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He wants more
I know my boyfriend REALLY likes me. To him, I am his number one priority and I even think he is ditching his friends so he can have more time with me.
Now, he is a pretty nice guy but he always wants me to kiss him or makeout with him. He's 14 and I know that at that age, boys hormones are racing! I can't blame him for wanting to because I know everyone feels that way sometimes.
But I'm not sure I'm ready for making out, especially in school. I don't think he is either. We both just got our first ever kisses this year. He is so nervous around me at school so he tells me to take the lead when kissing him. But I don't want to be the lead! I can't handle all of this responsibility because if I mess up, I'll feel stupid!
What should I do? Should I talk to him about this? What if he breaks up with me?
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You should deffintly tell him. If he really does love you, he'll wait. Good luck with everything =]
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well,if your not ready than tell him, you are the one in charge. if he breaks up with you than thats his fault, he will probaly understand he might just act that way because he thinks thats how you want him to act.
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Well when a guy is always wanting to make out then you need to set him straight and make sure that he knows that relationships arent just about physical, that you need to feel it before you do it. You should wait to go any farther and make sure that you are on the same page. Then before you do anything like making out you should feel it. And you really cant mess up because he isnt experienced either so no matter what you do he will think is the right way to do something. And when you are ready to kiss it will just happen! Dont force anything always wait for the right time!
hope i have helped
kate♥
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hmm. for some reason all of my boyfriends have been older then me. sence they were older then me they wood always take the lead in this kid of things. they wood decide everything. haha i want your boyfriend. lol. you no u wanna make out. its fun. if you dont know how leave me a message. i think he loves you HE PROBLY WONT BREAK UP
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definetly dont let him rush you into doing something youre not ready to do. you should talk to him about it if you ever want to feel comfortable kissing him in public or private. just let him know that you wanna take things slow because you think its better for both of you. he should be ok with it if hes nervous about it too. if he breaks up with you over that (i highly doubt it) hes a jerk and doesnt deserve a girlfriend. as far as kissing in school..you dont have to. but if you want to you should do it in private a lot first so youre comfortable. and when you do go for the kiss just clear your mind. let it happen because if you think about it too much youll get nervous and freak out. be calm :-)
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Talk to him about it. If you don't want to be the lead because you feel stupid then tell him. I really doubt he would break up with you for that, I don't know why he would. If he does, then that's the dumbest thing ever, but don't worry, I don't think he will. If you don't want to make out with him in school, tell him you don't want to because you aren't ready, he should understand. You guys can give each other a few kisses in school if you want but I think making out in school is a little too far.
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if he wants to like make out with you in school and you dont maybe you guys could meet half way.. like instead of totally making out just a peck on the lips.. and i dont think youll mess up with kissing.. just go with your instinks(sp?) and he shouldnt break up with you over something like that and if he does then he just wasnt worth it
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he won't break up with you for it & if he does then he's stupid because that's a really dumb reason. explain to him that you want to makeout with him er w/e but explain how you guys should start privately. it really is a private thing & a lot of people at school don't like seeing that haha =) juss tell him that you want to start off slow aka in private then work your way to public, especially in school. you juss wanna get the hang of things ya know?? that's not saying you're not moving forward. you're juss not racing to it if that makes sense. juss talk to him about it & let you know how he feels. he might even feel the same way & express how you want to work on it with him.
-hope that helped!♥
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