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I know someone who was a pimp for holloween, and I know a girl who went as a hooker. It's halloween, you can be whatever you want. I don't tink it's bad.

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I have auburn/light brown hair and I want to temporarily dye it. I've been told Kool-aid will work on blonde hair.. but will it work on darker hair? My natural color is almost black... so that might have an effect too....

What color of kool-aid should I use on my hair.... and will the kool-aid wash out...

my parents wont let me dye my hair permanently again... so I need something that will wash out in the next day or two....

Please help me!

I don't think that kool-aid will work for your hair. Red MIGHT work, so try that, but I'm not positive. There is other temporary hair dye sold in stores, there is one brand that has a lot of bright colors like green, blue, red, purple, and more.

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Ok, My names Mike and I was wondering, I'm a very random person and will do anything to get a laugh from anyone. So. I do alot of random stupid things just to get a luagh, but sometimes the things I do make people think I'm just a retard. So, I'm wondering if anyone thinks that people like me are funny and great to have aound? And what I mean by people like me is, people with no care of what people think and will is unhibited and will act wild and crazy just for kicks.

If it's the way you are, then it's cool. But it's not fun to hang around with someone who changes who they are and tries to hard to fit in and get other people to like them. It sounds like being random comes naturally to you, so if you like who you are, then keep it up.

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What is Down Syndrom and what does it make you act like because i think my friend has it!?

Down syndrome is something you are born with. It makes you slightly mentally retarded. People with down sydndrome usually have slanted eyes and stubby fingers. If your friend just has blonde moments once in a while or is forgetful, she probably doesn't have it. It isn't something that you can get, like a normal disease, you have to be born with it.

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ok my best(guy) friend just told me he liked me. i was gonna tell him that i kinda liked someone else but then he sed that. ive always kinda liked him tho. and now he wants to not go out but he wants to just hong out and know that we both like eachother. thats fine with me but im not sure if i like him. tomorrow we are going to the library and he wants to know if i like him or not. i told him that i would think about it and tell him tomorrow. im not sure wut to do cuz yea i kinda like him but i kinda like someone else to. and that someone else is his bestfriend. i dont want to say that i like him cuz i dont think that would be fair. but i dont want to say that i dont like him cuz thats not the truth. please help

moderators please please dont delete

i rate good!!!

I think you should give him a chance. Best guy friends usually end up making really good boyfriends, because you already feel comfortable with each other. It's a big change, so things may be awkward at first, but take it slow, and it will probably work out.

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Ok theres this grl that i dnt like at all we have gotten into soo many fights and she makes me feel like shit when we get into fights..((there over the stupidiest things too))No body really likes her caz of her bitchy attitude..:x i have alot of confidence so im sticking up fer myself i dnt need herr Sh*t! But she wants to be friends with me and again..should i become friends iwth her again or stand my groound? And if i stand my ground then how do i tell her to bak off and not call me ne more because if i dnt do it nice she will spread shit about me!! :`( Help me plss!!
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rate fives to who ever helps mee!

I don't think you should be friends with her. She may just be setting you up for something, like you'll tell her your secrets and then she will tell them to the whole school.

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ok i know this sounds stupid..but i don't know what a hetrosexual is! can some please tell me?

thx

A heterosexual is someone who loves the opposite sex, meaning a person who is straight.

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hey. i have REALLY short legs. &its really annoying. i know this sounds weird, but is there anyway to make them longer? i just hate having such short legs because i can't find pants! if you help me i'll rate you!

A lot of stores, like American Eagle, Weathervane, and many others, offer petite sizes made for short people. You can't really do anything to make your legs longer, but drinking lots of milk makes your bones grow, so that might help. Also, try getting some really high heels. They make you feel really tall.

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i recently saw my best friend (we'll call her A) and with my other best friend(B) like we are all best friends, and the other day B was showing me all the things that A gave to her for birthdays and halloween, and A didnt get me anything for her birthday, while i got her two very expencive pant that i had to return because they didnt fit! and i always give her(A)a ride to the mall and i even pay for stuf like i would spend 20$ on her when ever we go out because i buy her pop corn and everything! and then one day we went to the mall and we saw buy one get one free, and i took the one free and everyday she bugs me about it and says that its not fair! i realy don't want to be her friend but i don't know! i feel like she is the worst person i ever met! how can i tell her this!

You're right, she is a bad friend. She's just using you to get cash. Tell her she either has to get a job so she can buy her own popcorn, or she has to go without popcorn, because she can't sponge off you. Don't feel bad about it. Sometimes my friends ask me to borrow money, so I jokingingly say "buy your own damn candy!". They know I"m joking, but it gets the point across. My real friends don't get mad when I don't let them borrow money, and if this girl was a real friend, than she wouldn't get mad either.

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Hey i just got back from a vacation and i met this really great guy well anyways he was so cute and i never got his email or anything. i dont kno how to get over him any advice? should i try to find him with the info i kno or give up?

Assuming that you know what county he lives in and what his first and last name is, you should find a phone book for the county he lives in (you could probably find one by looking it up on google) and then you would have his phone number and address.

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I know there are a lot of questions asked about moderators.. sry if its getting annoying .. but how does you level increase, does it cost time, experience, question answering...

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To become a level mod one, I'm pretty sure it's an automatic thing. You have to have an average rating of above 4, have been here for 2 months, and have never been suspended. For level 2 mods, it's not automatic. You have to have been here for a long time, have answered a lot of questions, and give good answers. Right now all the spaces for level 2 mods are filled. Check the moderator FAQ in case I forgot something.

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I have been talkin to my best friends ex boyfriend a lot lately. and i think i like him. when we were talkin online he asked for my email address and eh emailed me a picture of himself. (hes cute too!) well when i was tlakin to my friend she was like "you don't liek him do you cuz that is a nono!" and i told ehr i didn't because i ddn twant her to get mead. but i really do like this kid any idea what i shoudl do??? I'll rate if your answer helps at all!!

If you haven't met him in person, I don't think that you can be sure that you like him. If you haven't hung out with him in real life, then how do you know how he really is? He might sound nice online, but if your friend doesn't think you should go out with him, then there must be something bad about him. If your friend just doesn't want you to go out with him because she isn't over him yet, then keep talking to him online, and when your friend is over him, go out with him. If your friend doesn't want you two to be together because he isn't nice, than arrange to meet him in person to see how he acts.

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Hi my name my name is jessica im 11 yrs old and im going out wit this boy that i think likes me but i dont know if i like him its hard cause i dumped him before so its just i have a feeling im not ready for a b/f and i tried to call him but he never answers what should i do?

You're only 11...you don't have to feel ready. Most girls don't feel ready to have a real boyfriend until they are 14 or 15. You said that you THINK he likes you. If he's your boyfriend, than he should let you know that he loves you for sure. I think that you should let it go. Wait a couple of years, you don't have to rush things. Your relationships will be more meaningful if you wait until you find someone you love that loves you back.

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my sis is 17 yrs old and she just told my family that shes preganant...idk wut to do but cry! she is under alot of stress bc my parents r trying to get he to get an abortion! im only 15! im not rsy to be an aunt! wut should i do to help my sis? she alrdy said no to getting an abortion! HELP!

Be there for her whenever you can. Just be really helpful to her. Do her chores for her if you have time. Try to avoid talking to her about the baby unless she brings it up first. Don't say that she's getting big when she starts to show. Most importantly, don't act embarassed to be around her. Go to movies with her, go out for pizza with her, stuff you would do with your friends. After the baby is born, volunteer to babysit whenever you can.

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when you call a guy that you met through someone else, what do you say to them?? answer asap!!! i rate!

Say "Hi, I'm (your name here), my friend (friend's name here) gave me your number...remember, she wanted us to meet? So, what have you been up to today?" and go from there.

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i think that im kind of annoying to my friends. i always want to do something different, and sometimes i bug them too much about something. its the way i am, and sometimes its hard 4 me to be different. i have alot of friends, because my nature is 2 be nice, but if i know some1 for a long time i tend to get like this. what should i do?

Let people have their own way sometimes. Like if you and a couple of other people are going to the movies, let them pick the movies. Try to listen more and talk less. Don't interrupt people if they are in the middle of a sentence.

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i bought a thong but it's really uncomfortable! Do you have to get used to them? any tips?

It's kind of like a bra. It feels really awkward at first, but after a while, you forget that it's there. The only thing you can do is wait. Try wearing them while you sleep, it might help.

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For everybody out there why do you support Bush? If you don't why don't you?

I don't support Bush because a lot of his views go against mine. I'm catholic, but not a very strict one. Bush is basing his government on the bible, and I don't think that's fair because this is a free country, and not everyone believes in the bible. I think this war was just a strategy to get himself reelected. There doesn't seem to be any real reason for the war, and the fact that he keeps changing the reason just supports that theory. He is also against abortion. I don't think he should be able to tell women what to do with their bodies, espcially rape victims. 13 and 14 year olds who get pregnant are likely to die in childbirth because their hips arn't wide enough to deliver a child. Why is Bush more concerned about saving a child who can't even think or feel pain yet than a child who has been around for 14 or 15 years? I know that he supports it if it was rape, but rape is very hard to prove. Also, I dont understand why he won't legalize gay marriage. Marriage means love. Love sees no gender. It's legal for drunk couples to get married in drive through casinos in Vegas, but not for 2 people of the same sex who love each other?

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I RLY RLY RLY hate my body.. al my friends wish they had ine an guys always flirt wit me but i wanna lose weight, even though no one thinks i need to ,i need for myself, ya know? but i cant. its like i work out but im already.. muscler. an i dont wanna b like this he she cause of workin out lol but i dont know, anyone know some good fun diets.. or just away for me to love myself. i have rly low selfassteem and it rly brings me down.. i dunno thanx.

I think it's great that you are losing weight for yourself, not for other people. Try buying some excersize tapes. Buy 3 or 4, so you can do a different workout every couple of days and you won't get bored of excercizing. Also, if you have an Xbox or other game system, get Dance Dance Revolution. It's a fun dance game, and a great workout. If you want to fight the urge to eat junk, try having a tic tac when you feel like eating it. It works for me.

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