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Hey everybody ! I'm Callie. I'm from St. Louis Missouri.. yes yes SoCo,Mo. I'm 16. sophomore at MHS. 2010 bitchesss. I'm involed in a whole bunch of shit at school .. I'm class president for the 2nd year and a StuCo officer. StuCo is more than a club, it`s a passion. I`m in Paws & Peace, STL, yearbook, A+ tutoring, Sophomore Executive, cheerleading. I`m an over achiever and I love it.




I LOvE to give advice; if you ask me a question you will get an answer. If you ask a dumb question, you will get a dumb answer. Easy as that. You can ask me about anything; I know what I should for my age, maybe more. I've been through alot.. maybe not all personally but I've seen alot of shit happen with my friends and just people around school. I'll help as best as I can. Any question you ask I will answer it as best that I possibly can.. even if it's just and honest answer of " I don't know. "



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Im 15.I have 2 crushes. 2 huge crushes. Im really confused. I like this girl. I really like her. But I have feeling for this guy to. I dont know. I've dated the girl before. I was at one point best friends with the guy. I dont know which to choose. I dont know if im gay or if im straight. I dont even know. I know that the girl likes me. I know that the guy is gay. Im so confused. Dose anyone know should I choose the girl or the guy? I need advice.

you didnt really give too much information on the crushes. its okay to like both of them. youre either bi-sexual or really confused right now. think of who you would want to fool around with more or who you enjoy being with or who you think you can have a relationship with that will last!

XO KALIE

ohh and btw you didnt say so im guessing that your a guy!

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A little girl was walking in the winter and saw a frozen snake by the side of the road. She took pity on it, and put it in her pocket to warm it up. After a while, the snake warmed up, and bit her in the leg. She said, "Hey, I took care of you, what did you bite me for?" And the snake said, "Well, you knew I was a snake when you picked me up, didn’t you?"

What is the moral of this story? I'm just curious.

i dont know what "moral" means but ill help as best as i can.. the story says that just because you think someone is harmless, you dont always know what they are really like. it takes a long time to gain trust. and you cant expect everyone to be nice and kind.

XO KALIE

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This is very long, sorry. I'm just trying to provide enough information for you guys to get enough info.
So this guy used to like me four years ago (he was a popular guy) and I hated him because he was a jerk. He stopped liking me, I think. A year later, I started to like him even though everyone else still thinks he’s an ass. I just think he’s secretly very sweet. Anyway, this year he became kind of famous. Throughout these four years, we keep staring at each other all the time. It’s very odd. But none of us made a move till now.
Elaine and I are in yearbook (she is pretty popular too). We had to interview him because he won the “most likely to be rich and famous” thing.
So we see his teacher and we ask her if we can interview him. She went inside and told him there were some ladies there to see him. He watched me approach him with surprise.
I walked inside the room and said hi.
Then he leaned back and said the first thing he's said to me in about four years,
"What's up?"
I told him he won the award and I wanted him to come do a question thingie. So he got up and came with me.
We were walking down the hallway and I said "You won the rich and famous thing... which I don't understand because you're rich and famous already." He paused and did this modest agreeing shrug thing like meaning, Yeah well, what can I say?. which is odd because you’d think he’d be cocky as usual.
So we took two pictures of him. I asked him if he wanted to do it later and he said he didn't care. Then I asked Jake why he thought he won this award, he said it was probably because everyone knows him or something. He couldn’t think if anything else so I told him we'd do it tomorrow. I asked him if he'd be in school tomorrow (he skips a lot) and he shrugged. We started walking down the hall again and he went left into his classroom hall.
A few minutes later, we were walking and these friends of Jake’s showed up and talked to Elaine. Then I saw a friend of mine in front of us coming towards us and right behind her was Jake at the soda pop machine. He got his drink and started walking towards us too.
Jake’s friends sat on the ledge. Carey and I started discussing the yearbook and the guys decided to get a picture taken. So Jake asked what the picture was for and we all said the memories page. He said he wasn't going to do it because he wasn't going to be in the yearbook twice in the same outfit. He got off the ledge and folded his arms across his chest and then looked at me. After the pics were done, Jake sat on the ledge again when it looked like everyone was going to leave. So they moved away so he had to get up and go with them. After they left, Elaine and I were walking down the hall again and Elaine said Jake was nice when he was alone but he was a dick when he was with his friends. The next day, I was walking down the hall during that block. Jake was walking towards his classroom with a pop can in his hand and I guess I prolonged eye contact because he put his hand on the door handle and waited. I asked him if he had though of anything and he responded with the likes of "I don't know" or "Not yet" or something and did this little continuous awkward shrug thing. I sad "Ok, we'll do it later."
So is he interested? What do you think.
Thank you SOOO much. I just need some kind of confirmation because I've like him for so long. I'll give you 5's.

wow! umm... you said that he liked you before so yeahh maybe he does still like you... who knows!?! but then again it was 4 years ago. but if he does like you then he could show it a little better instead of just shrugging. next time you talk to him or see him, flirt. see what he does about it. just saying what i think!

XO KALIE

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wellllllllll..... i moved here last year, and everybody hated me, they didnt want a new kid, the girl who is now my best friend was the only one who gave me a chance, but the problem is, she is really popular and her friends hate me, and she has had to choose who to stay whith when she is with me because they just bug her about it, i feel reallly bad, What do i do

why wouldnt they like you? i mean it sound like they didnt give you a chance. talk to your best friend now and see why they dont like you.

XO KALIE

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ok umm i dont relly kno how 2 ask this but .. here itgoes .. im 14yrs old and a guy me and my girlfriend have been goin out for 8 months. we have gone pretty far but making out is as much as we have done .. i was just wondering if its ok if we took it further? .. like fingering ..? we have both talked and stuff but im not sure if were ready yet. PLEASE HELP. all im asking for is someone elses opinon.

you said that youve gone pretty far but then you said youve just made out. i dont understand... but anyways... if you guys have gone out for that long and you have talked about it then i guess it would be okay. what did she say when you talked about this? did she seem like she wanted you to? but dont force her into doing something that she doesnt want to do and dont make it something where your gonna be having wild sex in every part of eachothers house by this time next year. what im saying is dont rush things. at all. but truthfully, im not the person you should be asking this question.. your girlfriend is. but i understand what your going through, me and my boyfriend talk about rushing things or going to the next level all the time. just talk to your girlfriend.

XO KALIE

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im confused about what to do with my ex cody, its like i get the hot and cold responses from him, so to speak. sometimes he's extrememly nice and we flirt and get along GREAT and others he seems completely shy and doesnt talk to me.

i have liked him since august (it now being january) and in august when i told him that he said he liked me too. so he kind of dragged his feet .. not sure what he wanted .. didnt know waht to do . the usual guy thing. and when i'd finally given up hope on him and me he left me a message at midnight on october 10th like three months later sayin he wanted to give us a try. only to dump me 10 days late b/c he he liked someone else .. then he told me a couple weeks later that he wouldn't have dumped me for her if she hadn't had a boyfriend ..

so that was like november .. now its january and the guy is still all i think of. i try so hard to get over him .. but like around every other corner hes either makin me fall for him again or his friends are being COMPLTELY honest and telling me stuff he says.

like shawn told me that they talk about me all the time (he wouldnt say what but he said the stuff worked in my favor) and that in our study hall (me him and cody have it together) he cant wait for me to come out and talk to them .. and i asked him to stop jokin around w/ me and he went off sayin how honest and truthful he was being ..

then new years cody called. he came and got me on his snowmobile. me and his brother and friend hung out from 9 to 3. we hung out. watched fireworks in the barn by ourselves. hung out around the bon fire. laughed constantly and flirted. i thought it went great .. i had like good hopes you know .. we fell asleep on the couch then they brought me home. he said he'd call. yeah a week and half later .. no call. we talk at school . nothing big hey and how are u kinda stuff ..

i know its probably worthless to waste my time .. and you can be completley honest in tellin me so. but like even though my head knows that .. i cant let go .. 5 months later .. jesus look at me .. in so far i cant even get out .. i've never fallen for anyone like i've fallen for cody. he tells me he can see us dating in the future but doesnt do anything about it .. i just dont know what he wants .. its like this i guess to explain it well ..
It's like a routine.
I fall for him on Monday.
I like him from Tuesday to Thursday.
He make me mad on Friday.
I think I'm over him over the weekend.
But the SECOND I see him on Monday morning
I fall for him again and again
i just dont know what to do ..

so now that i've finished my freakin book .. im sorry its soo long. i just want all the details in it .. sorry sorry sorry.
alyssa05x@aol.com .. if you need more info or something doens't make sense.
i really appreciate it and im sorry about the length .. thanks in advance

yes long story but thank you for all the details.. it makes giving my answer easier! well you said that you talk to shawn and his other friends and they say that he talks about you and stuff, well next time you talk to them ask them whats going on with him and why hes dragging his feet. if you know that he likes you then maybe he thinks that since he hurt you before, hes either (1) scared hes gonna do it again (2) thinks you deserve better (3) thinks you dont want to be with him again. i think you should ask him if he still has feelings for you. and if he does, then ask him why he doesnt say something to you about it. let him know that his friends tell you stuff and you can tell that he flirts -like on new years- and that if he really likes you then to do something about it because you like him too and each day that he waits makes you hurt really bad... he might just be shy like you said around people, but he might not know how or when to ask you. if you find out for positive that he likes you and wants to go out with you and just doesnt have the courage to ask you, you should ask him. its not that big of a deal. tell me what happens and if you need anything else or dont understand my question, IM me... DA x3 OF UR LYFE ...mk!

XO KALIE

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This isn`t meant to offend you, but I thought it might be helpful:
Some of your facts aren`t correct. Maybe next time you give someone advice, give them correct advice! Learn proper grammar too!
Okay, Thanks!

im just 14! gimmie a break! you shouldnt expect me to be some encyclopedia or something! i said that i would help as best as i could! sorry if my opinion is incorrect!

XO KALIE

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hi lately i have been so stressed. I'll start with my boyfriend. Ok well i never see him maybe every 2 weeks i see him if im lucky twice. He flirts with other girls and admitts it to me. Hes constantly wanting to do sexual stuff. Then there is my friend who im trying to keep her away from her ex boyfriend beacsue hes a bad influence. and i get headaches alot. im soo stressed and i dont know how to get rid of all this. its really hard please help and soon!
--jess

try taking naps during the day. bubble baths. see a movie with your family. scream as loud as you can into a pillow. sometimes when you get soooo stressed, like right then, go wash your face with hot water; it so soothing!! just dont do anything stupid as to hurt yourself!! you will regret it. and i know that you care for your friend but theres only so much that you can to to keep her away from the guy. dont make it your problem.

XO KALIE

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I have a very big fear of the dark. The thing is Its not beacuse of just a little thing like scary movies or stuff like that. I had a really bad expierence in the dark at a hospital after one of my heart surgerys. I can't go anywhere without a light on or someone close by. Its kinda silly i no but i need help. How do I slowly get over this stupid fear. Im a 15 yr old female. Im too old for this!

help pleae! I ALWAYS rate well!

everybody has stupid fears. everybody. and the dark is one of them. sometimes you just cant get over them! im scared of the dark too. i cant go out side after dark by myself. im also terrifyed of fish! they scare the crap out of me! dont worry about it and dont be embarrased about it either...

XO KALIE

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okay. like. i guess you could say im skinny. or normal. but in my opioionn im fat. i always pinch my stomech or w.e and its gross. i have thoughts about being annerexic or belimic. and i dont want to be annerexic cause like i love to eat. and if i could like perge or w.e i sware id be belmic in a heartbeat. and its like i cant stay on a diet im tempted too easily and i exsersize but i mean im sick of the fat on my stomech and i dont do any sports. what can i do. i know my thoughts arnt "healthy" and i want to change it. but the fat on my stomech has GOT TO GO.

keep excersizing. just make it a daily routine. like 15-45 minutes depending on if your going to run or do crunches or something else. same with dieting, limit your meals and snacks. you could try eating half of what you normally would. you could just eat healthier. some healthy yummy foods >>
juice
toast (wheat)
fruits
veggies
cottage cheese
milk (skim)
o0o0o --- subway!! eat fresh!!

XO KALIE

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hey! i,m 13 female and i want to say that i think my mom wishes she never had me because she often excludes me from stuff, she lies to me alone, she never spends time with me, and she told me herself that she cared about my brother and sister more and she told me that if i wasnt as smart as i am now that she wouldnt still be proud of me! i just want to know if i am just over looking things or does she really not like me? please help! 5's to good answers

i think that you are just takeing things out of perportion. her too. its your mom, she loves you no matter what anyone says. if she doesnt love you then she wouldnt have kept you when you were born. she loves you.

XO KALIE

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i like this dude but im scared to tell him. i wrote him a message but then i chickened out and said srry wrong jesse...anyways i go to church with him and we always set by each other...and i cant take it anymore ...pleze help

you have to tell him. dont be a chicken about it. you cant just sit there and just WONDER how he feels about you. tell him. give him the message thingy.

XO KALIE

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My friend is mad at me. The details don't really matter but my main problem is I think she's going to tell my social studies teacher that I didn't help with other project. That is not true but she can be a real bitch sometimes and it's not under her to do something like that. I helped her find most of the information and pick out different things for our project I just couldn't put it together. How can I keep her from telling my teacher that I didn't help? Oh I don't really care if she's mad at me because she's a bad friend anyway.

what shes doing is pretty immature and snichey! very childish! talk to your teacher before she does. tell your teacher "I did most of the work on the project and _____, being mad at me, might tell you other wise. im not lieing, ____ is. i dont want to get a bad grade on this project because of a stupid arguement and a lie."

XO KALIE

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Ive noticed that every one talks about something called AIM..what is it? and how do i get in on it?

AOL instant messanger. to get it go to aim.com and click download now. it lets you instant message chat and talk to your friends in seconds. it really comes in handy!!

XO KALIE

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This happened about a month ago, but it still bothers me. I was going out with this guy, we'll call him George. I didn't really like him that much, so I broke up with him after a month and a half. He acted like he was so heart broken, he even sent me a text saying "I'm trying to hard not to cry, I love you so much, I'm going to miss you." But later that day he asked out someone who I thought was my best-friend. I didn't find out about it until the next day when he starte rubbing it in my face saying "please don't be mad at me or her" and all this other shit. She tried to hide it from me because she didn't want any drama. I contronted her about it and this big argument erupted ending with her and I not being friends anymore.
To this day he still is staring at me as I pass him in the hall way and freaks out when he see's me outside of school.
She broke up with him 3 weeks later, and I honestly think she was just going out with him to get closer to her ex-boyfriend that just so happens to be his best friend.
It bothers me that someone I thought was my best friend just stabbed me in the back like that, not caring at all.
What should I do to make this stop bothering me?
Sorry if this is kinda confusing..

something like that isnt just going to vanish, its still gonna be a problem. if you dont want to be friends with her anymore then dont. if you want your friendship back then start talking to her again about how stupid you guys were for going out with him, and how stupid it was to lose a friendship over him!

XO KALIE

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There is a girl that i only think abt her i am in love with her how can i make her like me?

it would help if put your age. but anyways,, you cant make someone like you. you can do your best but there is no guarentee that she will like you. do something sweet for her like "stillstella" said-- compliment her! talk to her online or something, become friends. ask her if she wants to hang out on a weekend or something. tell her that you have feelings for her and see what she has to say about it.

XO KALIE

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I'm 15/f and my older sister is 17/f. She refuses to believe that I wear a bigger bra size than her. I don't think it's a big deal or anything becuase why would it be? Now she always talks about how I wear really padded bras. I hate padded bras and I've never owned one. I tell her that and then she goes into how I probably stuff. I don't know what her problem is. What should I do other than just ignore her? I can't ignore her because she talks about it infront of everyone!

tell her theyre ALLL real and shes jelous because your boobies are bigger then hers!! ahhhhahhh!

XO KALIE

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hello, i am a 12 year old turning 13 in february. i am in the 7th grade, and i dont know if im suposed to shave " down there " or not..am i suposed 2 or not?

because i was reading one of these advicentator things and it said you SHOULDNT because it gives you razor burn?? - and i dont know.

plz help =(
please and thank you

it all depends on if you want to. if you do then you cant get lazy about it. if you dont want to then dont its not that big of a deal...

XO KALIE

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What is the artist and name of the person that sings the song that goes:

"...i want to stand with you on a mountain, i want to bathe with you in the sea..."

and

"...have you ever loved someone so much it made you cry?..."

I think the second one is titled Have you Ever but I don't know who sings it can someone tell me please and thank you.

i googled it and i got..
1st song- truly madly deeply by savage garden
2nd song- theres alot of poems like that so go to google and look for it yourself, but add more words because thats not enough to get lyrics

XO KALIE

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I went on a blind date today and it didnt excactly turn out the way I wanted it to. Well for starters, I had agreed to meet him at a local coffee shop with the couple that set us up. He was late and when he did show up he didnt look too happy when he saw me for the first time. He didnt offer to buy me anything to drink or eat, and the whole time we ended up talking about his friends or his business. He didnt ask me any questions about me or my personal life or interests, which indicated that he wasnt too crazy about me. We all talked for about a half hour, and when the couple the introduced us had to leave, my date looked at his watch and said he had to go. He never offered me his number or asked for mine. He actually looked like he couldnt wait to get out of there. The other couple looked surprised and thought we would have stayed longer. My friend (the wife of the other couple) I think felt bad and invited me over to her place afterwards.
Is it just me, or was my blind date really rude? I don't understand what I did to make him act like this, the whole time I was polite and engaged him in conversation.
Any feedback will be appreciated. I rate high!

hes an asshole! you didnt do anything wrong. if he had given you his number do you think that you would have called him anyways after the way he treated you?!
are you the same person who asked advice about going on this date in the first place??!! mk!

XO KALIE

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