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my sis is pregnant wut should i do?
my sis is 17 yrs old and she just told my family that shes preganant...idk wut to do but cry! she is under alot of stress bc my parents r trying to get he to get an abortion! im only 15! im not rsy to be an aunt! wut should i do to help my sis? she alrdy said no to getting an abortion! HELP!
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she should NOT get an abortion...thats just like murder...help her through it and if she descided to keep the baby then help her with the baby...
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Well, there`z not much yOu can dO... but tha One thinq u can dO is be there fOr her 10o% - she`z qOnna need yOu!!
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just support her, i mean she is obviously very responsible sense she said no to the abortion and she really needs support of any kind right now.
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well babe...im 15 and have 3 nieces...i have been an aunt since 2nd grade...and its not so bad at all...it first it was a lil sketchy...but i got used to it...! dont worry things will work out...and i think its not the right thing if ur sister gets an abortion...she did the deed she hasta pay the price...not that the baby is a bad thing but u know...being an aunt isnt anything different...u dont feel any different...u just know ur an aunt...i think that u should sitck it through sweetie...and crying isnt anything bad at all...let it all out...makes ya feel better...i hope i can help..and if u have any more problems ask me bout them kk! love ya xoxo ...rate me <3 :)
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ok i've been through this accept i was 13 nd now im 14 .. and my older half sister got pregnant and she was only 16 .. my parents were mad cause she was living with us but she messed up alot she got in jailall this stuff .. but when she got pregnant i wa sin shock .. she was only 16 and im an aunt at 13? my parents told her to have the baby though but put her into foster care .. but she didnt she dropped out of school got her own place her "bf" worked nd beat her up nd her life sucked .. so i kno im not really helping but i think the BEST thing if ur parents rnt willing to take care of the baby with her is to put the baby for adoption unless ur sister can control the situation .. i kno how u feel but it will pass by me and my sisters were in shock for lyk a week . i didnt evn wanna go to school to deal w. gossip but did and i dealed with it .. so im sure ull be fine u jst have to wait it out i dunno wat else to say .. im me if u wanna talk .. liddlelxlcandice
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I personally think abortion is wrong. You may not be ready to be an aunt but she may or may not be ready to be a mother. I think that no one should ever have an abortion but thats just my opinon. If your sister doesent want to have an abortion and isent ready to be a young mother then she could always consider adoption. There are many people that want children and cannot have them that would love to have a child! As for you learn from her mistakes and be there for her as much as possible.
I hope i helped
Britt
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awe im so sorry.. you must be going through a HARD ass time right now.. umm.. theres not much you can do but be supportive of her! try not to cry.. just try be strong around her and not let her see you cry because that will just remind her of her mistake and make her all sad.. just try ot be all happy and stuff around her-even though its gunna be hard you just have to.. just try not to keep things inside.. if you wanna talk or anything just write to me and we can talk! its perfectly fine!! good luck!
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Be there for her whenever you can. Just be really helpful to her. Do her chores for her if you have time. Try to avoid talking to her about the baby unless she brings it up first. Don't say that she's getting big when she starts to show. Most importantly, don't act embarassed to be around her. Go to movies with her, go out for pizza with her, stuff you would do with your friends. After the baby is born, volunteer to babysit whenever you can.
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