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hello! i'm abby. october is my birth month! i am a cheerleader on competition this year. i got hurt at one of the camps over the summer and now i am in a leg brace because of it. i tore a ligament and chipped a bone, all because i twisted my ankle. haha, i'm a klutz. and i am also a self-proclaimed helpless romantic, i've read too many fairytales. i am a non-cusser, and i hate hearing cuss words. love me or hate me, it's your choice.
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Are tacos good in a diet are they unhealthy or healthy
Hard shell tacos are better for you than soft shell, but I am not sure it they are GOOD for you...probably.
hey guys....
okay so i did the thing with my boyfriend on sunday...with no protection....we're both fine and everything and he pulled out before anything came out but ive been reading things on the "pre" stuff if you know what that is and it is possible that you could get pregnant that way...i read that nothing really happens till after the first 5 days and today, wednesday, the third day, i feel fine i dont think anything happened....do you think i should take a pregnancy test just incase?
Yes, it is always good to be safe.
Yesterday I went and bought an outfit and it was way to big on my waist. But, I had nothing else to wear so I put that on and left. During the day the skirt slide down farther and you could see my underwear through the shirt because it was white! I am so embarrassed! I want to try to go back looking better than today because today what I did was pretty dorky. I have a red v-neck that I could wear jean shorts with, a green v-neck with sequins on the shoulders that I would wear with jean shorts, brown bermuda shorts with a yellow shirt that has sequins around buttons that are near the top of the shirt or a solid white shirt(scoop or v-neck), solid black scoop neck with white bermuda shorts, solid black scoop neck with blue jean mini skirt. which one?
Try the yellow shirt with brown bermuda shorts, this shouts out hey look at me I am so fasionable.
Or
The red v-neck with the jean shorts to say, don't pay much attetion to me, but I look better than I did yesterday.
Or
The green v-neck ( not recommened ) with jean short, it shouts LOOK AT ME I AM WEARING GREEN AND I AM PROUND!!!
Or
THE BLACK AND WHITE OUTFITS that say, I am boring, but I got style...HOPE I HELP!
I have a feeling that i am going anorexic again...I was for about 2 years and i stopped..gained a lot of weight..but now im cutting down on food cuz im never hungry and my boyfriend makes me eat..but i keep on loosing weight SOOO fast...( like i was a size 8, 2 weeks ago and now they practically are falling off of me!) I dont know what to do! Help!
Geez, I have never been anorexic so I don't know mush but here it goes. Even though you are not hungry still try to eat, mabye for the first day eat a slim fast bar. You can eat and not gain weight. Then eat a little more the next day. And on the 3rd day fit exersize into you day...If this doesn't work go to the doctor, maybe bring along your boyfriend for comfort...
2 months ago me and my boy broke up, we spent every single day of that month together that we were going out so we got really close. he was my first for a lot of things, but no i didnt give it up. He would always say things to me like i love you, or well.. atleast this is the closest thing to love ive ever been. He treated me like gold! He made me feel like i was the most beautiful girl ever.While we were goin out school was still goin on, almost about to be over and i was doin sports. I was never in a good mood and didnt really give him the best time ever that i could have. We always fought, about stupid lil silly things like me talkin to other guys and such, which i would never do. But i just came to find we both got jealous easily, and i thought it was a good thing, it showed how much we reallly cared for each other. I started losin my friends because they said we hung out to much, i tried to do whats right, when i hadnt made plans with my boy that day i would chill with my girls, or i would work my girls and my boy into my plans for the day. My boy thought i didnt wanna be with him, and i guess i kinda see why now. Over the summer for about the past month ive been talkin to this one cutee kid from my school. We've only hung outt like 5 times and most we've done is madeout. I know that he treats girls good, he used to like one of my friends and treated her like gold. He's close to my family too, and hes sooo nice! I thought maybe this could be something new, something to help me move on past my last boy. Recently my new boy told me he told me he doesnt want a relationship, he wants to be single going into school and wants to be able to do his own thing, and he said it might change he just needs time to see how things go. He says he really likes me and i can tell,but hes always with other people and we barely hang out.and now with sports startin up he'll def. be too busy. I always am comparing him to my ex, and i cant lie.. im still in love with him. All the time i keep thinking to myself i just wanna hang out with my ex, talk to him.. tell him im sorry, treat him the way i should. But for one, when me and him do talk now a days he shows no interest. And another thing is, if my new guy finds out i talked to him.. we could be over. And with me doing sports also, ill be soo busy, he might start bitchin if i cant hang out all the time. What should i do with my ex, and this new guy. what do you think would be best for me?
Id really appreciate your help id love you forever=)
Well since I don't know you so well, this is tuff. My advice it to break up with this new guy cause he just doesn't sound right. I think you should tell your ex, you are still in love with him, tell him you guys need to work it out. This new guy is just using you...Sorry to tell you that...Get with your ex- he sounds like he truly cares.
Does anyone have any cute nice names that I could call my boyfriend???
Cutie, Honey Bun, Snukums, Baby, Hun. Go look up cute nick name on Yahoo. I bet they give you a ton of websites.
okay something has really been bugging me lately. i always, always feel like i'm invisible. it's like this .. whenever i'm hanging with one of my friends and other people come along, i turn invisible. people leave me out of their conversations all the time. i feel like i'm just a substitute person or something; like, i feel that most people hang out with me until someone "better" comes along. and you wouldn't believe how many times people have said to me "omg i'm so sorry i forgot about you!" people i've met either forget my name or forget me altogether and when i say hi they're like "do i know you?" it seems to happen alot. and guys always ignore me, even though people say i'm pretty, and i know i'm really not unattractive. i really don't see what's going on, i'm nice to everyone and i would never do that to anyone, but it seems like the mean people who ditch other people have more people talking to them and everyone wants to hang around with them. and i have a lot of friends, but i wonder why it always seems to happen to me. maybe i'm just not agressive enough, who knows? but i really need help on this one, like advice on how to become more noticed and less invisible. thnx.
Either ditch the friends or become noticable! When someone forgets your name go " DUH IT'S ME, __________" Shout it like really loud. I am sure they won't forget you. And when people ditch you, but right back in and say " UH! YOU FORGOT ME!!! " ....I thnk they forget you cause you don't talk enough. Talk more, share jokes...talk about girly stuff! Be the best you can be if this advice doesn't work. Mail me privately...
yesterday i spent the night at my friend savannah's.
we went through her woods to meet my boyfriend @ 2 in the morning..bunch of bugs.
then i used her deoderent this morning..
and i shaved yesterday..
i have a really annoying rash under my underarms and it hurts really really bad..and i dont know what it is so i dont know how to treat it..
any idea?
It could be the type of deoderent she uses or, poke your underarm...Does it hurt?? If so it might be razor burn.
I recently asked a question and what type of pregnancy test to get since my period is late. I'm not even worried about my late period anymore, i'm just completely scared. My boyfriend and I have been talking about this and he feels that abortion is our best option since im only 16 and hes 18. I don't believe in abortion unless under very specific circumstances.
My parents don't even know i'm sexually active, and i was wondering, if this I actually am pregnant, how the hell do I tell them. He hasn't even met them yet, and I dont think my parents are going to want to here, mom dad this is ***************, oh and by the way, i'm so many months pregnant. Not exactly the best introduction.
What I'm asking is.. how will I tell my parents that i'm pregnant by a guy they just go to meet. I've known him for a long time and hes my best friend, but theyre still going to freak. Someone please help
Oh geez...I can't believe you are pregnant. Is it scary? I bet so, but it is probably even scary that you have to tell your parents about a "UNKNOWN BOYFRIEND" and that you are pregnant. Scary stuff.
Well first things first, you are too young to be pregnant, and abortion is a bad thing, but it might be right for you.
Secondly, bring your boyfriend to dinner, and be like "This is my boyfriend, we have been seeing each other for a while now, and we just recently ( or whenever ) got pregnant. I know this is very scary, but it is even scary for me and ______. We were thinking to get an abortion because we don't have enough time to take care for one of our own, and we aren't ready for the responsability yet. Please forgive me. " Then go up and give them a hug....
HOPE I HELPED - ADVICEABBY!!
Female. I used to have a lot of best guy friends, we had this huge group. One guy got all of them in to drugs, now they spend their days getting stoned. They're so perverted now, they expect since I have big boobs that I`ll do things with them. I've fallen really hard for one guy, he's totally sweet and respects me, but I hear from everybody he does drugs too and he's not a virgin. (Keep in mind, were 13)
What should I do? Is this guy totally unsafe and wrong to be around?
He is not totally unsafe...but he is a little dangerous, but maybe you like the ruff type. I think you should talk to him and say " Look sdrugs arn't cool...See what he says. Get back to me, Advice Abby!
ok, me and my girlfriend have decided we want to have sex, the only probleam is i am not sure how i am going to get my hands on a condom, i am 13, and don't give me stuff saying im too young or anything cause we have made up are mind, im just not sure how i can get my hand on some condoms. can i just buy them? what? and also what kind should i get?
Go to a place with few people like a almost out of buiness grocery store. OR! Better yet say your dad sent you. Trust me there is not age limit..Be safe!
this might be silly
but what do you do when your on third base with your boyfriend?
please help. thank you
I think first bass is kissing
Second bass is feeling
Third is makeout I think.
and fourth is all the way.
hi. ok i was just wondering if there was any software or like an online thingy where i can put my photo in and like change the color of my hair, make up, etc.???? i have a cd rom for it but it doesnt work on my computer my computer is too advanced for it. so i was just wondering if there was any online thingy that does the same?? thanks.
OMG, that sounds cool. I know they have stuff and best buy and sam's club, they're like 60$ though..But, they are really nice ones. Hope I helped! - Advice Abby!
ok so a couple of weeks ago i was at the movies with a couple of friends. one of which i really like. so we started making out and "feeling" on each other. then he undid my belt and i sort of kicked him. and he was like "oh sorry is that too far?" and i said i dunno. so he
re-did my belt (it was the cutest thing ever) and we proceded with the "kissing and feeling". im 14. so my question is...should i have let him into my pants and such?
No, to far, your only 14!! OMG! Easy answer. Put it this way ( this will be your answer ) Would you have gone in HIS pants???
Guys, my dog is an inside puppy, hes about 10 weeks old, and we leave him outside sometimes, like when we have to leave, and when he was out there today, he found out how to open one of the ant poison things, AND ate everything in it!!!!
Does anybody know fi thats strong enough to kill him?! PLEASE HELP ME
Call poision control, PRONTO...Since he is a puppy it might be bad, hopefully not....Good luck! - Advice Abby
Hi i noticed you have me as a faforit advicenator!! thats so awsomly cool!!!! mabie we can chat sometime online? well hope to see you around!
cjAdvice
aka: christine :D
Hey! Yeah. Maybe, I put you as my favortie because I like how you type or in our case give advice.
Hey I asked this one person if I could babysit for her at the begining of last summer. She said she would call me when she needed me, but she has never called me. Should I go back over there and ask her again?
No, that would be considered rude. If I were you I would forget about her and ask totally different people. It is obvious she doesn't want your help. Sorry, better luck next time.
ok i really really REALLY wanna lose the weith in my stomach inner thighs fingers lol and upper arms what are some things i can do....exercisies diet any thing thanks!!!
Slimfast bars and Step Arobics, they help very much.
ok i am 5'4" and i weigh 106.5 lbs. am i overweight? is it irrational to think that i am fat???people tell me i worry too much i dont c y though.please help!
also latley i have been feeling guilty after i eat. help with that too plz.
I don't think you are overweight. Let me check. Okay, you are underweight/ healthy. That is very good. Don't worry so much.
Hello. . .19/f here with a problem...
I met this guy about 2 months ago. We've already had sex, and we act like a couple to an extent. . spending a lot of time with each other, kissing/cuddling/ect, talking on the phone for hours... He has told me that he cares for me and loves me.
He's afraid to be in a relationship, though, because his last (very serious) girlfriend cheated on him with his brother and is now pregnant with his brother's baby. He doesn't trust anyone. He has admitted to me, though, that he holds back some of his feelings for me.
Some days, he's very sweet to me and wants to be around and is very affectionate. Other days, he's kind of cold and shuts me out a little bit. Either way, he wants to hang out; it's just the way he acts around me that varies.
He has bi-polar disorder. I'm begining to think that maybe this disorder, although medicated, is making him act this way.
So these are my questions.
1. Does anyone have manic depression/bi-polar disorder? If you do, can you tell me how this disorder effects your social skills?
2. I want to be in a relationship with him, but I don't know how to help him take that extra step to trust me. He says "I love you, but i'm not in love with you. I don't think I could be in love with anyone." How can I help him stop holding back?
I'll rate you highly if you at least try to help.
Thanks.
Bi-polar...Wow. I have heard that word quite a bit. I might be a little angry a few times in the day but I am not bi-polar. I hear it is very scary. I few minutes you are very happy, then you get moody. Sometimes it is like beening mad at your best friend. You just need to talk more about his life go deeper into his heart. Then maybe he will be "in love" with you. Good luck!