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this is really long, but what boy should i be with
2 months ago me and my boy broke up, we spent every single day of that month together that we were going out so we got really close. he was my first for a lot of things, but no i didnt give it up. He would always say things to me like i love you, or well.. atleast this is the closest thing to love ive ever been. He treated me like gold! He made me feel like i was the most beautiful girl ever.While we were goin out school was still goin on, almost about to be over and i was doin sports. I was never in a good mood and didnt really give him the best time ever that i could have. We always fought, about stupid lil silly things like me talkin to other guys and such, which i would never do. But i just came to find we both got jealous easily, and i thought it was a good thing, it showed how much we reallly cared for each other. I started losin my friends because they said we hung out to much, i tried to do whats right, when i hadnt made plans with my boy that day i would chill with my girls, or i would work my girls and my boy into my plans for the day. My boy thought i didnt wanna be with him, and i guess i kinda see why now. Over the summer for about the past month ive been talkin to this one cutee kid from my school. We've only hung outt like 5 times and most we've done is madeout. I know that he treats girls good, he used to like one of my friends and treated her like gold. He's close to my family too, and hes sooo nice! I thought maybe this could be something new, something to help me move on past my last boy. Recently my new boy told me he told me he doesnt want a relationship, he wants to be single going into school and wants to be able to do his own thing, and he said it might change he just needs time to see how things go. He says he really likes me and i can tell,but hes always with other people and we barely hang out.and now with sports startin up he'll def. be too busy. I always am comparing him to my ex, and i cant lie.. im still in love with him. All the time i keep thinking to myself i just wanna hang out with my ex, talk to him.. tell him im sorry, treat him the way i should. But for one, when me and him do talk now a days he shows no interest. And another thing is, if my new guy finds out i talked to him.. we could be over. And with me doing sports also, ill be soo busy, he might start bitchin if i cant hang out all the time. What should i do with my ex, and this new guy. what do you think would be best for me?
Id really appreciate your help id love you forever=)
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I think you should just wait it out. Eventually, you'll find what's best for you. [:
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Well since I don't know you so well, this is tuff. My advice it to break up with this new guy cause he just doesn't sound right. I think you should tell your ex, you are still in love with him, tell him you guys need to work it out. This new guy is just using you...Sorry to tell you that...Get with your ex- he sounds like he truly cares.
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