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confused..
All the popular girls in my school (yeah this is kinda mean but its true lol) they're all pretty ugly. yeahh some of them are pretty at times, they have nice clothes. but they're not like extremely gorgeous. some of them are even a little overweight. (not a lot, just like kinda chubby) even so, the boys are always all over them. and i really don't understand why. yeah, they're outgoing and flirty.. but still. i know i'm not the prettiest girl out there, but i'm not bad. i have nice clothes.. but the boys in my school hardly even notice me. the only thing is, is that i'm REALLY shy. but around my friends, family, and people i've known for a long time, i'm really talkative and outgoing. the people in my school don't seem to realize that however. so i'm known as some girl who never talks practically. and it pisses me off because i know i do talk, they just don't know anything about me. but like, the boy i like is popular, and is always flirting with and around those girls.. what they see in them, i don't know.. how can i get boys to notice me.. especially since i'm going to high school in september and there's gonna be new people. i've never had a real boyfriend before either =[ 14/f thnx.
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well the "popular girls" in school prolly are outgoing, & have a good personatly thats why people like to be around them.. so if you like this boy the most important thing is be yourself, and be flirty.. :o)
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This is the same problem i have in my school. ok this is going to be longg but please read it bc i know exactly what to help you with. Ok last year i was very, very popular. and then me and my friends got into a BIGGG fight.(i wont get into that part) but anyways, now im not as popular as i was before. girls can be mean and just listen to your heart and be a true friend and dont let the "popular" girls get in your way. i have learned that the hard way. as long as you got your real friends, then thats all you need. and for the guy that you like, maybe start talking to him more and not be as shy around other people. i know that it is hard because after me and my friends had got into that fight, i have a very low-selfestem. and its just because they make it that way. so just try to open yourself up around people. and remember to keep your old friends because they are the friends you will have FOREVERR!!
Well, good luck=)
-Steff*
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ok first of all
FUCK POPULAR ppl there is no such thing is popular people
what i do and things you could do:
Act silly
Dont give a shit what people think of me
I flirt with guys
i talk all the time
im very random/wild
act yourself
have fun
tease guys its VERY FUN
who cares what people say/think
Act like your shit dont stink
hah
hope that helped
&hearts <3 Liz
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Hi, boys can be funny creatures can't they? If you want to increase your chance of having a boyfriend then use these tips:
1. Start more conversations
2. Flirt, show signs that your interested
3. Look good but most of all FEEL GOOD about yourself (boys like girls who are positive and feel good about themselves)
4. Give body language, smile alot use eye contact, flirt and give a guy a little wink
5. Create the opportunity
Heres 3 tips when talking to a guy:
1. Compliments
2. Small talk
3. Questions
See how it goes, but you must create the opportunity, get back to me if you like on my column. Daniel.
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I'm seventeen and I've never had a boyfriend before so don't sweat it.
You said it though... they're outgoing and flirty. Guys DO like personality, not just looks. The prettiest girl can be such a bitch and they'll think she's hott but most likely they won't talk with her as much as they talk to the friendly girls. I'm kind of like that. I've DEFINATELY have had my moments where I feel ugly, no good, whatever. But for half or even the majority of the time, I know I'm not the ugliest girl out there. But I have a hard time just randomly talking to new people, especially if its one on one. I can be totally outgoing in front of someone new if I have a friend there, but when its just me and someone I don't really know, I can be quiet (( which ALWAYS results in them thinking I'm a bitch or stuck up @ first )).
So you should do what I do--I'm definately working on that quality. I try to ask more questions and make conversation with people I don't really know. Try to talk about what ever is around you guys. If you're in a classroom, talk about what grade they got on the paper the teacher just passed back. Or what they did during their weekend. If they tell you, ask questions. "Was that fun?" "Omg, I'm jealous! I've never done that before, was it fun?" stuff like that. Its hard at first but you just have to work on it.
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don't worry about not having a boyfriend before, 14 is still a young age and you'll have plenty of time to find a boyfriend. but to get more attention from guys try to become more confident in yourself. guys like girls with confidence. so don't be heard complaining about your hair or your weight or anything, that can annoy guys. try raising your hand more in class and volunteering more. you don't neccisaraly need to be more outgoing (even though that might help), you just need to be more confident in yourself.
hope this helps =]
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