Hi my name my name is jessica im 11 yrs old and im going out wit this boy that i think likes me but i dont know if i like him its hard cause i dumped him before so its just i have a feeling im not ready for a b/f and i tried to call him but he never answers what should i do?
EmO_EmMa answered Monday July 26 2004, 4:34 am: If this guy isn't gonna answer u when you call him he is so not worth your time. you need a guy who respects you. also, if u don't feel that ur ready for a bf its not a good idea to have one. u might end up hurting yourself. [ EmO_EmMa's advice column | Ask EmO_EmMa A Question ]
xxjools27xx answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:57 pm: honey, first of all, if you dont feel comfortable, then dont go through with it. if you like him, awesome, but if you dont then just tell him you only want to be friends. if you dont know how to put it, try saying something like listen our relationship was awesome, but i can only see you as a friend. hopefully then he wont be too upset and will still want to hang out with you in the future. good luck!! hope i helped!!!
HollyAnn2282 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:34 pm: Maybe go to his house or something... maybe keep trying to call him until you get ahold of him! Just let him know you're not ready for a boyfriend. Good luck
-holly-
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Hello180 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:00 pm: it sounds like one of those relationships that 11 year olds have. Where you break up and go out and break up because ya'll dont know how to resolve a conflict. You could try to be mature and work things out, but your young, energetic, and should be out having a wonderful time, so what's the rush? [ Hello180's advice column | Ask Hello180 A Question ]
GC_rox_my_sox answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:49 pm: You're only 11...you don't have to feel ready. Most girls don't feel ready to have a real boyfriend until they are 14 or 15. You said that you THINK he likes you. If he's your boyfriend, than he should let you know that he loves you for sure. I think that you should let it go. Wait a couple of years, you don't have to rush things. Your relationships will be more meaningful if you wait until you find someone you love that loves you back. [ GC_rox_my_sox's advice column | Ask GC_rox_my_sox A Question ]
Sara8047 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:46 pm: Did you ever think he doesnt wana talk to you right now cuz hes heartbroken..maybe give him some space and then maybe after hes cooled down talk to him in person and not on the phone [ Sara8047's advice column | Ask Sara8047 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:45 pm: Hey Jessica =)
If you're going out with him, wouldn't that imply that he likes you?
If you don't like him, then you should drop the relationship before you end up hurting him.
To me, it sounds like you're both a little young to really be getting into this kind of stuff. It also sounds like you're not really going out, if he never answers the phone, and you even think you're not ready for a boyfriend.
If that's the case, then you need to tell him that.
Good luck!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
hErEtoheLp answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:44 pm: Well, babe, you're sort of young to be having a boyfriend... I mean, I guess when I was that age too people where having boyfriends.. but you're 11, don't worry about anything right now like BOYS! Believe me, that's going to become your whole life in a bout 2 or 3 years... as of now, have em' as freinds, have fun with them, and if you're not ready... then the best thing to do is to tell him you just wanna be freidns...and maybe later on, when you both are older.. if ya'll still talk... maybe then it'd work out better. [ hErEtoheLp's advice column | Ask hErEtoheLp A Question ]
xoxBrittny52xox answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:43 pm: Hey Jessica....i was in a situation pretty close 2 urs! jus talk 2 him tell him how you feel..hes gunna get hurt but u hafta let him kno sooner or laydah! i meen if ur not rdy then its not gunna work so u guys will end up breaking up ne waiiz
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