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old friends?
i just graduated and im very worried about my old friends because im going
to high school next year and im scared that i not gonna see my old friends anymore..='( how do we keep in touch with ur old friendsand stay close to them? is it possible that if am lucky u get same class with my old friend?
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what you talkin bout theyre your friends and ofcourse your gonna see them call them and go out with them and dont let you graduating get in the way of you guys being freinds and besides youll still talk to them AND make new freinds
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High school is not like middle school it has 2 teams and most likely you will b in 1 of your friends class or more and you can talk 2 them on myspace get there phone # or write to them.
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Awww you will see your oldfriends, you'll see them in the halls, and you might have classes with them , or lunch periods!
Highschool really isnt a big deal, you meet new people, and make new friends, you gain some friends and you lose some friends, thats how it works, and by sophmore year you should know who your real friends are. :) And I wouldnt worry about losing your old friends! Highschool isnt as hyped up as everyone says, its actually really fun, and you get to see your friends everyday, just like in middle school :)
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Don't worry about it. It is very possible that you will get a few classes with your old friends. That's what I was worried about when I first entered High School [now i'm in 11th grade].. I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to see my friends anymore, that we would grow apart. We didn't, though. If anything, we became closer [well, a few of us did]. I had atleast one friend in every class.. & I would see the rest of them in the halls or at lunch. You even get to make new friends [which is good, very good, just don't get caught up with the wrong crowd].
Nikki.
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I just graduated from middle school too, and about half of my grade is leaving. (I go to private school, and lots of kids are going to public or other schools.) Everybody feels lost and lonely, whether they're staying at their current school or leaving. It's the little things that count when it comes to this. Make a list of when your friends' new schools start, and call or e-mail them after the first day. If it went horribly, you'll be there to cheer them up, and if it went well, they'll have somebody to talk to who actually cares. (They can't obsess about their day to someone they just met, can they?) Make sure you have accurate contact information for everybody-buy an address book, and keep everyone's phone numbers, emails, and screennames. Even if you have them memorized now, put them all in one spot, because you don't know who you'll lose contact with. Before school starts in the fall, have a reunion party. Invite your entire middle school grade if it's not huge (I have 73 kids,) or just your friends. Mark your calendar every time you talk to someone, even if it's just a 5-minute IM. Make sure to reach everybody once a month or so, just to check in. It sounds stupid, but in the long run this stuff will make a huge difference. Hope I helped-good luck
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When I graduated from junior high to highschool, it was frightening. And what you fear CAN come true. But, in place of old friends that you lose in touch with come new friends and so on. Some people may fall away and new may fall in. It's just how highschool goes for most of the time. If you and your friends want to keep in touch you could always join some sort of club that you know would be together, or join a same sports team.
All I'm trying to say is that with highschool comes a lot of changes, or at least it did for me. Some friends find their own new clique and you find your own, if someone is a real and true best friend they'll find a way to stay with you, same classes or not.
-sarah-
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Hey there! I know what you mean about not being able to see your friends when you enter high school... But regardless of if you are in the same class, you'll always be friends =). In my freshman year, for instance, I had some friends which were not in my everyday classes, but we still continued to hang out on an everyday basis. High school may seem crazy at first, and may cause changes to arrive because you are maturing and growing, but you don't have to worry. =D Friendships can stand the changes and progress of time, if sturdy and true.
<33, normie
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Aw, don't be scared about not seeing them. You'll more then likely have classes with a few of them or you'll see them in the halls. I usually keep in touch with my old friends by calling them or talking to them on the internet then we usually go && hang out somewhere. A lot of my old friends go to a different school && that's how we keep in contact with each other && it's been that way for years.
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Your sure to have some classes with your friends. You will see them at lunch and in the halls between classes. It won't be so bad. :)
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