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my mom doesnt like me!
hey! i,m 13 female and i want to say that i think my mom wishes she never had me because she often excludes me from stuff, she lies to me alone, she never spends time with me, and she told me herself that she cared about my brother and sister more and she told me that if i wasnt as smart as i am now that she wouldnt still be proud of me! i just want to know if i am just over looking things or does she really not like me? please help! 5's to good answers
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wow! I don't think parent's know how much of an effect their word can do to pre teens. I'm thinking that she said this when she was mad. some people let there anger get the better of them to the point where they say such things. if those words are effecting you so much to the point where you really think she meant it, then you need to talk to her seriously I'm pretty sure she'll regret what she said and tell you she didn't mean it. but if not then talk to your dad about it, or even your siblings. they'll help you talk to your mom or they'll talk to her them selves.
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That is some pretty intense stuff and can do a real number on your emotions and I'm really sorry that has happened to you. I think you should talk to your mom, not when you are fighting or if she is in a bad mood or tired, but when its just a normal day. Tell her how you feel. I'm sure she regrets saying those things and talking about it will hopefully make things better and bridge that gap. If that doesn't seem to work or makes it worse, maybe you can speak to a school counselor who can help you and maybe coordinate a meeting with the two of you and get to the bottom of it. Good luck. I'm sure she didn't mean it. Keep me posted.
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i think that you are just takeing things out of perportion. her too. its your mom, she loves you no matter what anyone says. if she doesnt love you then she wouldnt have kept you when you were born. she loves you.
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I think that something is bothering her, whether its a problem from work, or something else...she has an issue and the way of her dealing with it is by lashing out at you. Instead of becoming her victim, try to get out of her way when she feels sad, stressed out, etc. She cant say anything if your not around. I learned in health class that if people are angry they usally yell at other people to somehow deal with what they have. But since it is your mom, I could understand how bad you feel. Maybe you should try to talk to her, have a real serious conversation with her, or if you feel too embarassed to have a conversation with her. Write her a letter. I know it sounds cheesy but its better because when having a conversation with her, she might start yelling at you and you wont even have the chance to finish what you were saying. But by writing her a letter, you can let everything out and she'll have to read it. I hope I helped, if you want to talk more I'm always here and you can IM me on aim @@ Ilinerobsession =)
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How about you talk to her about like say "mom im starting to think you dont care about me".
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