color=INSERT NAME OR NUMBER HERE >--changes color
< font size=INSERT NUMBER HERE >--makes font larger or smaller
< center >--centers your text
< marquee > makes pictures or words move

thats all i can think of, if u need something more, just drop one in my inbox

Well , i really like this guy in 7th grade, but the thing is I'm in 8th grade. I don't really know him that well but i really like him.
I know him well enough to like ask him out, but i dont want to yet.
I know some of my friends would give me a hard time about it but i know his friends wouldn't.
Should i ask him out or not?
I rate high for help
x0
>torn

just ask him to the movies or something. i doubt he will turn you down. but if you cant do that so suddenly, just try to hang out with him more. get to know one of his friends and then you would be one step closer to him.
if you have a myspace or xanga or something, add him or talk to him. he'll evantually want to meet you and hang out.
GO FOR IT!! =P

I'm always tired. Even when I get 8+ hours of sleep. What's wrong with me?
It's hard to do something when all day I feel like I'm going to pass out on my desk.

you might have low iron, get vitammins with iron.

There is a guy named John I recently met who has really taken a liking to me. We've gone on a couple of dates, we get along well and I know that he'd probably be very good for me, but of course, I'm still hung up on my ex, Tom. What's more, Tom and I are still kind of seeing each other, too. We've decided to just go with the flow and seeing what happens, rather than just jump back into something or decide against it.

I made this clear to John on our first date so that I would not be maliciously leading him on. This didn't change John's stance at all and he still seems to want to pursue me. Even though I've told John everything, am I still leading him on by talking to him on the phone and texting him a lot? John and I haven't even so much as kissed but I still want to be careful about this.

I think your just still stuck on Tom. hes your ex and you should eventually get over him. try going out with John to take your mind off of Tom. if the relationship ended badly between you two, i wouldn't even consider going back out with him. just give it time and youll figure out who you really want to be with.

well i get depressed alot and i also like depressing songs and ive had suicidal thots before and sometimes i cant trust myself like i get into deep thots about how easily i can kill someone or even myself and i sometimes want to be dying, dead, or seriously hurt just to see the effect ive had on people or who is even my true friend. I think theres something rong with me but can someone tell me whats rong with me and how can i make myself better.

you have depression, hunny. the best advice i can give you is to go to your mom or dad and ask them to bring you to a doctor or something. its really the only way to deal with those thoughts.

Does anybody know if it is possible for someone who is not photogenic to be able to take a good picture? I hear all the time from friends, my boyfriend, my family, and random people off the street that I am beautiful. Some even have asked me if I have modeled before. But for some reason, I can not take a picture. It is driving me crazy. I really want to be able to take a good picture. Whenever I am with friends and they try to take a picture..they go, "I just don't understand..how can you be so pretty in real life and look so bad in a picture?" It is driving me crazy. Does anybody else have this problem? Is there a way to overcome this? Thanks so much!
14/f

try not to pose for pictures so much. make it seem natural.

and try black and white. i really think it brings out a persons natural beauty.

ok the other day my g/f and i were making out and i dont know what got into me but i stuck my hand down her pants and she didnt like it. she was ok that i put it down there but not too far and one time i think i got a little too far cuz after that she seemed depressed. now i feel like a jerk. afterward she said she sortof liked it but im not sure. wut got into me and how can i make it up to her? by the way im 14.

go to her house, and bring her a rose and apoligive in PERSON. and then you need to tell her that you dont think shes fine and ask her what really wrong.

14/f here
For New Year's Eve, my family is throwing a party. My job is to entertain the kids and teens. Here are the age/gender of the kids and teens:
14/f (friend of mine)
14/m (friend of mine)
13/f (neighbor)
8/m (neighbor)
4/f (neighbor)
11/f (friend's little sister)
POSSIBLY 15/m (ex boyfriend of mine)

What things can I do to keep everyone occupied?!

disney's scene it. its a miracle.

what is a good hair dye that is cheap and last up about 5 to6 weeks...thanx

Leoreal color pulse. its in an orange package. it lasts up to 3 weeks, and the color comes out good. i just did my a week ago and i love it.

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