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Not worried.. just plain scared!
I recently asked a question and what type of pregnancy test to get since my period is late. I'm not even worried about my late period anymore, i'm just completely scared. My boyfriend and I have been talking about this and he feels that abortion is our best option since im only 16 and hes 18. I don't believe in abortion unless under very specific circumstances.
My parents don't even know i'm sexually active, and i was wondering, if this I actually am pregnant, how the hell do I tell them. He hasn't even met them yet, and I dont think my parents are going to want to here, mom dad this is ***************, oh and by the way, i'm so many months pregnant. Not exactly the best introduction.
What I'm asking is.. how will I tell my parents that i'm pregnant by a guy they just go to meet. I've known him for a long time and hes my best friend, but theyre still going to freak. Someone please help
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Before you assume anything or even begin to think about abortions and adoption, get an over-the-counter pregnancy test and confirm whether you actually are pregnant or not. If you are, then you still have to talk to your parents if you want an abortion because you're a minor.
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If you don't beleive in the killing of a innocent child, then don't do it..simple as that. I say find out for sure if your pregnant first, you may be stressing over NOTHING! If it turns out your are, you really dont have a choice but to tell your parents. Maybe not in the same day though? Like introduce him to your parents, wait a couple weeks then drop the bomb.
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Ok first of all don't allow your boyfriend to pressure you into a decsion. Also don't introduce him to your parents and then say by the way he also helped me to make a baby, allow the first dinner to be untainted at least in their minds. Yes it will be stressful but alot easier in the longrun.
When you tell your parents be prepared for the firestorm. If you feel you have a much better relationship with your mother talk to her first so she can help calm your dad down. There is no easy way to do this, but it will be a little easier if you make your mind up prior to talking to them about what you want to do.
Hope this helps.
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Oh geez...I can't believe you are pregnant. Is it scary? I bet so, but it is probably even scary that you have to tell your parents about a "UNKNOWN BOYFRIEND" and that you are pregnant. Scary stuff.
Well first things first, you are too young to be pregnant, and abortion is a bad thing, but it might be right for you.
Secondly, bring your boyfriend to dinner, and be like "This is my boyfriend, we have been seeing each other for a while now, and we just recently ( or whenever ) got pregnant. I know this is very scary, but it is even scary for me and ______. We were thinking to get an abortion because we don't have enough time to take care for one of our own, and we aren't ready for the responsability yet. Please forgive me. " Then go up and give them a hug....
HOPE I HELPED - ADVICEABBY!!
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