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This boy acted liked me for about a month and a half then just completely stopped talking to me. I guess he liked me, now he doesn't. Problem is, I like him now. I was lead on, now completely ditched. How can I get over this quick? I realized he's an asshole, but it still really hurts. Help?

if he's an asshole, stay away. there's no need to be friends with someone like that either. i would suggest just start looking for someone else. i realized that the best way to get over someone is to meet new people & hang out with them. even though right now it seems difficult to get over, sooner or later it will go away.

-hope that helped!♥

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okay. this is really complicated.
but i need help..amd fast.

theres this guy.
lets call him dan.

we went out over the summer.
..we never kissed =0

i broke up with hima fter 2 weeks. cause we was too clingy.
now we flirt a lot. however, in octoberish he went out with one of my close friends to try to get over me. he broke up with her. long story short he might still like me.
a little while ago he asked me to be his valentine. i said yes.

do i get him a gift? or what?
pleaseeeeeeeeeeee help!

so i give him a kiss on the cheak? i dont know =\

since he asked you to be his valentine, you should probably get him something small. maybe just a card & candy or something. yeah, just give him a hug & a kiss. he must like you if he asked you.

-hope that helped!♥

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Iam trying to fit into a skirt and i want to lose 5 pounds how can i do that in a healthy fast way?

losing 5 lbs isn't too hard if you stick with it. you can probably lose it in 1-2 weeks depending on what you do. stick to a somewhat strict diet. here's a few ideas-

breakfast: a bowl of special k and some orange juice
lunch: mix it up. pb & j sandwich, yogurt, carrots & dip, strawberries, apples, celery & peanut butter, cheese & crackers, tuna on wheat bread, pasta, etc etc.
dinner: a meat & a veggie, salad, rice, etc etc.

for exercising, try jogging for about 30 minutes a day or do some type of cardiovasuclar exercise. keep that up & cut out sweets & soda.

-hope that helped!♥

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Love at 16...?
What do you guys think? Is it possible? Or is it just a bunch of teen emotions?

yes, totally possibly. i fell in love at 13 and im in love now & im 16. i think sometimes its teen emotions & in a lot of cases it is, but you know when you love someone.

-hope that helped!♥

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ok, well i need to loose weight, and fast. im pretty much average weight for my age, but i seem heavier than everone else. i dont play any winter or spring sports, but i play tennis in the summer. and i have friends who play no sports, eat like pigs, do absolutly no exercises at all, and have perfectt bodies. every day i run for about 30 minutes and do about 200-250 crunches. ive been doing this for two or three weeks, i know im not going to see any results yet, but, am i doing enough to see any differnce? my weight is always on my mind, not that im all fat or anything, its just not good enough for what i want. ive been eating one meal a day with maybe one or two snacks in between, is there any more i can do? should i be seeing a differnce anytime soon?

no, you're doing a lot of things wrong. im not going to sugar coat this and im just gonna be honest. you CANT eat only one meal a day with snacks. nope not going to happen. you could easily pass out & get sick from doing that. you have to eat at least 3 meals, even if its just a salad, a yogurt, etc. i would suggest seeing a doctor for diet suggestions or just stick to eating fruits & veggies. the exercising is fine, but i've learned that to lose weight, crunches don't help. it's running and cardiovascular exercises that help you lose weight. crunches are more for toning.

-hope that helped!♥

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I am Catholic. I made my confirmation last year. Except the thing is.. i wasnt really ready. i didnt know god as much as i do now. I am such a better Christian now. I feel connected to him now. I pray every night and follow god as much as i possibly could. I dont cuss or drink or smoke or have sex..or do bad stuff. I kind of picked a confirmation saint name without thinking. It doesnt really relate to me, or hve much meaning to me. of course i researched it, and i thought it was really cool what she did.
But sometimes i think some things we as Catholics do, are kind of pointless. i know god would love me just as much if i wasnt confirmed. baptists dont get confirmed. and i actually dont remember my confirmation as being one of those heart touching special moments.

Am i wrong for feeling this way?
I just want to follow god w/out having to do these things that i find pointless...

no, i've had a lot of the same thoughts as you. im catholic myself & there's a lot of things in the catholic religion that i do not believe in but i've gotten confirmed anyway. almost like you had to?? don't worry about feeling that way & don't feel guilty. believe it or not a lot of people feel like you do. i think i was too young to be confirmed because i was in ms & i didn't really appreciate it as much. as long as you follow God & believe in him, you're set. by asking this question, you know you learned from it & can move on. maybe just keep going to church & see what you think. when you get older or get married, you can always change your mind and follow a different religion. just don't jump to conclusions before you truly figure it out & try not regetting getting confirmed. you might change your mind later.

-hope that helped!♥

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So everytime i like a guy, and they start to like me, i stop liking them like the second after, and i have no idea why, it makes me mad, and i feel horrible about the boy. I don't have commitment problems, and i know i'm actually a pretty good girlfriend, i just, don't know what to do. And its not because i'm immature or not ready, i've had serious ralationships before. Am i afraid of being hurt, ugh, i don't even know.

just relax. maybe its because you know they aren't the right bf for you. trust me, when some guy comes along that you will really like & want to be with, it won't be that way. just try being friends with them. maybe its because you know they like you & there's no chase anymore?? basically, when you really really like someone, that will stop happening with that guy.

-hope that helped!♥

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Please Help Me!
I'm looking to buy either a Panisonic gs120 or a Canon Optura 50. It will be used for filming mainly skateboard videos. Can you please help me out. I know the paniasonic is 3ccd which is a plus but i have heard great things aboutthe optura as well.

there's reviews on each one-

http://www.vnunet.com/computeractive/hardware/2013505/panasonic-gs120
and
http://reviews.cnet.com/Canon_Optura_50/4505-6500_7-31287863.html

i read both of those & i would probably go with the panisonic. if you want to tape your skateboarding videos during the day, then either would be fine, but like it said in the reviews, the canon does not do well with night & doesn't have great light quality or sound.

my friend skateboards like a maniac & has a panisonic model & he uses youtube for his videos & they come out really well. that's my opinion though. i would suggest going to different stores with both & testing them out in the store.

-hope that helped!♥

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so im a pretty big guy, 16 and a junior. I know a very intelligent freshmen and would consider asking her out on a date or somthing. only thing is she is a little small and she is a freshman. the freshman part wouldnt be so bad if she wasnt as underdeveloped. it would feel awkward to do anything intimate with her since i would feel she is a bit small. well, it's up to you guys. do i ask her out and just wait for the day when she gets a little more physically mature to have an intimate moment, or do I hold off on asking her out untill next year when it will be a bit less unusual, Senior Sophmore. but if i do that i run the risk of losing her intrest or my own intrest in her. any advice is appreciated :)

this is definately up to you. since you're a guy, the junior with a freshman thing isn't totally weird. think of it this way, when you're 25, she'll be 23. big deal. it's all up to how much you like her. if she's small & not as mature than a sophmore/junior girl & that really has a lot of affect on things, then wait, but don't think she will wait. maybe you just want to try staying friends before you decide anything. you probably shouldn't jump that far ahead & think of 'intimate things' because that's a bit too far. talk to her about it & let her know how you feel. that way things can straighten out themselves & you can take everything into consideration & then make your decision.

-hope that helped!♥

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i am 18 female. i have meet a boy who is 16 and will be 17 in April. he is a wounderful person great personialty and soo sexy. i'm s0 worried about what everyone is going to say about me and him? right now he is grounded and it's hard for us tohang out with each other and by the time he is gettting off grounded he will be moving over here closer to me and i'll be getting my license back. my question is. should i give this a shot and just say screw what everyone says?
cuz i can honestly see my self fallin in love with this guy

who cares what anyone else thinks. its your life, your relationship. why would you want to ruin something that could be great over other peoples opinions?? if they're your friends/family they should respect your decision. if you two have fun together & really like each other, go for it. there's nothing wrong with that. since you are 18 and an adult, you can't do the obvious things together, but he will be 17 soon so it's not a huge difference.

-hope that helped!♥

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what are the pros and cons of the iphone? what service provider is the iphone under and how much does it cost? from somone who has one or has held one, is it smaller or larger?is there a keyboard on it? if not, how do you type in the website on the internet, ect.? any other details would be muchhhh appreciated.

thanks=]

i don't have the iphone, but i have seen a lot of youtube reviews on it & i personally don't like it. the service provider is cingular. the cost depends on what type of iphone you get. here's a break down of the prices-

[taken from gizmodo & includes a 2 year contract]
8 GB- $599
4 GB- $499

the iphone itself without a contact is somewhere around $700 for the 4 GB and $900 for the 8 GB.

the size is a bit big. it's basically the size of your palm, finger tips to your wrist. the features are included in the youtube review. there isn't a keyboard or any buttons on it. its all touch screen.

here's the website that i saw the review-

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xvMasa9gfEc

-hope that helped!♥

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like i use dafont.com & when i download the font, how can i use it? please send a site or DETAILED information. thanks :]

okay whatever you save it in you have to remember.

-click on SAVE FONT on the right hand side
-after that, a box will come up telling you to pick a place you want to save it in. i would suggest making a new folder and putting it in my documents
-after that, open up the program you want to use the font with. example-paint, word, etc etc.
-once that is open & you're ready to go, go to my documents, the folder where you saved your font, & open it
-there will be two icons usually. one will just be a read through, but one will actually open the font itself. it will have an example of what the font looks like. usually a bunch of random sentences. keep that one open!
-start typing in whatever program you're using & search for the font on the text toolbar. [the place where you pick what font you use].
-when you're all done, save whatever & then you can close it.

if you don't keep the font document open, you won't be able to use the font.

-hope that helped!♥

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who said this
I like the kellogs box because in th middle of the word kellogs it says ello, like a british greeting, ello govna

is it dane cook?

i'm not sure if he originally said it or something, but it's on a commercial for kellogs & it isn't with dane cook. it's with some random guy.

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can you go on the internet with the ENV? like how you can with the sidekick?

i have the enV and you can go on the internet like any other regular phone. it's a VCAST phone. you still need to pay fees & pay for instant messages.

-hope that helped!♥

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mk, this girl who is my best friend and has been since 3rd grade is the biggest hypocrite who has even been born on this earth.
for example, she said she hated when people go, "umm okayy?" or, "okay..." and then she does it. she said she hated the word drama and she uses it. she said she hated this girl, amanda, (who is supposedly her best friend) and then she suddenly loves her when she feels like it. she said she hated this girl, nicole, & then she acts like they are really good friends. she said she hated ae, a&f, & hco .. then she goes out and buys 30473982423 things from those places.
GOD! i can't stand it. what should i do to make her stop!?

sounds like a typical girl to me haha anyways, yeah just confront her about it. give her examples & why you think its really annoying when she does that. that way she'll either stop, or get mad & if she does, then she wouldn't be the best to be friends with anyways right?? soo yeah just be honest about it because you'd probably want to know if something you did annoyed your friend.

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ive been with my boyfriend almost 7 months and i have him very much. but is it bad that if im out like at the mall or something and some hott guy starts talking to me like he has some interest in me i almost dont want to tell them i have a boyfriend because i dont wanna stop the flirting and make him lose interest? by the way when i do this i have no interest in hanging out or dating them, i just love that feeling of being pursued haha but i feel kind of guilty about it.

i wouldn't really say it's a bad thing & to be honest a lot of girls do it. if it's a serious relationship, you should probably try to stop doing that. if you keep it up, you'll eventually run into a guy who gets interested & could lead into cheating, but if you think you have it under control then its not such a big deal. how would you feel if he was doing that?? however you answer that question will kind of give you an idea if it would still be a good idea to do that or not.

-hope that helped!♥

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i have itunes and i deleted the songs on my computer but the songs are still in itunes.. i just cant play it in itunes but does that mean the songs will still always be on my ipod or do i cant delete the songs off my computer? i dlete the songs off the computer so i can save more space ..thanks

if you delete the files off your computer, when you go to open them up on itunes they won't work. if you try updating your ipod, the songs that don't work on itunes, won't work on your ipod. they'll be on your ipod as long as you don't update it.

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im 16 and im 4'11 and i weight 107 pounds and i want to gain more weight in my breast and butt ; are their any types of foods that will help ? or workouts i could do ? thanksz

sorry to say, but you can't target your weight to certain areas of your body. i would suggest eating normally & maybe do exercises. since you're 16, you're still young & can get bigger boobs, but you can't do anything about it. for your butt, there's exercises you can try, but no one can really say if they're successful or not. here's a website-

http://exercise.about.com/cs/exerciseworkouts/tp/butt.htm

-hope that helped!♥

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simplest way to put it, i like 3 guys. they're all my friends. one of them, let's call him Al, is the same race as me, meaning we know each other's family. i used to have a crush on him like, 3 years ago, and i guess it came back. the other one, let's call him jordan, was one of my best friends. he came to our school during 7th grade (i'm now in 8th), and i was his first real friend there. i asked him out around november last year, but he said no. i always feel awkward when i'm around him. the third one, let's call him gary, just started being my friend this school year. we never talked to each other. it all started when he asked me what was math homework.they're all awesome. they're nice, funny, understanding; everything you can ask for in a friend and boyfriend. but i don't like liking 3 guys. it makes me feel slutty. i was wondering who you think i would have a better chance with? here's what i think for each of them:

Al - i think it would be weird going out with him since our parents know each other, and we see each other outside of school a lot, which can be an advantage, but it also means that our parents will know if we do go out

Jackson - i asked him out because i thought i had a chance with him. his reason was because he didn't want to endanger our friendship afterwards if we were to have a relationship.

Gary - i love spending time with him. he's kinda big but he's athletic. he's really cuddly, and i love hugging him. it's great and all, but i know that we're not gonna be in the same high school in 9th grade since he's moving to another city after this school year's over.

who do i have a better chance with and who should do you think would ask me out first? any other opinions about this is very very appreciated!

since we aren't you & don't personally know them, we can't really tell you who to choose. i think you should just make a pros/cons list for both even though that sounds corny. its definately not slutty. your feelings just aren't sorted out. it only becomes slutty if you're dating all 3 & doing things with all of them. you know them the best and yourself the best, so decide which one is best for you. i know it's probably really difficult to do that, but you have to. it isn't fair to them. try going on like dates with each [as friends] to see which one would be better dating.

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I fell for my best friend Jacob,
he liked me too but my previous boyfriend
had cheated on me a few weeks before and I was
still rather torn. Jacob said he understood and
he promised he'd wait until I was ready for
a relationship again. I found out today he asked
out another girl. I don't know what to do any
more, my heart is beyond shattered from both of
these heartbreaks. I can't really trust anyone
anymore, no one's telling me the truth. Where do
I go from here? I still love my boyfriend that
cheated on me, I still feel for the guy that left
me.

talk to your friend about it. that's really mean that he did that, but there could be an explanation. it's normal to still have feelings for an ex boyfriend, so don't worry about that. the thing is, once a cheater-always a cheater. theres nothing wrong with being friends with him though. i mean yes, there are certain situations where they cheat once & it was bad judgement, but that's usually unlikely and rare. still, talk to jacob & see what he says. explain how hurt you are by it, especially since he told you he would wait. it might be best for you to just move on from both. that way you can start new. even this is really lame sounding, there are more fish in the sea & you should be with better.

-hope that helped!♥

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