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ahh please help
hi lately i have been so stressed. I'll start with my boyfriend. Ok well i never see him maybe every 2 weeks i see him if im lucky twice. He flirts with other girls and admitts it to me. Hes constantly wanting to do sexual stuff. Then there is my friend who im trying to keep her away from her ex boyfriend beacsue hes a bad influence. and i get headaches alot. im soo stressed and i dont know how to get rid of all this. its really hard please help and soon!
--jess
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try taking naps during the day. bubble baths. see a movie with your family. scream as loud as you can into a pillow. sometimes when you get soooo stressed, like right then, go wash your face with hot water; it so soothing!! just dont do anything stupid as to hurt yourself!! you will regret it. and i know that you care for your friend but theres only so much that you can to to keep her away from the guy. dont make it your problem.
XO KALIE
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well if ya dont wanna do the stuff tell him and i know its hard but tell him if he wants the other girls and not you..then let him go..i know its nots so great for your part nut you need a guy who will be there for you...and help you relax....just tell the chick to wake up he is bad news and she needs better and if he still wont leave her alone yell at him..dont do violence cause that wont solve anything..but ya take a long walk bye yourself or take a long bath something nice and long to clear your mind..hope i have helped
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Okay, well first of all, worry about YOU first. Not your friend, you make your mistakes, she makes hers, you cant hold her hand forever ya kno. So just let her do her own thing if she wants, if she screws up, oh well, i know its hard to say, but its happend with me before to. Just let HER problem go. Now to your boyfriend thing, hun, let go... if its ment to be it'll come back to you, maybe a break is in your best intrest for now. Dont stress :)
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Dear Stressed,
I have the same problem. Not only do I worry about my problems; but I worry about everyone elses. You need to stop and just worry about yourself. Your friend can take care of herself. If she wants to get rid of her bad influence boyfriend, then she will. You cannot make her. She has to deal with her own issues. Doing all this will cut your stress in half. Now, your problems. Lets see, your boyfriend flirts and admits it, and constantly wants to do sexual acts with you. Lets put two and two together. Your boyfriend is not a winner. I recommend you losing this dud and finding a guy that respects you and how you feel. You can do a lot better, girl. Good luck and please stop stressing. Have fun!
♥ Miss Moo
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♥Alright you are in a pickle.
First off ... i no you probably don't want to hear this, but if your not happy with your bf then maybe its time to move on. I no you probably love him but you need to consider the way he treats you too.
Next ... As much as you care about your friend, her love life is her business. As hard as we all try she is the one who makes her decisions. Maybe you need to back off a little and let it run its course. I no nothing good will come out of that but your friend will find that out and relize you were only there to protect her.
Im sorry that this advice is kinda negative but its as truthful as there is. Its the only way to relieve stress... oh and a bubble back :o)
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