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[ Me ] ♥ I'm Rasi. :]I love giving advice & I think I'm pretty good at it. I can get along with almost anyone unless they piss me off. I adore Hollister, it's my favorite store ever. I'm not a girly girl but I'm not a tomboy either. I don't wear any make-up at all, I don't like it. I hate it when girls wear way too much of it, it's.. ew. I'm a pretty big goofball & I love making people laugh. I'm not very mature, either. Love me or hate me, I'll still be me & I won't change for anyone.
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I was with my boyfriend for a few months and every day I found myself more and more in love with him.
Well, out of the blue, the other day he dumps me. He tells me that his feelings have changed. He tells me he has been feeling this way for a while. And yet I just don't understand why he's doing this. He goes on about how I'm an amazing girlfriend and an amazing person and that "It's not you it's me". He always said that he wanted a nice girl, one that would be there for him and care about him. Well, here I am right infront of him and he lets me go.
I gave him the world on a silver platter.. and this is what I get in return.
I need to know, from a guys point of view why he's doing this. Hell, girls you can answer it too.
Also, what can I do to make myself happier? I haven't been happy in a long long time... =/
I'm sooo sorry. :[ That's the worst thing ever. It's possible that his feelings changed because he might have met another girl. I'm sure he really didn't mean to hurt you, it's not his fault his feelings just changed, you probably didn't do anything wrong at all if he said so. It's kinda hard to make yourself happier when you just got dumped by someone you really loved. When that happened to me, I hung out with my girl friends a lot because they always cheered me up. We would go shopping, watch movies, have sleepovers, stuff like that & it helped a lot. Hope you feel a lot better soon!
well recently i asked sum gal out and she sed yes but the problem is she is 1 yr younger and im gettin teased bout it should i break up with her or just take it i like her alot
and her best frend is my cuzin
plz help
i rate 5
Stay with her. If you really like her, you wouldn't listen to what other people have to say about her. At high school, a lot of the guys date the lower classmen. Your friends are probably just jealous of you.
are "hardcore" and hardXcore" the same thing? or does "hardXcore" mean you're NOT hardcore. i'm really confused! please help.
It's the same thing except of spelling hardXcore, most people just put hXc & when you translate it, it's hardcore.
Hey, im 13 (female). Yeah so...ive never kissed anyone before, so i dont know what to expect for my first. Is it common to have a french kiss as a first kiss or...just a peck??? Please give a very detailed response. Im totally clueless.
My first kiss was just a peck then later on in the relationship, like a few weeks later, it'd be french kissing. Almost everyone I know had just a peck for their first kiss because french kissing is a little too much for the first time. It could make you come off like a slut. Don't think over this a lot though, you'll do fine.
heres a simple question, am i weird? i am 13 and i like old songs like by the 4 seasons and i have them on my ipod and stuff. and also ALOT of other oldies or old songs. not just oldies, like stuff from 80's and 70's. and i loved the jersey boys musical. i dont think of myself as a geek. i also love new songs but i love old songs just as much, am i a little.. odd?
No, it's not weird at all. I still listen to *NSYNC, Spice Girls, & those bands from the 90's & I don't care who knows it. My friends don't care & people don't judge me by what kind of music I listen to.
Okay well first of all I am 14/f and I have never had a boyfried. I have never even kissed a guy before. Well my question is why? I mean I'm not the prettiest but I have a great personality and I am fun to be around. Do guys only go for looks? What are some things that attract guys or what should I change to get a boyfriend?
There's nothing wrong with you if that's what you're thinking. Not all guys go for looks but a couple of them do. It's the same thing with girls, too. Don't change yourself to get a boyfriend. Just be yourself & act a little bit more flirty.
i just graduated and im very worried about my old friends because im going
to high school next year and im scared that i not gonna see my old friends anymore..='( how do we keep in touch with ur old friendsand stay close to them? is it possible that if am lucky u get same class with my old friend?
Aw, don't be scared about not seeing them. You'll more then likely have classes with a few of them or you'll see them in the halls. I usually keep in touch with my old friends by calling them or talking to them on the internet then we usually go && hang out somewhere. A lot of my old friends go to a different school && that's how we keep in contact with each other && it's been that way for years.
Mike was one of my best guy friends. Our relationship together was going really good,and nothing was akward. I know that he used to have the hotts for me but i never felt the same way. Well as time went on i started to like the guy, and made the mistake of telling him. When he found out everything between us became akward. Now he has a girl friend and we havent talked in about two months!! Ok im going crazy! What the heck did i do wrong! or what can i do to make things normal between us again?
You didn't do anything wrong. I told one of my best guy friends that I liked at the time that I liked him & he was weird about it, too. After I got a boyfriend, he acted normal towards me again. I asked him why he acted that way & he said he didn't like me like that & he wanted to go out with this other girl & it wouldn't be fair to me. Your friend, Mike, is probably acting weird because he doesn't like you like that anymore & he probably thinks you still like him. Just tell him you don't like him like that anymore & you guys want to be friends again. Good luck!
I have been struggeling with mild acne for about two years. I have tried many different face creams, including pro active. And none of them work! About three days ago i went to a dirmotalogist and they put me on medician and they gave me face treatments. Does anyone know if the stuff you get will really work? And how long will it even take? Or is it even worth going through all the facial treatments and medican? Any Advice!
My friend got prescribed for medicine for his acne because it was really bad & it worked really good for him. All his acne is gone now & there are like no signs of it coming back. It didn't take him very long to get rid of, maybe like a month or less. The only side effect he had from his medicine was he had dry lips. Besides that, I think trying the medicine is worth it.
what does that mean i see it everywhere.
also what is a feind?
sorry if these are dumb questions, but ill rate high.
sXe means straight edge. All it means is you don't drink or do drugs. There are two definitons for fiend. One is a demon & the other is someone who's addicted to something.
My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 wonderful months. he is the best, and i cant even describe him. though the other day, he talked to me about engagement, which i am quite excited for. though me and him would have to keep it on the downlow for i am going to be 16 and he will be 18. he isnt going to ask for awhile yet(falltime or beyond that time, hes thinking), he just brought it up because he wanted to see how i felt about it. i actually feel wonderful about it and i feel very ready. i love this man with all my heart and have never felt this way about someone before. i dont have much of a family, but him and his family makes up for it. im not reallt needing advice, cause i know id say yes in a heartbeat, but am i crazy for being excited at 16 y/o and i know it will be easy to hide from my parents because i hide everything from them, but is this a ridculous decision?!? thanks alot
No, you're not crazy at all! I'm in the same situation. My boyfriend & I are both 16. I love him with all my heart & I really think he's the one. I've been with him for a year today & he wants me to marry me & I feel the same way about him. Congratulations & good luck!
kayy...
i babysit a BUNCH OF KIDS!and i love to be around kids! they are soo cute and aborable! how do i ask to get paid without sounding like the only reason i babysat the kids was for the money?
thank youu!!!
Tell the parents or guardians of the kids that you really love being around little kids & you love watching them but you were just wondering if you could get paid a little because you'd probably want to do other things like go to a movie or a place that costs money with your friends, boyfriend, family, or whoever, & when you go out, you have money to pay for things. ♥ ♥
awww......
ok.
i had a dog named Lily. She was a collie. she was my best friend and someone to talk to whenever i needed it. me and my family loved her-she was a spoiled little dog.*
she lived to be 12 years old then died of this problem she had inside her stomach-(or sumthin like that). we all buried her in our backyard and i am really sad that she died.She was as close to me as a family member! my friends all think that iam going a little too far with all of this. they think i am over-reacting and trying to get attention-BUT I REALLY AM NOT! i am really sad and my friends are the only people(besides my family) that i can talk to!
what should i do to convinve my friends that i REALLY am not faking all of this crying about my dog dying?
thankx!
Whoa.. my dog died from something that happened to her stomach & we buried her in our backyard & everything. I was really sad like you are, too, because I loved my dog more than anything. She was like my sister. My friends tried helping me right after my dog died. I told them why it really made me sad & they helped me. I told them I grew up with my dog & that was the only pet I've ever had. You could tell your friends you've had your dog for a long while & she became really close to you. Hopefully, they'll understand. If they don't, then they must not care about their pets. You're not over-reacting at all. I hope you feel a lot better soon. ♥ ♥
summer is here and i live in a really small town.my friends always want to hang out, but theres only so much we can do on a limited budget. what are some fun, creative things we could do?
I love summer. My friends & I always go to the mall, movies, the park, go to someone's house & walk around the neighborhood & talk or we walk to an ice cream shop, a fast food place, or a store. Going to concerts, carnivals, & the zoo is pretty fun, too.
Alright. Well I was involved with this guy, we'll call him B, and me and B were together about 3 months and I was madly in love with him. I ended up lieing to him.. alot.. in the beginning of the relationship. And I slowly started confessing. The last time I confessed the last lie to him he took a tantrum fit and called me a liar. He broke up with me. He said he'd never take me back. Now he's sending me texts from his phone saying he loves me. Now. I'm with a guy.. moving on from B.. we'll call him T. He was my first ever love, and we decided to get back together after me and B broke up. T doesn't know about B and his text messages.. but everytime I talk to B, it makes me want to get back with him and leave T.. I don't wanna hurt T, however.. and I love them both so much. And B keeps saying he loves me yet he doesn't think we'd work out. I don't know what to do because I love T so much until B starts sending text messages and calling me.. then it makes me forget ALL about T and want B back. Then once B goes poof, I want T back. If your not confused.. try to give me some advice on what I should do. I can't just stop talking to B, and I can't just break up with T.
I think you should stick with T. You can still keep in contact with B but just don't talk to him that much. Talk to him like maybe a few times a week or less, that way you can slowly get over him. If B doesn't think it'll work out with you, then he shouldn't be tellin you that he loves you & give you mixed signals. That's probably why you don't know who to choose. Just ignore those text messages from B & talk about something else.
What does it mean when your lesbian doesn't put you in her "About" section? Does it mean she loves the boy she included in there more?
No, sillyhead she still love you a lotttt maybe even more. ;] ♥ ♥
okay so i have longish dark brown hair, dark brown eyes, and an ovalish shaped face. i was thinking about getting side bangs when i get another hair cut but i don't know if they would look good on me. if you could tell me what shape faces, what hair colors, and what eye colors, side bangs generally look good on it would be really helpful for me to figure out if they would look good on me. I rate 5's. Thanks in advance!
Haha! I have dark brown hair, dark brown eyes, & an ovalish shaped face! I have a side bang, too. Everyone says I look really good with it. If you get it, I think it'd look really nice on you. Don't change your hair color, the hair stylist I went to said brown hair is going in style right now plus dark brown hair goes really good with dark brown eyes.
I know my boyfriend REALLY likes me. To him, I am his number one priority and I even think he is ditching his friends so he can have more time with me.
Now, he is a pretty nice guy but he always wants me to kiss him or makeout with him. He's 14 and I know that at that age, boys hormones are racing! I can't blame him for wanting to because I know everyone feels that way sometimes.
But I'm not sure I'm ready for making out, especially in school. I don't think he is either. We both just got our first ever kisses this year. He is so nervous around me at school so he tells me to take the lead when kissing him. But I don't want to be the lead! I can't handle all of this responsibility because if I mess up, I'll feel stupid!
What should I do? Should I talk to him about this? What if he breaks up with me?
Talk to him about it. If you don't want to be the lead because you feel stupid then tell him. I really doubt he would break up with you for that, I don't know why he would. If he does, then that's the dumbest thing ever, but don't worry, I don't think he will. If you don't want to make out with him in school, tell him you don't want to because you aren't ready, he should understand. You guys can give each other a few kisses in school if you want but I think making out in school is a little too far.
Heyy. There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He's not in any of my classes, i only see him in the hallway. Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. Honestly, I have no idea if he likes me or not. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥
Just go up to him & introduce yourself than ask him what his name is. Ask him if he'd like to hang out after school one day like at the mall or movies or you could ask him what his hobbies are, what's his favorite band, etc. Make sure you get his phone number or his screen name so you can talk to him more. ♥ ♥
There is this girl that i realy like. I got her phone number. I am going to call her and ask her out to the movies or somthing.
What should i say to her when i call her? My mind is blank of all ideas right now. I want to let her know her how i feel without being too deep and emotional. Also, is there any way i can ask her out besides saying "Hey, wanna go out?" I am 13 and she is almost 14.
Thanks for your help.
Ask her what she's doing over the weekend. If there's anyday she's available, ask her to go to the movies with you on that day. Than ask her what movie she'd like to see. Talk about some casual stuff like school, family, friends, or you could still keep talking about the movies. Afterwards, tell her you've liked her for a while & that she's nice, fun, beautiful, whatever. Then just ask her.. "Will you go out with me?"